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Monday, October 12, 2020

Favourite Instrument...

 

Mothers of these days do not use these things to reset the brain of their children but back in the days,when your mother catches you to discipline you with any of  these things,it is between you and God to pray that you survive the beating.....


My mums fave was the brain resetter...........chai!!!


47 comments:

  1. Wooding spoon for making eba. My mom bought them in bulk incase anyone breaks on our bodies, she'd just pick another from the pile.

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    1. I was an only child and never really experienced those hot beatings. I had play mates their mother uses broom if her cane broke. They were about 7 children so I guess had to cope b4 they drive her nuts.

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  2. Broom ohhhh,
    after I will be removing the broom edges stuck to my body ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ซ

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    1. Brain resetter. She was a specialist in that. Gosh just remembering those days gives me the shiver.

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  3. These were all weapons tactically and well used my late grand mum(God continue to rest her soul ๐Ÿ•ฏ)

    my grand ma never misses no matter how far or fast you run๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  4. Hahaha ๐Ÿ™†๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜† mine was resetting slap๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹๐Ÿ‘‹ with shining stars⭐⭐⭐

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  5. My Mum's instrument is not there but my fathers's fave was the head straightener...

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  6. None... my mom can shout for Africa but she won't beat you. At some point she even got tired of yelling and was reporting our gragra to my dad, her threat was "Let your father return". He's the disciplinarian.

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  7. Mumu Duster and Alignment tool

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  8. Alignment tools all the way!

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  9. My mom used cane
    But it was my dad that was a specialist in discipline.
    As for these days, the social media moms do not even have time for their kids.
    A teacher flogs them at school, they go
    to school to fight the teacher and threaten her. They are glued to their
    phones 24/7, chatting, texting, gossiping and hunting for abroad
    ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค

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    1. You just said your dad was a disciplinarian. How come you don't expect same from mordern day men abi what exactly is your issue with your fellow women?

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    2. @Saphire
      You always look for holes where there are none.
      Did I say that men should not discipline their kids?
      In fact, if you've been reading my comments right from my
      stories about my courtship days, I did say that my husband is
      the main disciplinarian in the house. I learn from him.
      Please, stop this gender war, I am not part of it.
      ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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  10. None, but old man was the panel bitter

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  11. That knock on the head na biggest brain resetter.

    That was how I gave my nephew knock on the head. The boy behave

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  12. I am a mother now, and I don't use any of those.
    I cut you off from every entertainment;
    tv, phones, laptops, tablets etc.
    I ground you and give you things to
    read to lean to be obedient. No snacks, ice creams etc. Just eat food and enter your room.
    If it is a mild offence, you kneel in the toilet for an hour. They beg me to flog them and let them be but
    I refuse, I make the calls not them.
    That works for me very well. I learnt those from my husband.
    I receive accolades of how beautifully behaved my kids are
    at school and so on.
    "spare the rod and spoil the child
    doesn't mean you must break the child's head"
    ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    1. Kneel inthe toilet?๐Ÿ˜„

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    2. I prefer this method too. It achieves the correction you aim at while not abusing the child nor striping them of their dignity. Homes that can't afford children's room to ground them in or ice-cream and treats...how them wan do? The parents will just vent their frustrations on the children.

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    3. I totally agree. Beating changes nothing.

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    4. My mode of operation sister. As a child, i was beaten most esp by my mum, with all sorts, i have my child now, and i cant do quarter of what my mum did to me to my own kid. Till now sef, my mother is not my friend.. evry body dey their dey. Spare d road and destroy the child is what we practice here in nigeria. How many people here are really close to their parents like you can tell them just anything? After some terrible beatings as a kid? We for meee, make my parents dey their dey, excessive beating is bad for family bond.

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    5. My mode of operation sister. As a child, i was beaten most esp by my mum, with all sorts, i have my child now, and i cant do quarter of what my mum did to me to my own kid. Till now sef, my mother is not my friend.. evry body dey their dey. Spare d road and destroy the child is what we practice here in nigeria. How many people here are really close to their parents like you can tell them just anything? After some terrible beatings as a kid? We for meee, make my parents dey their dey, excessive beating is bad for family bond.

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    6. @Saphire
      Hmm, for the first time you like what I wrote?
      ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎso what's the catch?
      Let me warn you that if you do not teach your kids
      about Jesus, this form of discipline won't work as much.
      Jesus, Scriptures first, then discipline next.๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

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    7. Please the kneel in the toilet no follow for me abeg. All these are for bigger children. Not those two to four years type

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    8. The attack has never been on you as a person, my sister. It's about the content of your comments.

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    9. @Saphire
      Called me (the one you people call ANG, ANG, ANG) my sister?
      It's me o.
      Wow! Abeg shift make I faint ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ

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  13. None of the above! She never raised her hands on me nor used any instruments.. but my Dad is the Chief whip ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  14. Head straightener while my dad me Brain Resetter

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  15. Lol.. Okay..
    There use to be the 'pole' in our company, people thought it was just one of those poles used in tying rope for sun drying, but that was wrong .. it used to be a guava tree, it lost all its branches on the bodies of I and my cousin.. any small kid 'prank' like this.. mumsi will just pluck out a branch and use it to 'talk' to us๐Ÿ˜ƒ..

    I remember sitting back of of those days, after some serious 'communication' had taken place and began to observe the look of my mumsi, trying to see if we had any physical similarities between us cos I was doubting how she could be my mom and flog me so mercilessly like I was a kid from a concubine.. LOL..

    Those were the dayz..

    Looking back when I got older, I understood she did her best by not sparing the rode, I was a stubborn.. I would have been a spoilt kid if she indulged me..

    Now I'm very much coordinated.. and you'd be proud if I was your child๐Ÿ˜Š ..

    #EndLyingAndEvilGovernment ✌

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    1. Lol, this comment really cracked me up. At one time I packed my bags and met my parents in the living room, told them I was fully ready to meet my real parents as I could not fathom how they (my parents) could flog me mercilessly like that.

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  16. My mum's favorite was the garri turner and that was after we kept hiding her long cain. She will put the cain in the back of her blouse and be teasing you. Before you know it,she will just bring it out and design your body.

    My first daughter I very rarely rarely beat her. If she just sees you change your face let alone hold cain,she will just start crying and making promises of change.
    My second daughter,chai!!! Na she go even go find cain come give you to beat her. That girl be making me think of prayer and fasting for her head make she no grow up into a stubborn person

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  17. Brain Resetter was my mum favorite. I never liked it because I end up having headache. Thinking about it now makes me angry sef.

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  18. Head straightener๐Ÿ‘ข๐Ÿ‘ข

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  19. There is this myth about not using the mumu duster(APC logo) for a boy back in the day. So funny.

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  20. I use cane
    Knock
    No more cartoons
    No more biscuits.

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  21. Kai, my mum could reset brains ehh, thank God for adulthood, even though she still resets our last born's brain sometimes. The boy deserves it , he's too stubborn abeg.

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  22. If my mum should beat that means you don fuckup to the extreme,

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  23. My mum, she uses cain. Although, she never had to use it on me, but the numerous times she used it on my brothers left me in tears and fears.

    My dad prefer talking and some other exercise punishment.

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  24. My mom's own is not there, "Water Cane"
    The woman who sold the Canes to my mom physically asked her one day, what she was doing with the Canes, because of how many she was buying.
    This was because, we in the children's department always conspired to break them.

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  25. Upon all the physical abuse, many turned out to be looters, politician thieves, wife bearers, house help beaters, cronies of looters, pretenders and some became good people. Research has shown that denying kids what they value is better at modifying behavior than beating them in anger. Spanking is to be mild and by 6 yrs needs stopped as it’s pointless.

    Anger and whatever follows is a negative emotion and we can see the result of these parenting methods on our society. Asking a child to write 1 to 500 10 times, or “ I will not do it again” 500 times. withholding their electronic devices or toys till they “got” it May produce better results. At best have them hold their ears and bend and stand for tens of times, a form of forced exercise!

    Beating out of anger which we went through didn’t change much, you just learnt to pretend when you hear the sound of your dad or mom’s car and hide your real self. Parenting is prayer and example. If it were by beating Nigeria will be like the Scandinavian countries where everybody is ok. To each his/her own.

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  26. I meant “wife beaters”

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