Advertisement - Mobile In-Article

Tuesday, April 05, 2022


 I salute you my people!


I am so excited!!!
I am so happy!!!
I am so blessed

How far? Any memo for me?

I just noticed that some of you dont really understand what commenting using ''Reply'' button... Is someone comments using reply, it does not mean they are referring to your original comment, it just means they want their comment to be up... I saw one comment accusing me of not enabling reply and i went to see what the person posted and it had nothing to do with original comment....

I dont owe anyone any apologies if they decide not to understand.

BV Teejay mailed me and said he is traumatized over his Aunts Death and also dealing with some personal issue....He sounded kinda depressed and will take time off commenting until he is fine....

Wish you all the best Teejay....

If you want free advert, please send in your business meme, please do it well.



I did not know i was battling with any form of addiction until recently when i read through boredom eliminating post on the blog and the question asked was about addictions. I read some comments about soft drinks( soda or carbonated drinks) and it dawned on me that I was addicted to Coca cola, I knew it deep down for a while but I had kind of buried it. The post helped me face the truth.

When I had my last baby, I had this terrible headaches, it was called a spinal headache, it had to do with the side effects of the regional anesthesia I was given for surgery. It defied medications and the doctor recommended coca cola because of the caffeine content and truly it worked, a bottle kept the headache away for like four hours, so I was taking three to four bottles per day.

When the headaches stopped, my coke intake didn’t stop just reduced it to about two bottles per day and it has been on and off like that for over a year. Reading the post helped me resolve to stop and do better. I was drinking an average of twelve bottles per week and I had once finished a pack of twelve in two days. I have reduced my intake to a bottle every other day, so I am now at an average of four per week and I hope to get to a point where I would be cutting it out completely.

Hmmmm I was like this until i woke up one day and said NO MORE!!!... Its been 6 years and still no coke... If you make up your mind, there is nothing you cant do!



Excited Blog Visitor Says

''My journey to motherhood started in October 2018 . This was after my fathers burial when I found out I was pregnant. Immediately it was confirmed, hypermesis gravidarum descended on me. I couldn’t hold anything and this lasted until I went to bathe that Sunday morning and I started spotting , I was rushed to the clinic where it was confirmed there was no beat, my precious baby was gone after all I endured for 13 weeks. 

Oh I cried , my husband cried , the whole family was thrown into mourning again.

April 2019, I got pregnant again, same cycle of HG, this time more severe I was in the hospital more times than I was at home, I was fed through drips .
I went for my regular antenatal and then I saw that familiar look on the doctor’s face . I could tell something was wrong, he called my husband outside the scan room and broke the news and they both decided to tell me. 

Oh bvs I ran out of the room screaming, they had to chase me to the street, I fell down in the middle of the road and cried for my baby, this happened at 6 months..

 . No medical explanation same no heart beat. 

 Stella I grew sick with grief .

After 2019, I couldn’t get pregnant again, we tried all and decided to seek medical help outside the country, I was diagnosed with bilateral tube blockage, both Fallopian tubes were blocked and I had 7 ovarian cysts on my both ovaries. I was scheduled for a laparoscopic procedure to try to flush the tubes and remove the cysts at the same time.

After the surgery, we found out the Fallopian tubes were completely blocked and therefore it would take a miracle or science to get me pregnant!

Hey God , this was in 2021 . Meaning we’ve tried to get pregnant 2 years after the second loss Unsuccessfully!

We were confirmed pregnant in August 2021 after a successful procedure and then the devil tried to bring out his ugly head! I’m going to skip all I went through this time but anyone who has gone through ivf will understand.

My baby stopped growing and was diagnosed with IUGR, so she had to be brought out a month earlier than her edd. I’m not going to dwell on all the snide remark’s people made; even family because this is a testimony of praise . 

To everyone looking for this miracle May God come through for you.

P.s Default smiles testimony encouraged me to be steadfast and trust in the lord.

Congratulations my darling........ She is so beautiful.. OMG..I remember when you came in my inbox last year screaming you were pregnant and we agreed you should wait and not spill yet........ God is awesome!

Wait wait wait!!!!


GOD FORBID bad thing!!!!! defaultsmile is among the people in the former whatsapp group that sent a false story trying to break my marriage to Instagram..bad mouthed and maligned me when i did her nothing at all but encouraged her when she was TTC and had almost given up... The cases when God go Judge go plenty..... sebi they complained of my group and closed it with fight now they are all stuck in a porn WhatsApp group with strangers, useless ,shameless married women in Canada. (May everything you all planned against me happen to all of you , it may take time but when it starts una go know)



Bush meat don catch hunter  oh.

 E get this man, he's always cheating on his wife openly, sometimes His babes will call wifey, telling her not to expect hubby, he's in their house... Imagine the nonsense. People in the area advised her to leave with her kids since he's not catering for them. She sey she won't go, sey the man too fine, na him Mek babes dey die untop him matter. 

Sometimes he'll beat her and throw her things outside, still she refused to leave. Her younger sis came from the villa to stay with her, and she's very beautiful, well shaped. Her younger sis and her hubby started running things behind her back.

Until she caught them pants down one fateful day. Younger sis sef na my friend oh, if no be sey na her big sis talk am, I for no believe (Abeg had to cut ties, she no try at all).

The koko now be sey younger sis wey run things with her sis hubby don marry, and her hubby dey run things with another of their small sis wey come do nanny for her. Same thing she did to her big sis(who sey karma no dey?)

Her big sis on the other hand dey deal with her hubby now (wey been get plenty chicks outside). Money don finish for the man hand, he's back to the house cold and quiet, no more dorime and shouting at her.

And the koko now be sey, the man John Thomas no dey work again (how I knew?). Unto sey, I be her younger sis friend and she dey complain give me sometimes, maybe na him Mek she release this one too. 

She was saying it with plenty joy, cos of how he had humiliated her before. She say as soon as the man plug socket, fiam light don go and he's so ashamed of himself ... Me I kuku tell her sey the John Thomas don enter both spirit and human, na him Mek e die like dat, lol. As it is now eeh, she's so happy about her hubby's predicament and is willing to tell whoever cares to hear about it, she sey na Baba God dey helep her punish am and it's time to explore outside. 

Marriage Wahala

On another news, remember that my Neighbor that came to ask me about a medicine she found in her hubby's pocket, hmmmm, no be small thing happen few days back oh. They had a fight, and the one he was beating her inside was not enough, he dragged her outside and was looking for clubs to beat her with. She was shouting, running from one gate to the other for people to helep her. 

This happened in the night and people are more security conscious unlike the other times that dogs will bark and everyone will rush outside to see what's happening. Some people that she ran to, to save her from her hubby refused helping her. They were angry with her, she has been facing all sorts in the hands of this beast of a husband, yet she refused to leave and live.

People get mind sha, dey allowed this beast of a husband to be rolling her in the stagnant waters in the street from the previous rainfall. Before everyone came out to see what's happening, she had fainted. 

Naso everybody begin run helter scatter to get help and bring her back to life. He was ranting 'I will kill you and nothing will happen '. The real men wey dey this area, wey get better money and class, dey take care of their families, dey treat their wives like fresh eggs, nobody don hear their voices one day. Na the ishiokporokos wey get nada dey Mek noise pass, dey disturb the peace of we area. Thank God sey she no die, if she dare comes back to that man's house eeh, people will finally wash their hands off her matter.

Na wah oh!!!

Some of these stories seem unbelievable but are real....
That first story, maybe one of his babes has used something on him oooooh.... I read a story somewhere online where the man lost the desire to make it stand becos he broke up with his side chic and she went ghetto on him with Jazz that If its not her, cant be someone else.....

He had to marry her as second wife before she restored the thing.. After that he quickly relocated abroad with his first wife and kids and shared his story....



To hide a WhatsApp chat from a snooping partner.
1.Open your WhatsApp.

2.At the top left click on "WhatsApp"
Select a security pattern "pin, finger print or pattern" and add the one you prefer.(it will direct you to s hiding chamber for chatting.

3.go back to the your normal chatting homepage. Press and hold down on any name on your WhatsApp list you want to hide his or her chat. It will highlight.
4. Click on the on the 3 dots at the top right .

5. Select hide.

6. The security pattern you chose will appear.

7. Add the security pattern and the contact will hide automatically.

To chat with the hidden number or catch a cheating pattern who knows this secret.

1. Open your WhatsApp.

2. Click on "WhatsApp" at the top left.

3. Unlock your security pattern.

4. The hidden number(s) will appear and you chat.

5. Go back to normal homepage after chatting/snooping.

Hidden number's chats don't pop up. It only show when you enter the chamber.

There is another security pattern to lock your your WhatsApp that is different from app lock.
There is an app you can use to hide videos and pictures.

I will tell you guys about these two if the vote is in my favour to continue.

Does this thing work? I dont have problem with my hobby's phone and i dont believe in snooping at all......



  1. Expect April to be filled with blessing after blessing until you overflow!-coybarker


    1. Na soπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

    2. Amen.

      Signing meme na correct.

      Gos bless the givers n protect us.amen

  2. Good afternoon beautiful people πŸ’œ.

    Congratulations the new mother up there.. Your baby looks beautiful.

    Teejay, God is your strength.

    1. Greetings Momma ❤️❤️ how's your day going?

      Congratulations to the new MomπŸŽŠπŸŽ‰πŸ₯³ she's so cute with chubby cheeks πŸ₯°πŸ˜ God bless and keep herπŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

      @Teejay I'm sorry for your loss..God comfort your family and may her soul RIP πŸ™πŸ™

    2. Congratulations to the new mom.
      Sweet baby you are blessed.
      Teejah,it is well with you.

    3. Congratulations to the new Mama, God blessings

    4. Paris, I dey fine. Dwelling in the secret place of the most high.

      😘 😘 😘 😘 😘 Beautiful soul.

  3. wow.... beautiful baby 😍

    1. Holla 😘😘

      Anon my lover πŸ₯°πŸ₯° howdy?

  4. Stellaaaaaa, Default Smile????? 🀷‍♀️ 🀀🧐🧐.

    Ọchα»‹ m. This mess is too complicated oo. Chaii, how could she??

  5. Default Smile?????? Really???? 😳😳😳😳

    Congrats on your baby poster. May this joy be permanent in ur life. I wish every TTC mum I know a childbirth good news πŸ™

  6. Teejay I wish you quick recovery.
    Congratulations to our latest baby.
    The sun is on another level.

  7. Cute baby
    God bless and keep her.

  8. Congratulations to the new mom. May God keep her.

  9. Good afternoon everyone
    So sorry for loss of your Aunt @Teejay. Please be strong πŸ™πŸ™

    I rejoice with you and your family for giving you a beautiful baby,more blessings to come to your family πŸ™πŸ™❤️😘

  10. Baby so cute😘😘😘😘
    Congratulations to the new parent!

    Its well with you@teejay

  11. Congratulations to the new mum, may God bless and keep your beautiful baby.

  12. Stella this sign-out meme is so strong o! Thank you!

    Congrats to the new mum. God bless your cute baby.

    Default Smile (Mother of two kings or so)? Hian! Why nau? Stella, see hennnn! You've done a lot of good to many of us, me inclusive that when we look back, it's all about gratitude from us. No worry yourself, God dey your back!

    I hail una o.

    1. Stella is kind but I guess she too rub shoulders with strangers na why see finish dey enter.see one sending her mail that he cannot comment bla bla bla. Tomorrow now, such a person might decide to spread false gist about her and people will believe.
      Madam Stella, learn to keep people at arms length, inugo?

  13. Stop telling people on social media about your problem
    Me that my gas 😜has finished did I tell anybody πŸƒπŸ€·πŸ€·πŸ€·

    Good afternoon everyoneπŸ’•πŸ’œπŸ’™πŸ’–πŸ’ž❤πŸ’šπŸ’ŸπŸ’‹πŸ˜
    Teejay may your aunts soul RIP,I wish you a quick recovery,may God strengthen you amenπŸ˜πŸ’‹πŸ’ŸπŸ’šπŸ’žπŸ’žπŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ’•πŸ’•

    Congratulations to the new mother

  14. Today is my birthday. Happy birthday to me.

    1. Happy birthday, many more years to you.

    2. Happy birthday dear πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰ God bless your new age

    3. Happy birthday to you ❤️❤️

    4. Happy Birthday Makas

      My namesake, wish you the best...

    5. Happy birthday dearπŸ₯³πŸŽ‰πŸŽŠ God bless your new age richly πŸ™Œ have fun πŸ₯³

    6. Happy birthdayπŸŽ‚πŸŽ‚

    7. Happy birthday To you πŸŽ‰

    8. Hearty birthday blessings to you!

    9. Happy birthday to you. Enjoy your day.

    10. Happy birthday
      God bless your new ageπŸ™πŸ»

  15. That WhatsApp info works very well.
    If you snoop and your partner clean that side too, then he or she is 80% clean.

  16. Awww cute baby. Congratulations ma'am.

  17. Congratulations sis. God never fails.
    I’m really happy for you.

    All these women experiencing domestic violence like this, don’t they have parents,siblings? You’d rather die a Mrs than run for your life?
    Of course she’ll be happy that her hubby can’t perform anymore cos he has disgraced her countless times. Side chics even calling to warn her. Some people dey take nonsense o.

    Prettiest Rosie, long time.

    1. Most cases, women who suffer DV are usually alienated from their family b4 the kpokpoing starts. Their abusers damage them psychologically first

  18. Loaded April. Its a blessed month already. Congratulations to the new mum. More blessings

  19. Areoplane for sale 150k
    E no dey land oo once e take off.
    Na you and God go know how you want take jumb down.


    1. How you want take sell something wey dey up and no dey land?πŸ€”πŸ€”πŸ€”

  20. Bv Teejay,it is well with you. May God console your family. Please stay strong.

    Poster, congratulations. I love baby news. Baby you are welcome.

    Bv default smile? Really? This life na wa. Stella, God is on your side.

    My people, how una dey?

  21. Good afternoon everyone. Congratulations dear. Hot afternoon here.

    1. Holla πŸ₯°πŸ₯°

      IJ with the gist πŸ’•πŸ’•

  22. So sorry TJ
    Get well soon.
    What a CutieπŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°
    Congrats BV

  23. Congratulations πŸŽ‰ to you poster
    Ramadan Mubarak folks ♥️
    Holiday loading...
    I can't wait 😍

  24. Congratulations poster...So happy for you,Me I tap ooo...
    Wow Default smile am surprised oooo.This life .....

  25. Congratulations to the new mummy, Oh how l was so desperate to have a child. It's is well.

  26. Please is it good to use someone’s NiN

    1. No, it's an identification number connected to a particular person.

    2. No! Don't use someone else data oh,hmmm


    O Allah, on this day, grant me (us) wisdom and awareness, keep me (us) away from foolishness and pretention, grant me (us) a share in every blessing You send down, by You generosity, O the most Generous, Ameeeeeen Thumma Ameeeeeen πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ™πŸ»πŸ€²πŸ»πŸ€²πŸ»πŸ€²πŸ»πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­

  28. Default Smile😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳😳
    I can't believe it.
    Reminds me of Olori Orente's rubbish.
    Stella is a strong woman

    1. Orente too? But she's still here now

    2. I was addicted to coca cola too,until they started to 8increase the price, water is cheaper,anytime I have the urge,I think about the 120 naira its being sold, and I drink my water in peace.


    3. What did Olori Orente do?πŸ₯ΊπŸ€¨πŸ€”

    4. Over shock dey worry me too because she was cool here

      Default smile whileeee 😳😳😳

      E shock me 😳😳

    5. Olori Orente abi Olori Isis?
      Biko, drop the gist like it's hot.

    6. Coca cola 120?? Where?? I bought 200 yesterday. From normal shop o, not even a mall.

    7. Anonymous 16:31 na bottle coke not plastic one.

  29. See little Angel πŸ˜‡ πŸ’– πŸ’“
    Welcome Little cutieπŸ₯°πŸ€©πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜

    It is well @ Teejay,the good Lord's your strength πŸ’ͺ πŸ™..

    Good Afternoon yard people

  30. Good afternoon everyone πŸ€ΈπŸ€ΈπŸ’—πŸ’ƒπŸ€©
    Ijeoma na wa o.

    Congratulations to the new mother, thank God for his mercies. Welcome cute babyπŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’–.

    Default smile????πŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯ΊπŸ₯Ί Na wa oh, wetin I go talk? Hmmmmmmm

    Teejay sorry oh, that's life for you, wishing you quick recovery soonest.

    Love and light people πŸ’˜πŸ’—πŸ’–πŸ₯ΊπŸ€ΈπŸ˜

  31. Congratulations to you , your baby is sp cute. God protection on her and your family.

    I receive my miracle baby in Jesus name Amen.

  32. Default smile???
    Funny enough I kinda suspected her, when Stella mentioned some bVs in Canada where responsible for the false gist being spread about her. This life eh. SMH.

    Teejay, may the Lord comfort you and your family.

    SDK whistle blower

  33. I was addicted to coca cola too,until they started to 8increase the price, water is cheaper,anytime I have the urge,I think about the 120 naira its being sold, and I drink my water in peace.


  34. Congratulations to the new Mother!Tee-Jay iam so sorry about your aunt,may God comfort your family

  35. Congratulations to the new Mother!Tee-Jay iam so sorry about your aunt,may God comfort your family

  36. @Teejay. Sometimes when l read your post or reply on a post I personally feel uneasy and say a silent prayer for God to guide your emotions. You seen to me as one who allow things get to him easily. Beloved brother, in this life offence must come, pain must come, unexpected issues must come but God is too strong to lift us above them all. You cannot be a consistent SDK bv without being strong for yourself. Please guard your heart with all diligence. Be strong for nothing last forever. EVEN THIS SHALL PASS AWAY.

    πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°πŸ₯°Oh dancing and shaking my small bumbum. I like the news of babies especially babies that defiled all odds. A big congratulations madam. Evidence ends all arguments. Men have said theirs but God has proved himself faithful in your family. I celebrate with you and your family. God give you the grace to be a perfect mother.

    When you dig a pit for someone remember the person is not there to measure him or her size therefore you are indirectly digging your size and you must surely fall on it. My people say wrong words are stronger than poison. Be careful what you say about an innocent person because God is her defence.

    1. na the same tin we read so cos I nor see where teejay say them offend na why u talk about offence then

  37. I celebrate you again and again @castle on your new business. You have done well. God grant you more and better ideas to achieve greater heights

  38. To everyone celebrating. Big congratulations. Remember nothing good comes without the help of God. Set out time to thank God sincerely.
    To everyone going through one issue or the other. God has not forgotten you yet. Remember he never sleeps nor slumber. Keep your hopes alive. This too shall pass away.

  39. Good afternoon everyone.
    Congratulations baby poster.
    Tj so sorry 4 your Aunty's death

  40. Good afternoon all. congratulations to the new mother. whenever I am reading the post "inside the mind of a mind of a woman going through motherhood", my mind reads it as " inside the mind of a woman going through menopause". l am at that phase

  41. Hello Sharon, thank you.
    If you'll pay for the shipping, of course I can send to Stella. Please chat me up for more details.

  42. Congratulations poster with the beautiful baby
    Teejay, it well with you
    Good afternoon people

  43. Stella l celebrate you. I celebrate the grace of God in your life. Bible in proverbs 25:21-22 talks about what God does to our enemies when we are kind to them. I love you beyond words.

  44. Congratulations to you mama baby

    Teejay be strong

    So she did rather stay in that nonsense marriage and die nawa

    Enjoy the rest of your day lovelies

  45. Congratulations to a happy mother with a beautiful baby.Praise GOD!The devil is a fat liar.
    @TEEJAY MY GUY MAN,Please be strong.My sincere condolence to you and your beloved family over the demise of your amiable aunty.

  46. Congratulations Castles on your new business. May God bless your hustle.

  47. Sorry about your Aunt Teejay. It is well with you. Please be strong.

  48. Things dey occur sha. Ehugs to you, Teejay. Congratulations to the new mum. Your testimony is permanent in Jesus Name.

  49. Awwwwnnnnnnn......cutie little darl'πŸ’‹πŸ’žπŸ’•❣️ congratulations to you and yours ma'am.

    My condolences TJ,be strong bro

  50. Oh, so sorry for your loss, Teejay. Accept my deepest sympathy.
    Belated birthday wishes to Perxian, Makas, Mary Jane and all the other celebrants.

  51. So I'm not the only one addicted to soft drinks @ motherhood poster. Mine is Pepsi though and I take a bottle per day. You tried finishing a pack in two days o. My addiction no reach that one. I'm trying to work on it but it has not been easily. Especially when you see those women with correct blocked soft drinks hawking in traffic. May God help me as I help myself.

  52. Congratulations to the new mom

  53. Addiction to coke is not a good thing, please make una try and limit it, replace it with unsweetened yogurt instead. I take kirkland organic unsweetened almond yoghurt or farm fresh.
    You can go for smoothies or Zobo drinks if you don't like yoghurt..
    Yoghurt is highly recommended for the feminine system.

    Coke has too much sugar and not good for women, especially for those with painful period .


Disclaimer: Comments And Opinions On Any Part Of This Website Are Opinions Of The Blog Commenters Or Anonymous Persons And They Do Not Represent The Opinion Of

Pictures and culled stories posted on this site are given credit and if a story is yours but credited to the wrong source,Please contact and corrections will be made..

If you have a complaint or a story,Please Contact Via
Mobile Phone +4915210724141