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Friday, June 19, 2020

FRIDAY IHN

Hailings...................











IN HOUSE MEMO:


If you are interested in starting a column inside in house news,somewitty or educating or inspirational or motivational,please send me a mail ok?

Winner of face of in house news competition,I am yet to get your account details.,if you don't send it today,i will give it to one of the Blog famous five oh...lol

It is more blessed to give than to receive,I am a living proof!!!








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RE- MOTHERS PASTORS PROPHECY CAUSING DEPRESSION



Dear Stella and BVs,

I thought to share this story of mine for the sake of the poster with the Negative prophecy on marriage in yesterday's IHN.


Some years ago, I finished Law School at the age of 21 ,served and started working and seeing good money by 23 years old, I had my car,a Toyota starlet and life was good.


But guess what? No boyfriend, not to talk of suitor or even husband. Another bad twist,my parents have 6 of us and I am the 5th child . All of my siblings were all married including our last born(he got married at 23).
I suddenly had no job again and had to relocate to my town(North Central Nigeria).


That was when the real show started. Both my immediate elder and younger brothers wives were younger than me and we were all living in my parent's house(a big house).When their friends come calling, you will hear loudly, this is my sister in law, she has not seen husband to marry her sarcastically.
My parents nko, I had tiny respect from them cos of my unmarried status. Chei!I suffered menh!


In the neighborhood, I have always been mistaken as being arrogant,but I am actually an introvert.when I go out,you will hear"chus che, daga kafa ake gane wa(hausa language)meaning "evening newspaper"


I eventually got another less paying job in my town, but even the cleaner(no disrespect meant for the job) will talk rudely to me cos they are married and I am not. Infact,they will call me karuwa(ashawo) Normal scenario in the North.
One day, my elder sister told me to get used to my situation because I am not destined for marriage and will never see husband. Infact,she said she has been told years ago by men of God?( I once sent a chronicle on that)


Anyway,at that point, I focused on my job and started applying for other jobs just to leave my town. I turned to God in prayers and went for 10days seclusion in prayers and fasting (we call it Itikhaf in Islam).That was when I was 29years old.


On the 10th day of my seclusion in prayers after crying to God to give me a job to get out of that town,and to settle me maritally, I had a dream,a vision or a trance. I was given a letter in the dream, also,a bright light descended on me and a voice told me,you will get married at the age of 30, and this is your husband's name. 


Joke of the century! believe me,I didn't believe it as powerful as that dream was. Infact,I had no even past boyfriend with that kind of a name and the name is not even a name within my geographic jurisdiction where I can meet anybody like that.


People of God, a week after the prayers, I got a better job but still in my town, 6 months later and exactly a week after my 30th birthday, I got married to a man who has that particular name I was told (in the dream) but the name is his surname. The whole thing was unbelievable but God is not a joke. He has the Master key!


Today, it has been 15 years of marital bliss. Of course,no perfect marriage but I bless God for His grace in my marriage.I will marry my husband all over again and being settled by God Himself,my marriage is divine!


So dear poster, go to God in prayers yourself and reject with prayers all evil,ugly and wicked prophecies concerning your life.Pls ignore all gbaguns and sorry for the long read.
Love and light!




This is positive.....Nice one!!!

I do not trust that anyone has the right to see into anyone's future,that is a scam sold to people...go down on your knees and talk to God.






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TEEJAYS CORNER
CRITICISM: A TOOL FOR IMPROVEMENT.


If ever there's one good thing about criticism, I think its ability to enforce change and improvement comes top most. It serves as an appraisal in checkmating people's conduct and behavioral attitude in the public space. Though can be wrongly done if not constructively carried out.


Every individual at one point in time have been criticized over their actions/inactions but the big question is, what effect was the criticism on you?


In 2018, I joined Stella dimoko korkus's blog and was very active in commenting. Having so much love for writing, I indicated interest in having a weekly corner. Being granted, I started writing. As at the time I began writing, my tenses and words construction were bad I mean so terrible to a point Stella once told me if I didn't improve, she won't be posting my corner anymore.


Assuringly, I pleaded with her that I will do all I can to improve. As a caring mother, she knew the only way I will improve is my continuous writing. So she advised me on steps to take in order to get better. While I was on that, I was criticized, mocked, ridiculed and even insulted here severely by most blog visitors each time I dropped comment with a wrong tense or spelling. 



Some even called my education a waste of resources but in every attack from them, I didn't resort to hate or retaliating with insult to them for I was always open to correction and would always say 'thanks' to the corrections laced with insults.

Each time I was being laughed at or made jest of, I made sure as I picked the point or correction of that mistake and would say to myself, I won't repeat same mistake twice.

Now understand this. 


A good number of them did that with the intent of bullying me into silence or even to run away from the blog and not to sincerely correct me except for few. 

They didn't know I came well PREPARED(fร  amรฅro zi kam'si wey kwado). When I finally improved, the chief attacker of them all said "Teejay gbagaun was exaggerated" implying I purposely did it to draw attention and be noticed. Can you imagine? At that point I smiled and said to myself well done, you made it. Know this one thing today, the same people who want you to fail, will always look for an excuse to justify your success.


Do you want to see how good I can be? Then dare me, criticize and challenge me. I love disappointing the naysayers. If a criticism doesn't improve you or make you do better, then I don't know what else will.



I see the Shade..........
I like that you have started using your story to teach some lessons but please you are not perfect yet,there are still some errors and every day we live is a new day to learn......
When you tell you story,do not focus too much on those who do not like you and tried to use your flaws to bring you down...
You are a piece of work in God's hand (we all are) and he is not through with you yet....

All the people who looked down on me now look up to me,albeit a lot of them are older......that's life!
All the ones who cannot take that Stella is somewhat popular devised severally ways to make me feel my Job was belittling,my dear na here we dey.

I am happy for you Teejay,i can smell a new you and i am excited about this change...Be positive and look ahead...last last na here i go find wife for you and you might end up marrying one of those who criticised you........lol





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283 comments:

  1. Beautiful weather, IHN is here. Happy weekend starter.

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    1. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’•

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    2. Good afternoon. Happy Friday. The sun is not joking today in Lagos hence its national laundry day here.

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    3. Nawaoooo today is just looking gloomy, abi na rain cause am for me?

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    4. Good afternoon o. So after serious warning from some bvs and refused to listen and went ahead to watch Merrymen 2. Needless to say it ended in tears. I felt like crying because I ought to be sleeping. What a useless movie!!! Chai! Anyway I slept around 1am. Very foolish movie o

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    5. Las las, Stella will find wife for you here, TEEJAY, especially one of those criticising you. It might be the lady that talks about you working in the oil company, lol. Good luck, bro

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    6. Wow...I like that testimony up there that I had to read it twice.

      I really like when u said 'being settled by God himself' wow that's truly divine.

      Hmmm...I dont know how some siblings can be shaa...hoe can u mock ur sibling bcos dey are not married?
      Hmmm...

      Ow I wish I can be settled too by God job wise in a different town too.

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    7. loved that write-up Teejay. Keep your head up

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    1. Hello dear๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—
      Hope you are good?

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    2. Namesake,Happy weekend to you๐Ÿ˜˜.

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    3. Sorry for your loss choc baby

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    4. Hello Noir, hope you're good?

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    5. Hey dear hope you're good?

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    6. Choc barbie.. accept my condolences on the loss of your uncle. May he find rest. ❤️

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    7. hey my loves ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜
      I'm getting better ya'll have been amazing in cheering me up
      I truly appreciate ๐Ÿ™ ❤ ๐Ÿ’›
      Have a very great weekend, let's make the most of it

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    8. Thanks....you too Choco darl. Hope you're holding up well.

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    9. Chocolat Sweetie, so sorry for your loss.๐Ÿค—

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    1. I was told your number does not exist, pls call me back

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    2. ๐Ÿ“ž☎☎☎☎☎
      I met IHN today๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
      Teejay keep up the good work.
      God bless SDK blog.

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    3. You can't call the caller ๐Ÿ˜‚

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  4. Good day bvs.. Have a lovely weekend๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  5. firstlady blessing19 June 2020 at 14:00

    Miracle in cell no 7,Hmm.
    Well,I guess it's different strokes for different folks, I didn't find it as emotional as it was portrayed here, to the extent some of you said you were weeping uncontrollable. It was emotional no doubt but not that too emotional for me.
    As a matter of fact,the film made me happy, the innocence of the Young man's heart ,especially when he laughed,the part that really touched me deeply was when the older man decided to go on his behalf, I was like,waoh! Jesus!

    But it got me thinking,perhaps everything happens for a purpose. I remembered Esther in the bible, the chapter that says for 'such a time like this ......' I knew for a fact that the presence of that older man in the same cell with that guy wasn't coincidence, it wasn't fate,it wasn't luck,it was God,it was divine, it was destiny. That was God who knows the end from the beginning.
    Maybe its true when they say everything happens for a reason, maybe its time we learn to overlook the present and see what God is doing in the future, maybe,just maybe,because we do not know which one is working for our good.

    I watched a Nigeria movie, My little Champions.The little girl's speech left me heartbroken.
    It's about a girl on a wheel chair, who went for a national quiz competition all the way from Port Harcourt to Lagos and on getting there the organisers refused her participation,they were like how would she represent the country in Paris if she wins,that other counties would be presenting 'able' candidates and they would be presenting a disabled girl to represent their own country, that it wasn't possible.
    Infact,the film was an eye opener to the plight of the disabled, the words we don't say but exist through our actions.
    I really want to talk about some disabled ladies I've interacted with and what their main challenge really is,maybe tomorrow.
    But let's all learn to be kind to anyone out there who is disabled one way or the other.

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    1. I will look out for the movie, Nigerian employers Don show me shege just because I am physically challenged, but I know I will be great someday

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    2. That Miracle movie was over exaggerated ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ....

      It was an interesting watch though

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    3. Please which site did you watch it, I've downloaded it two times but has no subtitle.

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    4. That movie " my little champions " was very touching. I learnt a lot from it.

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    5. firstlady blessing19 June 2020 at 15:08

      @challenged but hopeful, please watch it,it will give you reasons to smile and know that one day you shall overcome. God bless you and all physically challenged out there.

      Cookie,I have watched films that I didn't even know when the tears started to drop, that film was just nice and that's all.

      Anne,I downloaded it through that Nigeria latest movie app suggested by Martins,the one with green logo.

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    6. Still go back and download subtitle from the same site. That’s how we do it.

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    7. I've been tempted to watch it but the review here makes it scary for me as crying when watching movies no dey too far from me.

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  6. Just started watching Elevator Baby. So far Timini isn't doing too bad.

    I hope the movie lives up to the hype.

    Netflix go soon ruin cinema business as people will just rather wait to watch when it's available on Netflix

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    1. I just finished watching.
      It was nice , Toyin is a very good actor ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    2. Login that I'm using has expired... Who will help me like this?๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”๐Ÿค”

      How far the job Nah, hope it's going fine?

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    3. That will be their loss! since Genny's movie made it to Netflix it has become a craze for all of them to achieve that, they will soon realize the error in their judgement. na here we dey!

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    4. Cookie, I hope it goes fine. Starting from home on Monday, when corona go, we go begin go office.

      I can't wait to start wearing office clothes and big bags and have my own workspace. Hehehe.

      Dem go gree. I go even buy those oyibo koi koi office shoe wey we dey see for feem

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  7. Feeling sleepy after 24hrs duty ,will come back and read .
    Good day to you all

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  8. I saw an unrealistic movie(in my opinion) yesterday on AMYoruba
    A pregnant woman tricked her husband into a make-belief that he is mentally unbalanced, this cost him his job and reputation then he resolved to teach her a lesson...
    Now the lesson is what I termed unrealistic
    After the whole make-belief scene, the husband resulted to sell her wife just to teach her a lesson
    Actually he wanted to use her for ritual but the herbalist man (he is rich) being an impotent use that as an opportunity to buy the wife with the pregnancy to save his face..
    The husband sold her, collected money and ran off abroad, as God would have it, he got deported
    He now started looking for his wife just because he had nothing to fall back and he thought the herbalist was illiterate..
    They called their family member to resolve the issue, thinking the wife would accept his husband but for where
    Babe went for the herbalist and sent his deportee cum broke and jobless husband out
    Now is that scenario possible like in real life oo


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  9. Good afternoon everyone.
    The day is going wella for me..
    Oh la la....

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  10. Come and see what the lord has done for me, if it were to be man, I would really pay. Dance with me please ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ ๐Ÿ’ƒ

    Sluttychic.

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      Lord I see what you are doing for others

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    2. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ..

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    3. Congratulations dear. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    4. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ
      Whatever it is, congratulations babe! you deserve every good thing life has to offer.

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    5. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    6. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    7. Congratulations ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿฝ

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    8. Congrats dear. Jawa si na

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    9. ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿผ

      Congrats darling!

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    10. Congrats Slutty darl. I thank God for you and for what He has done.๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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  11. Unna doh o....
    Shout out to my blog pal, J

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  12. Pls bvs help me
    I want to buy Clomid and use, how do i use it pls? Help a ttc woman

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    1. Pls,don't take Clomid without Doctor's guidance

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    2. Dear poster
      Dnt try it without a doctor prescription
      God forbid that you harm yourself, Clomid has done more damage than good in women ttc
      Please i use God beg you dnt take that drug without a prescription
      Am really begging you
      See a doctor first, abeg ooo


      OAP ADA

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    3. See a gynea first,clomid can cause a lot of damage,if not prescribed.

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    4. That drug is strong and should be taken only on doctors prescription, please don't cause more harm than good to yourself.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™

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    5. Thanks pals
      Pls which drug can I use to correct hormonal imbalance?

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    6. Anon. You still have to see a doctor concerning hormonal imbalance.

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    7. Please use wisely as prescibed by the Doctor alone. May God grant your heart desires darl๐Ÿค—

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  13. Una good afternoon oh๐Ÿ‘‹.

    I wish I didn't have to go to work on Saturdays ,cos it doesn't allow me appreciate weekends.๐Ÿ˜ช๐Ÿ˜”

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    1. Good afternoon. I know how it feels, I once worked in a hospital where I had to go to work both on Saturday and Sunday.

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    2. Haha
      Kpele
      I'm hoping you'd have a good weekend.

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  14. Well done Teejay, May God bless my Boss ๐Ÿ™


    Hello IHN ๐Ÿ™Œ

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    1. My sister, we thank God.

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    2. Yeah TGIF, dancing azonto ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ

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  16. City Chocolate19 June 2020 at 14:08

    Friday ihn ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ
    @chocolait Noir so sorry about your loss. Please accept my sincere condolence. Trust you're good ๐Ÿ˜˜

    Good afternoon Stella and the drama King and Queen's on this blog๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿคฉ

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    1. Choco darling! please be strong.may the good Lord give you and your family the fortitude to bear the loss. ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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    2. thanks alot cherie ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—
      How are you? Have a beautiful weekend.

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    3. City Chocolate19 June 2020 at 15:04

      @Anne K Hi dear

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  17. I learn everyday on this blog. I've learnt so many things on this blog. Yesterday, bv Courage talked about a kind of iron sponge that lasts longer than the rest and I saw replies affirming it. One person even said she had been using hers for years.
    In all honesty, I had never read or heard of it before yesterday .
    So I went looking for it today and Bought it. Thanks SDK for your blog.

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    1. Is it called ghana sponge.

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    2. Yes,I'm also going to buy it, when I go to the market

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    3. I have bought mine already. Yes it is called Ghana sponge Anon

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    4. Lol @ praise the Lord. I've never heard of such sponge before, will look for it the next time I will be needing iron sponge

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    5. Thanks 14:59. God bless you.

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  18. A big thank you to everyone (@Essa @nnukwu nwanyi @hottie hottie @wonder woman @jesse @anonymouses @Adire classic et all lovely family) for beautiful wishes in SP this morning and I say A Big Aameen to all your prayers! I'm grateful for you guysssssss and may we always have a reason to celebrate ๐ŸŽ‰๐ŸŽ‰

    @choc ๐Ÿซ, I saw your dance moves not quite long ๐Ÿ˜‚.. Thanks darling ❤️๐Ÿ’‹

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    1. Congratulations latest wifey in town!๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ•บ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ Your home shall be a place of constant joy and comfort to you!

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    2. I'm so happy for you ๐Ÿ’“ ๐Ÿ’—
      A very big congratulations to you .

      Your union shall be blessed ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿธ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿฅ‚

      Ah so all this while you were preparing your skin for the big event ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

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    3. Congratulations Tade, may God bless and keep your home in love and peace ❤️❤️

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    4. Congrats Darling...i pray God's blessings upom your new home. The God that brought you both together shall perfect your marriage. Super happy for you๐Ÿค—❤

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    5. Aameen to all your prayers @just Bella @Ms A.. I appreciate you ๐Ÿค— ๐Ÿ’•


      @choc ๐Ÿซ you can say that again ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ babe must slay.. Thanks a lot ๐Ÿ˜˜

      I'm just reading about your uncle now, sorry about your loss! May his soul rest in peace.

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  19. Lol,all the single interested ladies this is the time to shoot your shot at teejay before he is taken,a stich in time saves nine so they say☺️☺️☺️
    Sign out post is apt ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    1. You start nau. Or are you taken already?

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    2. Amazon u take the lead na make others follow

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    3. You will not send your acct details to Stella now, be doing as if you don't want the cash gift ๐Ÿ™„

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    4. She didn't only say single she also said "interested" read again. Which obviously mean there are two criteria single and interested to fit in. She may be single and not interested. Beside olawealth has his eyes on her while Mama Mia is chasing ola wealth. Nawa ooo๐Ÿšถ‍♂️

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    5. This shooter Gyal
      You're a fight
      You're war
      You're fierce

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  20. Hello everyone! Moral lesson learn how to pray for yourself by yourself. Teejay nice write up I learnt something from you. IGNORE AND KEEP MOVING.

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  21. God has the final say in our lives, we just have to keep pushing, never give up and keep believing.

    Stella, @ las las na one of those girls weh dey criticise you na him go fall for you.

    No situation is permanent in life if we do not make it so.

    Stella, your meme is the truth. Elon Musk is right about people confusing being a graduate degree holder to being intelligent.

    Enjoy your weekend people ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

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    1. Mama, have we started picking Asoebi?? I'll be on charge of that one oooh

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    2. Ms A, God bless you.
      Congratulations for what God has started in your life, may he perfect all He has started in Jesus name.

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    3. hey Ms Amazing
      How's our boo ? Have a great weekend ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ

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    4. Hahaha, Cookie na the matter we still dey talk hehehe ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’–

      Mimi love, thank you and God bless you. Amen๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’–

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  22. Pls bvs I need good series movies recommendation. I saw a Bv mentioned This Korean movie "King Eternal Monarch"
    ,I have almost finished it. Its a nice movie

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    1. How many season is it

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    2. How do y'all sit to watch these Korean movies? Ain't they in the same category of those zee world movies?

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    3. Blacklist
      Why women kill
      13 reasons why
      Blackish
      Grownish
      Mixedish
      Bob hearts Abishola
      Good girls
      Greenleaf
      Grand hotel
      Killing Eve
      Modern family
      Nancy Drew
      This is us
      What if
      Whiskey Cavalier
      Young Scheldon

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  23. IHN is here๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒGood afternoon house❤️❤️❤️❤️

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  24. Why are these Portharcourt female bvs always angry and bitter? The males are OK but the females are something else. Bv Shooter gyal, the defunct bv AngelRayforSDK, etc

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    1. Lol
      Ayam a PH Bv and ayam not bitter plis๐Ÿ˜‚

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  25. Ihn welcome.

    Stella, where is the nurse that writes the hospital emergency column, I've missed her. I hope she is alright?

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  26. "The same people who want you to fail, will always look for an excuse to justify your success". This is so true. A new boss was transferred to my department. My friend, we both work in the same company different department. Told me she felt pity for me. She talked about how wicked the woman was and how nothing impressed her. No matter the project plan you submit the woman is never interested. She told me everyone failed under the woman supervision just like her and she felt sorry for me. Anyways it was my turn. I promised to try my best and shock this woman. I had sleepless nights, did enough research. It was stressssssful. Chai!

    I executed the project under the woman's supervision and she rated me highly to the surprise of this friend. This boss, She praised me to stupor. Instead of this friend to congratulate me and say "babes you try o" she said "That woman must have became a born again Christian or she was in a good mood when you submitted your project for her to praise you like these". That comment was her way of diminishing my effort and indirectly telling me my success was due to the woman's mood and changed lifestyle and not my own hard work. That her comment stuck with me. Well, I was later transferred to head a new branch and I deleted the friend number off my phone.

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  27. Teejay isi na fa amaro ka isi kwado?๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚udo,Congratulations more breakthrough.

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  28. Chai! I am in a bad mood today! received bad news but I know my family shall survive this coronavirus brouhaha it has brought along! I am so positive that it shall turn out for our good. My family shall not beg for food,money. People are being laid off work now,salaries are being slashed. God,na your hand my family dey,please,don't disappoint us.....Amen

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    1. God will see you and your folks through and favour will locate you all.

      Sending you love and light ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’–

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  29. Happy 30th birthday to me๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿฅฐ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ
    'It has been a glorious year!
    God be praise!!

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    1. Happy birthday dear

      OAP ADA

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    2. Single or married?

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    3. Happy birthday to you darling. God bless you now and always ๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’–

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    4. Happy birthday to you girlie....may the lines fall in pleasant places for u. Amen

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    5. happy birthday darling. your life shall be fruitful and joyous. ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ๐Ÿ‘ฏ

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    6. Yaaaaaaay! The big 30. Happy birthday darl. God bless your new age!๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ’ƒ

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    7. Happy birthday ๐ŸŽ‚ ๐Ÿฅณ ๐ŸŽ‰ ๐ŸŽˆ ๐ŸŽ ๐ŸŽŠ
      Many more blissful celebrations to you ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿฅ‚๐Ÿฅ‚

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    8. Was the single or married question necessary?

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  30. Top of the afternoon to everyone. Everyday we are alive is just the grace of Almighty God. I just got a heartbreaking news. I lost a beloved friend. The story is long but please don't send any child on an errand to avoid unnecessary problem. On a good day i will write this story. May God grant her soul eternal rest ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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    1. So so sorry about your friend dear...may God comfort you anf her family๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜ข

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    2. Accept my condolence
      It's been a very crazy week numerous deaths .
      Its so disheartening ๐Ÿ˜”
      Really sorry .

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  31. To the poster ,I thank GOD for you and the strength you had back then .
    I pray for all the single ladies ,we shall all testify ๐Ÿ™

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  32. There is this 18/19 years old she is my neighbor’s daughter I noticed she has bn acting funny even since she returned from school because of this pandemic, she’s always on a very short clothes when coming to my apartment, kind I say this is a girl I watched growing. Mostly come asist me with some chores
    These days she feel cool wana sit with her legs parted opposite me. Last night she came upstairs to me , I was shocked when this little girl jumped on me was about to grind me.
    Could it be cause I joke with her a lot her mom calling her my wife” jokingly way back ? I feel discussing with her mom about I dnt know if the moment will be embarrassing.
    Small pikin wey collect this kind big kondo meant for aunties ? Mothers watch your daughters carefully

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  33. ๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️๐Ÿคธ๐Ÿป‍♀️

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  34. A cool weather in Lagos this afternoon. A lovely afternoon to everyone. In all things, give thanks. Oba Asekanmaku is in charge!!

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  35. TGIF, happy weekend pals.
    Tank God for a beautiful weather.

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  36. Good afternoon people.
    Please stay safe, coronavirus is real, we will not be a victim in Jesus name

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  37. Good afternoon blogfam.

    Hope your day is going well? Enjoy the rest of your day and stay safe out there.

    Grateful for the gift of life.

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  38. This is notify you all that I formerly bv "MELANCHOLY" has changed my moniker to "GIFTY" I decided to use my name.

    Stella biko post.

    Good afternoon

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    1. This gifty is already here. Look for another name

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    2. aye!!!!!!!!
      How are you!!
      I used to have a ghanian friend named Gifty
      Years back .
      Have a beautiful weekend darling ๐Ÿ˜˜

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  39. am i early today?.... my new laugh therapy now is, when i get bored i just Google stella's beef with celebs... walai stella response is nerve cracking esp that with radical for Jesus

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  40. Who is watching 90 Days Fiancรฉ?

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  41. Good afternoon everyone,@chocolate noir and Amyviv,sorry for your loss and @Teejay, you're a work in progress.
    Stella,I hear you loud and clear,the rejected, unpopular stone is now BOSS,I thank GOD for your life,to anyone including myself going through something,hold on, though it's hard,it's ENDING IN PRAISE

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    1. thank you so much ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—
      Have a very blessed weekend ๐Ÿ™

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  42. Welcome to IHN
    Just when i was contemplating writing a request to stella for a column
    Am not good yet though and seeing Teejay write up makes me quite brave

    I want to do this but what if i dnt write well enough
    What if SDK refuses my request
    What if i dnt improve
    What if i cant keep up

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    1. First drop the short hand, write in full.

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    2. Get rid of these negative thoughts

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    3. You can never know unless you try.

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    4. There is no harm in trying.
      The only thing holding you back is fear of failure .
      But note that if you do not try you'd never improve .
      All you need is to start !!!

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    5. Please explain further

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  43. Tee jay keep doing you and being you.

    You're a work in progress and surely you will get there.

    I am feeling you

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    1. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  44. Thank you my Girlie ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—
    Hope you're having a good day so far .

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  45. That sign off statement by Elon Musk, is very true, mostly applicable to Nigerians...Doctors and Lawyers with Zero intelligence..๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

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  46. Hmmmm... if I begin to narrate my ordeals in the hands of those so called prophet of God, trust me 3 pages won't contain all especially when I was single and searching. None of them gave me thesame name or description of my supposed future partner then. Shebi na me carry my two legs go there.


    That incidents made me realized that my God is not a confuse being or our politicians who has Masters in lying. I borrow myself sense and went to HIM directly, no regret till date. I believe I know better now, all thanks to SDK blog.

    Teejay, congrats once more but I need some of your secrets on how you over came your tenses and word construction challenges.
    It always give me up whenever I took a bold step to write. I initially shy away from commenting here but a God-sent anonymous gave me confidence to go ahead and always take note of corrections. Which I'm forever grateful of.

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  47. PA i got the data..thanks
    greetings to everyone

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  48. Try resting very well and if it persists try to see a Doctor dearie. Hoping you feel better soon๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—

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  49. Teejay Nwannem nwoke ji sie ike o,i remember those insult... i really bless the name God for who you are today.

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