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STRANGE BEHAVIOUR FROM HUBBY
he loves going nude when at home,I didn't see it as a problem because it was just both of us,but now I see it as a big problem because children are growing in the house.this man would go nude in the presence of his daughter who is now 3years old.
I complained to him about it but yet he refused to stop so I reported him to his mother,and she told me that I should not mind him that's how men in his father's village behave,that if you go to the village you will see half naked men walking on the street without shame,same thing her husband which is my father in-law does that she will talk to her son...
She spoke to him and he stopped but now he is back to the same attitude,when his daughter is playing close to him she usually touches his nipples and sucks it and he doesn't react,this is a child that cannot touch my breast unless if she is asleep.
I warned him against such that I dont like it but I know he will still let the child keep sucking on his nipple as whatever I tell him he doesn't take it serious.what is annoying me more is the fact that my 8years cousin stays with me but yet this man still goes nude,but this time around its inside his bedroom alone as he loves sleeping naked,a habit he has refused to stop...
My cousin usually goes to his room to sweep every morning as courtesy demands knowing fully well she gets in there to sweep in the morning,I thought this man will behave his old age and wear something even if is only boxers but no my guy man lays naked on bed with my cousin sweeping that room.
One morning I was busy preparing food when I was done by then my cousin was done sweeping his room,I went into his bedroom and saw him naked,the moment I entered his room he got up like someone who was fast asleep,with all the noise in the house and the one my cousin made inside his room when sweeping didn't wake him,is when I entered his room that my presence wake him.
I am so angry with him because I feel he knows what he is doing and he is just doing it.i could not address him because I was angry and just walked away without greeting him.i don't Know how to address a man who takes things for granted and thinks that I react over things that is necessary.
How do I tell a grown up man to stop going nude in the presence of children? I am sick and tired of this issue....
*WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT!!!!!
Madam i am not sorry to say this but i think your hubby is sick in the head and might end up abusing your daughter or your cousin...Stay WOKE!!!!
Men in his village behave this way🙁
ReplyDeleteWonderment.
At your daughters age, He should know better. Very irresponsible behaviour.
That is very irresponsible and could confuse your daughter not to know when she is being abused by a stranger. After all it’s ok for daddy to do those things. You need to put your foot down.
DeleteMadam return dat 8yr old back to her family,i dont like child labour. You are also putting dat girl in harms way,how can she be sweeping a room where deres a naked man. Dont breed grounds for sexual molestation.
DeleteYou and your husband are very shameless and wicked people. Imagine you using an 8 years old as a maid, please spare me the cousin shit! Your husband is a pervert, you know it yet you are sending an 8 years old child to sweep his room every morning. When does she go to school? You must be sick, very archaic and wicked behaviour. Stop that child from doing maid in your perverted house, send her back to her mother. How lazy can you be? Just 1 child and you need a little girl as a maid? To help with what?
DeleteOh my God
DeleteA friend hubby was doing this still the house mate caught him make walking around the sitting room, last last he slept with the maid
And you let the young girl go in to sweep??when you know he will be undressed? OMG madam please I hope this is not real!!
DeleteYou and your husband are crazy. Why are you using an 8yr old as maid under the guise of cousin? If she enters his room and sees him naked can't you caution her not to enter there again or will he die if his room is not swept? For her to confidently sweep when he is lying naked in the room shows that everything is not alright. Wait till he sleeps with her and be there forming angry. What a perverted house. I am so pissed.
DeleteDon't corrupt an 8 year old by asking her to go sweep his room knowing fully well that he would not cover his nakedness. Can that room not be swept later in the day when he is no longer there? You can't stop your daughter from sucking his breast by pulling her away and saying no. That man is sick to let his daughter suck his breast. You are not serious. I personally don't like taking kids as help. An 8 year old is still a kid and too young to have as a help. She should be more like your kid's play mate IMO. Be sure to educate her on how not to let your husband touch her and to tell you if he ever does.
DeleteI honestly do not understand how you can bring an 8 year old to come work for you in the name of training.
DeleteNa that one dey vex me pass, take her back to her parent!!
As for your husband, when you get tired of talking, you know what to do with your children.
What nonsense....
ReplyDeleteYou are married to a shameless man
Who will turn to an abuser soon.
Poster talk to him
Toddler always try to nurse their dad. It's not strange if your husband is comfortable with it. Your husband's behaviour is NOT TYPICAL OF CHILD MOLESTER. Child molesters are usually very discreet that you will never suspect them when they begin to unleash.
DeleteMadam, now that he has limited his nudity to your bedroom, sweep and clean your bedroom by yourself. Why is an 8year old leaving with you sef? Poor girl.
Not while their fathers are naked, please. Most men would laugh and remove the child from their chest area, not relax in the nude and allow the sucking continue. It's not even hygienic.
DeleteIt is very strange and unacceptable for him to allow his toddler to be sucking his nipples, as in he relaxes and doesn't tell her to stop plus he is naked, it is damn strange abeg.
Deletesapphire is the only sensible person so far others have outsourced their reasoning to Stella,only saying things to reinforce her jaundiced views of this issue
DeleteKudos to the girl that has a mind of her own and extremely intelligent
This is wrong. Na wa.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is irresponsible!!!
DeleteLet your cousin stop sweeping the room na
ReplyDeleteYea since he now limits his nudity to the bedroom.
DeleteMeanwhile, it would be quite obvious if he was actually turned on by these minors.
He is a nudist. It is a huge movement with a large following. It is irresponsible of him not to have boundaries though.
Exactly!!! Warn your cousin NEVER TO ENTER THE ROOM!!! Sweep it yourself. Educate your daughter that what daddy is doing is wrong. Tell her to never go near daddy whenever he's naked. Tell her never to touch daddy's nipples that it's wrong. Make her understand that daddy is not doing what is right whenever he's naked. Tell her to start shouting, "daddy go and dress up!!! " Whenever daddy is naked. That y will buy her lollipops or ice creams. The kind of husband's we have today scares me. Babe bribe the kids against him and tell them to keep the reward you give them a secret!!! If it doesn't work, come for more ideas ok?
DeleteI'm also on this table though I'm a woman. My daughter feels embarrassed cos of my niece that lives with us but I just can't help going naked in the house, I sometimes try to wear panty but don't know when I take it off.
DeletePlease try to tolerate him since he's now limited to his room, stop you little niece from going to do anything in his room and always be with your daughter. I wonder why you didn't notice before marriage, please stop inconveniencing the man in his house!!! Besides there's so much heat this period even with the air conditioning
Hehehe. I daresay that this posters husband is the irresponsible version of mine. My husband is a nudist but, I complained like once or twice, then he banned everyone in the house from coming into our room for anything. To him, boxers is dressing up to come greet visitors in the living room or get something in the kitchen . I explained to him that it's the equivalent of panties and should be worn privately. I bought him jalabias and baggy shorts which I launder myself so no more excuses. I feel your husband has issues cos, who let's their 3 year old daughters suck their nipples????????????. Please, next time you catch your daughter doing that, spank her so hard. Maybe your husband's senses will return to him. Also, draw your cousin close to you. I suspect that she is being abused, cos every 8 year old knows to run away when they see a naked adult. Cos I'm suspecting that your husband probably told her to "feel free and be comfortable cos there's nothing wrong with it, afterall it's what big girls do".
DeleteWhat does nudist mean? Everything now has a name. You can be naked and dangle your breasts and blokos when you are alone or with your partner but with kids, that is bulshit, totally irresponsible, morally depraved low lives.
DeleteI have kids and stopped being naked in their presence when they clocked 1. These kids are very curious.
It is veryyyy perverted for a grown adult to be walking around naked where there are kids. Hope you know it can scar them,im talking to d mother who also walks naked. Limit such to ur bedroom with ur husband. Cant you wear ur underwear atlst. Is it even hygenic doing dat around d house,u will seat on ur sofa naked with bodily fluids.
DeleteWait till ur daughter starts removing her panties in school. These kids copy everything. Stop opening doors of molestation for ur children,before they start acting out in school.
u will *sit*... not 'seat' on ur sofa...
Delete@ anon 16.12. Dont limit your nudity naaa. You should go everywhere nude, work, market,church, mechanic.
DeletePlease let's learn to be a little bit more responsible, our little ones look up to us. Wear flowing short shirt dresses at the least, air will still enter ur p.
Madam English im not writing an English thesis. I dont even proof read.
DeleteU sha got d idea of what i meant sha. PERFECT
This is really bad.. I will advise you move out of the house to his mum’s or your to avoid stories some. The man no get shame o! Hisssssss
ReplyDeleteOti dangbana ...
ReplyDeleteHusbands from hell. God forbid bad thing!
ReplyDeleteStop your little cousin from entering the room as long as your husband is in there.he should be free to be naked in peace inside his room for Christ sakes.
ReplyDeleteYour said he has stopped being naked in front of your baby,that is some improvement, don't expect him to just change overnight.
God bless you o.If people see truth make them talk.why will the woman even ask an 8 year old to be sweeping her bedroom and secondly once she realized that her husband will not stop sleeping naked,why did she continue to allow the little girl go in there to sweep?
DeleteGod bless you,the mother has confirmed that even his father died it, meaning he grew up into it,you now want to change him overnight, just tell your cousin to stop going into d room, and keep talking to him about it, gradually he'd stop
DeleteWhenever he is naked in his room he should lock his door until he is up and dressed.
DeleteI support you guys.
DeleteMadam stop that little girl from going to sweep his room. Infact at 8 she should be sweeping only her room and not the entire house.
Meanwhile,this issue of nudity depends on upbringing, my husband does that too, anytime we visit his parents he prefers using their own bathroom and from bathroom to our own room (direct opposite)he walks naked in the presence of his parents! Even his elder sister does that too and whenever she visits our home she walks around naked. The day his elder brother visited us, he was in the bathroom when his phone rang and he asked my husband to bring it to him. Maybe they’re from the same village with your hubby but the only difference is that he behaves himself anytime be it female or male visitor apart from his siblings is around.
Which kind mumu talk be this one?make person lock himself inside room so that if something happens to him no one will be able to help.Speak truth when you see it.Tell the wife to stop asking her 8 year old cousin to go into her room to sweep when she knows her husband sleeps naked.
DeleteNa you be mumu. Since he insists on being naked and he is not sick or an invalid that needs to be checked upon he can lock his door when he is in the nude and wants to rest. Children are inquisitive and can box in at any time of the day or night, but if the door is locked they can't enter, then he can put something on quickly before opening the door. It is just a suggestion not a must. Doing so will also help him become conscious of himself and his nudity as it affects others. Next time try to reason small before you condemn others.
DeleteWhat's wrong with your hubby???
ReplyDeleteSuch irresponsible behavoiur.
ReplyDeleteKeep your daughter and cousin away from him.
Which Village is he from?
Tell us his Village in anon mode.
His mother may be lying
Your cousin should stop sweeping his room.
DeleteProtect the Kids in your home please.
Poster pls do all you can to protect your daughter and cousin cos this behavior is abnormal! God forbids bad thing abeg..
ReplyDeleteMothers learn to train your children well when they're still under your roof. Not when they carry someone's daughter in as wife they start behaving like animals. Imagine the mother saying "that's how men in their village behave".. Tell your cousin to stop sweeping his room, I fear he might abuse her. He should stop carrying your daughter too. When it dawns on him that you're serious he'll change by force.
ReplyDeleteSome people will come here now and say he is a nudist. He is not ready to change. Your daughter sucks his nipple when he is naked, i pray she doesn't start playing with his naked private as time goes on. Your husband is engaging in a Very risky behaviour. So if an adult female comes over he will walk around naked like that too. He is harrasing those children visually please don't take it lightly with him. Tell your child whenever she sees her daddy without clothes she should avoid him and refuse to play with him. You could even say your daughter's teacher reported that your daughter took off her pant and clothes in school when she was asked she told her that is how daddy behave at home. His head will reset fast when he thinks of the effect he is having on the child. I know lie is not good but i am tired for your tired. Situation like the one you just described needs drastic measure.
ReplyDeleteBut he is a nudist....doesn't excuse his irresponsible behaviour but that is what he is🤷♀️
DeleteOkay, kami love.
DeletePlease if you can cover up when you walk the streets or when he goes to work then he damn well can cover up in his house. Nudist my foot.
DeleteBy the way do the right thing and stop that little girl from sweeping his room. You as his wife can sweep it yourself. So no school for the little girl? Haba madam don't be evil and endorse child labor and molestation. GOD IS WATCHING YOU.
So why doesn’t he go out naked if he is a nudist? Smh... na mad man him be
DeleteWhat sort of sick attitude is this one again? I'm short of words ojare😩😬😬
ReplyDeleteHe is not sick in the head or a pervert if u followed what his mum said, he is just a disgusting adult and is already used to such. Probably walked around naked while growing up in his father’s house.
ReplyDeleteI think you need to tell him you will take ur daughter away until he learns to adjust. But if u have never seen him molest ur daughter, don’t even go that route because Stella insinuated so. He just has a disgusting habit
Why must your cousin sweep his room? Since he has restricted it to his room alone, then your cousin has no right to sweep there. You should either sweep it or he should sweep whenever he gets up. Or you people should wait till he’s out of the room before entering to sweep. In as much as you have warned him severally to stop going nude, it’s your duty to protect those young ones under you. Your cousin is still a child and needs to be protected from such torture of a man’s nakedness. You and your husband are wreaking havoc on those children’s psyche.
ReplyDeleteTell your cousin not to sweep his room again na,since you know he sleeps naked! My maid only sweeps our bedroom when we are out of the house,or we are in the sitting room on weekends. And I think you don't scream it loud enough for him to hear. As for your daughter sucking his nipple,spank her hard if she tries that nonsense again. What you fail to do will eventually UNDO you! You should not be afraid to confront and tackle your husband.
ReplyDeleteMadam how can you allow your cousin to sweep your husband room. Its very wrong moreover you know the kind of husband you have. Women let's learn to do something things ourselves please
ReplyDeleteStop that child from sweeping your husband’s room
ReplyDeleteSpank your daughter when next she tries to suck her papa’s nipples. Tell her to avoid her dad whenever she sees him naked.
Finally, keep a close watch on that man of yours and guide those children carefully just Incase...
Please sweep his room by your self and start sex education for your daughter immediately.
ReplyDeleteWhat rubbish your husband need prayer
ReplyDeleteI Am just so very sorry for your cousin!. Make her stop going to his room WITH IMMEDIATE EFFECT!. you know your husband sleeps naked yet you keep allowing an 8 year old to go in there!. YOU ARE VERY WICKED!. IF anything happens to that child may God punish you VERY WELL!.
ReplyDeletewhy is an 8 year old child the one sweeping your house. She should be sweeping only her own room(if she has one). She is only 8. She should not be your maid!. Send her home to her parents!. She needs nurturing at such a tender age. Im just imagining my 9 year old sweeping some naked mans room....chai!
The only reason your daughter will suck his nipple is cos he taught her. Your husband is sick. Help your cousin and send her to her people before he defiles her. Tell your daughter to stay away from daddy's privates. Tell her teacher to tell her too.
ReplyDeleteWhat rubbish
I swear. A 3year old that doesnt suck your nipples but sucks daddys nipples????????????????. Dey there
DeletePoster sorry to say this but your husband is a mad man! It is only a mad man that will walk naked and not feel ashamed. It is even you that will feel ashamed for a mad man am I making sense sef? Please I will advise you to talk to your husband to STOP that disgusting habit or you take a walk oo. My opinion I can't stand for such in my marriage I go JAPA! Let him go and walk nude in front of his mother not me Ewwwww!
ReplyDeleteYour hubby is not well, take your child somewhere else if he continues otherwise he's going to mess your kid up. Be alert.
ReplyDeleteMake una calm down sef.. no be everything be problem.. you say him no dey go nude again except for inside room.. fine.. make your cousin no dey sweep una room and if she needs to come in, she should knock until person tell am to enter.. Me, I don't even feel comfortable going into couple room except when invited in.. na for outside door I go stand.. na only my parents own I dey burst in Lol.. but I still have to knock first..
ReplyDeleteI don't even understand how you're training that your cousin, so she entered the room and saw your husband naked but didn't excuse herself out? You have works to do oh.. If you were not lazy, I see no reason why you can't tell your cousin to leave sweeping your room for you to handle yourself..
Growing up, we all as kids in my home do suck my dad's breast when playing with him for fun and we be like- daddy we want to suck breast.. it was innocent.. no big deal there.. but as we grew we were cautioned, maybe its what stopped us or we grew over it.. I don't know..
You can tell him to stop it so the bby girl won't go and try it outside with another man thinking is ok.. then also caution your bby girl on doing it.. don't turn everything to fight abeg.. this your house matter no be problem..
I like to go naked.. infact I'm naked like this but na my room I dey under duvet.. but the difference between I and your oga be say I don't go naked in front of ANYONE.. except for 'prayer' things, when I need to make a daughter of the world speak in tonges Lol.. the one I hate most is seeing a fellow guy's nàkédness.. so I don't go nude in front of any guy- treat me as I treat you Lol.. I love sleeping naked but only do so when alone..
Your oga has tried to stop going naked outside the room, please try and cope cos the truth is that people rarely change a behavior.. the fact that he's mindful of it now is a good thing.. work with him.. no go over do make this small thing turn big issue..
All of una for that house except your daughter is to be blamed.
1. YOUR HUSBAND- he needs to learn how to behave better, not as regards going nude in the room, but as per being the head of the home and taking control of things.. your cousin coming in and sweeping while he's naked and didn't send her out, or tell you that the girl shouldn't sweep your room again shows how laid back he is.
2. YOU- what stops you from sweeping your own room? What stopped you from teaching your cousin manners.. why didn't you scold her for entering the room after seeing your boy naked..
3. YOUR COUSIN- she needs proper home training .
Blessings
Was your daddy naked while you sucked his breast?
DeleteGod bless you DANTE!! You have said it all. I don’t know why every little thing women gets agitated and start screaming sick sick sick
DeleteGo and read the post again and show us where she said their daughter sucks her husband breast when he's naked.. miss I most reply Dante's comment
DeleteDante we sucked my dads breast too. But stopped it as we grew. Keep working on your hubby. You will get there
DeleteWhat wrong has the cousin done? Do you know if she beats the poor girl? Why should she even send the girl to sweep the room when the man is asleep or awake there
DeleteI don't even sweep my dad's room when he's there.. stop ur cousin from sweeping ur husband room
ReplyDeleteEducate ur daughter, spank her when next she's sucks her dad's nipple as a kid she will learn fast, don't just keep quiet about it and caution only ur husband.
Is just something he grows up with, don't expect him to change overnight
Not just the mother but the dad should teach his baby girl to stop it, or she will do it when the mother is not around. It seems I have read this same chronicle before.
DeleteWicked witch woman. Yes you!!! You’re failing your daughter and your female cousin and you don’t even know it. Weak ass mother who can’t stand up and be firm about certain things. And take your cousin back to her parents!!!! She’s not your maid!!!! She’ll grow up hating you for what you’re putting her through! WITCH! I’m so mad!
ReplyDeleteWhy should your cousin (male or female?) be sweeping your bedroom? Your bedroom should be a sacred place
ReplyDeleteand nobody should enter there except you and husband. Or by your express permission when all things are
in place, i.e. nobody nude. Even as you point you hand at your husband for obviously doing what is wrong,
look at your own flaws too in this matter. Pray even as you let him know how disgusting his attitude is to you.
Na wah oooo, madam please don't allow the little girl sweep his room anymore, whether he is around or not. Tell your child's teacher to tell your daughter to stop sucking anybody's nipples. Don't let her mention her father's nipples o. You know how children behave, before she will go and say my teacher said this and that and it will now cause another issue between you two.
ReplyDeleteSick husband, wicked poster. Irresponsible man that you married cannot cover up. You as a wicked woman would allow your 8 year old cousin to sweep and see your hubby's nakedness. You are wicked and your hubby is sick. If I say divorce, you people will say no. How do you live with such a man and be happy. Nigerian women and marriage.
ReplyDeleteI would have said he is a nudist but why doesn't he stop his daughter from sucking his nipple????? 🤔😲😳🤷😱..
ReplyDeleteFirst, your cousin must NEVER sweep that room again. It is either Mr Adam sweeps his Eden himself or you do it since na you buy market.
Why don't you sleep in the same room? You are giving him too much leeway for the devil to use him in his spare time. Would he also stay naked for your cousin if you were in the same room? Please make sure he limits his walking around nude to the room he sleeps and neither your cousin nor your daughter should ever go there. If he complains, tell him that you will tell the world exactly what has been happening and why you took such a decision. I even think you should record him if he ever walks around in the common area without clothes again.
He should only play with your daughter in your presence in the common area. I don't want stories that break the heart. You may have to correct him rudely in the presence your daughter when she is sucking his niplles because she may do the same to a relative, carer, neighbors or teacher with a degenerate mind and the door of abuse is then opened, GOD FORBID!!! Correct her saying it is not respectful to do that to adults or other people but don't scold her harshly to the point where an innocent child would be scarred about physical contact and think she is at fault or Mummy hates her. Keep the scolding for her Dad in her presence so she knows it is daddy's fault. Please continue to talk o! He needs to learn about Boundaries. Gosh!!!
Na real Mr Adam sweeping Eden
DeleteMr Adam sweeps his Eden indeed😂😂
DeleteThe problem with women is that when you are dating a man you see all the signs you will ignore thinking marriage will change him. You will tell yourself the things you will change in a grown man that his mother who gave birth to him has been fighting to change since she gave birth to him, you his woman will now think he will change.
ReplyDeleteOnce you noticed any bad behavior from a man address it, if the person is not ready to change and you know that his habit will make you uncomfortable in the future end it.
There are no bad marriage, the problem is that badly behaved people or bad people enter into marriage with their bad attitude. You cannot change any man, marriage cannot change your husband, his mother cannot change him, your complaining and nagging cannot change him either only God can change him so turn all your tears, complain, tiredness to God else you are just wasting time.
Lastly, I will say his cousin should stop sweeping his room every morning since he love to sleep naked. Arrange another time for sweeping his room, if you want to correct a man don't do it as a confrontation else his eagle will not let him take correction from a woman. Just look for better ways to manage him while you table it to God. Open your eyes before your crazy husband abuse your daughter and his cousin.
My elder brother is like this till tomorrow but he has 4 boys...worst thing now he’s out of the country but the last son have taken over from there..and he’s 5 you can never see him putting on cloth
ReplyDeleteLook at you ranting about your husband's vices but failing to talk about the slavery you're practicing in your home?!
ReplyDeleteYour cousin is just 8years and look at the type of work she's doing?
You call yourself a Christian right and yet practicing slavery thinking you're helping her family!
No you ain't!
An 8yr old is a child and should be enjoying her childhood!
Wicked person
Madam please explain, going nude, does it mean;
ReplyDeleteNo shorts
No underpants
No shirts
manhood dangling? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Is that your cousin that sweeps a girl and has she complained about this?
Please answer below my comment and I will know what to tell you.
Madam you know he will be naked but still send the little cousin to sweep, that is not right at all.. You have to put your foot down if not it may not end well on the long run for your kids if they begin to see such as normal
ReplyDeleteIf he only goes nude in his room and when he is alone I wouldn't fault him... but since he lives with an 8yr old and his baby daughter he should maintain na... maybe you can instruct your cousin not to go into his room to sleep anymore. Later on you can sweep his room.
ReplyDeleteThen he should stop giving your daughter nipples to suck 😒 🙄 haba now
Its possible the little girl is only fond of her daddy in an innocent way and the dad is innocent too, because I have seen 1yr old boy playfully rub his face on his aunts boobs,like some 2year bellow who are fond of boobs still play with their mom or Aunty's boobs innocently oh, all these depends on trust though.
In your case your daughter is 3 and already has sense, so he should stop giving her nipples and stop the nudes in her presence.
My brother is 7 years old, I bath him and prepare him for school, I wonder how i would feel seeing him sweep n8y room and other places every morning before going to school. How do you sleep at night? Isn't what you are practicing slavery and child abuse? Anyways you and your husband fit each other, please send that child back home and help train her in school if that's what you sold to her parents before taking her.
DeleteI am so angry, I don't have words for your husband! Good luck in changing him if you think you can.
ReplyDeleteTwo immature adults who have no idea what parenting is all about. The blame lies on you both. Him for failing to grow up knowing he now has appendages and you for allowing the children's sensibilities to be abused, especially the 8year old! Biko, send her back home before you both damage her irreversibly, you have done enough damage already. What a house of horror! Two lazy adults, nursing a disaster waiting to happen.
Even if he doesn't abuse those children. What about their psyche? They will go out there and do the same thing thinking its normal! Imagine that three year old sucking on another man's nipple in your absence. What do you think will happen? What about the 8year old who already thinks nudity in a full grown adult male around her is a norm? Can you even imagine the endless possibilities of assault that might happen. All because the children will think it's normal! 😨😨
Gosh!!! What a woman! I am angry! How can you allow an 8year old to sweep a room with a naked man inside? Ha! That is wickedness of the highest order! It shows you don't care about that your cousin! How could you do that to her. To think you even see your 3year old sucking her dad's nipple! Jeez! Madam, with all these stories we read, you haven't learnt anything?
I weep for the little ones under your care. As for you adults including a mother who said its a village thingy. I have no words, because you all know what you are doing. It's the children I pity. I pray God intervenes before we hear story that touch.
Stella, please find a way to talk to this woman, for the sake of those little children. Please 🙏🙏🙏.
This reminds me of my ex and his sister. Talking about people pushing 40 and still walk around stark nude in each others presence, even gist self. Was really weird to me. Now I know there are others like this.
ReplyDeleteYou married him thinking you can change him right? Now that it's obvious that you can't change him you are crying. The only problem l see in your home is you. He stopped displaying his nakedness everywhere but his room to please you but you send an eight years old child to his room every morning when you know he sleeps naked. I have a mother of 5 who is friend, she walks around naked in her home. Her kids sometimes cover her up when she is sleeping. She was like that when her husband met and married her and he is not complaining. You ladies see things you don't like, you marry the guy and start complaining and nagging immediately after, expecting magical changes within the shortest possible time. Growing up my dad use to call me and my siblings to help him wash his back and we did it without complaining. We didn't read any stupid meanings to it. He loved us and we loved him. My mum never made any effort to stop us. You should be ashamed of yourself for enslaving your little cousin.
ReplyDelete8years old sweeping a naked adult Male's room daily, u and your husband are irresponsible and shameless. send your cousin/maid back to her parents please and keep your child away from that weirdo...he needs help...sick man
ReplyDeleteStella, which abuse again? He's already abusing them. Abuse is in different forms. He might start abusing them in other ways too. May God keep us away from useless men.
ReplyDeletePoster when your daughter is 8 please send her to your cousin’s house to be sweeping early in the morning. 8 years old ! Not only wicked but EVIL
ReplyDeleteAs for you people blaming the cousin/slave/nanny and saying she should spank the baby, she won’t spank the husband ? You people have power for children and nannies but nothing for horsebands. RUBBISH
Who said she should spank the baby? Are you high? Read the comments again when your hangover is gone.
DeleteAnon@23.50 hope all is well? Get well soon and be healed
DeleteReading this post just made me realise I am a nudist but only in my house. God help me
ReplyDeleteStella you red pen is correct. The toddler sucking his nipple is sexual pleasure for him. She needs to protect her wards
ReplyDeleteI’m not surprised at all. Sebi it’s only your husband that sleep and walk naked not both of you. It’s better o. There isn’t this friend of mine, both the mother and father go naked anytime they feel in the presence of visitor and they don’t mind at all. It is even we that complain and the children doesn’t even see it as something big And they are all grown up but don’t go nude. It depends on how you raise your children.
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