The ongoing brouhaha between actor Alexx Ekubo and ex Fancy Acholonu is still ongoing as the actor has released through 'sources' a conversation he had with Fancy after she posted the Apology...
Note that he was recording and knew exactly what to say...
Have you listened to the audio? what is your view?
I have not listened to this audio. Abeg, where e dey?
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DeleteHere is my own honest review:
DeleteFancy loves Alex more than Alex loves her
Alex knows and as a normal person who feels like hot sliced bread when you know someone loves you; he's exploiting it.
He made her make the apology for his sake because he knew she will do anything for him.
Fancy on the other hand is doing her own expose too so that if she cannot have him; no other good lady will ride with him for doing her dirty.
Both of them are honestly just here doing *DO ME I DO YOU...*
And because we have amebo spirit on a normal in Naija; we are following up 😄
Gay men are usually very compassionate and not this brutal . Fucking bastard closet gay! UTI nemesis will forever hunt u. Fool
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Anon 17:07 you say wetin? Them dey very sassy..especially from that pain of being rejected and persecuted by the world. Also many are in secret competition with women and are always trying to turn straight men gay or snatch them from their women
DeleteLadies look into the eyes always, if it is dead and empty nothing is there for you. Nothing!
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for the girl being with a guy that isn't attracted to her but is attracted to the idea of her. Like a diamonds in a candlebra or a golden rocking chair.
DeleteI want to feel bad for Alex as e look like person wey wanna maintain this awon set 'type a' personality there4 this sort of scrutiny and speculation will hit him. Nietzens debating Whether na gbola non performance issues or g@y rumours is not an easy thing to pass thru
Alex dey form strong silent type but he is quietly shooting heavy bombs. And as he no even send her, he will bounce back unfazed.
It wont surprise me if he publicly dates & impregnate a 'curvy' smallie of 20yrs or wte , to hurt his x as well as prove all other rumours wrong. (Hopefully the belle go be his own)
See how his bff iyke played the game na, dated and dumped a babe with his child, moved on and publicly flaunted
a very curvy oyibo wife who even had the same name as his non curvy ex. Sonia.
Only that iyke got both sonias pregnant. So his manhood lives on (apologies to patience jonathan).
I feel for the lady, one can sense she is hurting and dem even say her pops na uber driver yab am and she is being trolled.
I hope she heals then move on with an open and honest guy, maybe Wall Street Guru (and not a celeb!)as a husband (if she desires. marriage) and live a peaceful life
As for Alex, he is already bouncing back small small.
I wish both of them all the best .
Pls explain further. I have heard this thing before but I'm unable to tell dead eyes from live ones
DeleteAs in Alex saying "he is well calculated when he does things" It is looking more like a PR stunt. Let's focus on the elections, and not get distracted which is more important.
ReplyDeleteBoys are vindictive
DeleteMen Move On
Alex fooled himself.
ReplyDeleteIf I were the guy, I will continue to remain silent and stop trying to prove nothing.
ReplyDeleteMake these people rest nah
ReplyDeleteI have now listened to some parts of the call (didn't see the end) and I've come to conclude that no matter the part of Alex side that you guys see, he will never be given the benefit of the doubt. I didn't see any part where he was being careful of what he was saying. No part where he was trying to get Fancy to admit any wrong doing or make himself look like a saint. The audio was just about her apologising publicly since she was the one that shamed him publicly except it's in the later part of the audio.
ReplyDeleteBut of course, I'm supporting him na abi what else una wan talk?
Who record a conversation they have sincerely with the other person. If not for future reference. That's how my psychotic ex, called me, trying to ask some questions. I knew it was on recording. Maybe he has promised to send it to someone. It was in that call I reminded him to remember to visit yabaleft and how he told me he kissed a man and slept on the same bed with the man, tho nothing happened, so he could sponsor his education. He cut the call. Have dated a naccistic once and believe me, your story will be sounding stupid to even your own ear, but na only you know whatsup
DeleteSó she's allowed to keep receipts (she said she has) and he's not allowed? See ehn, once bitten, twice shy. If I'm the one too, I'd keep receipts after the last things she did during the break up
DeleteThis is not a receipt please. It only confirms that he told her to apologize and he is trying to make it seem like they did not initially have an understanding for him to comment under her apology. This nigger is gaslighting her please.
Delete😂😂 @15.49..
DeleteGaslight? Do you know the meaning of gaslight?
This has got to be the most abused word on the internet after narcissist 😂🤣
Gaslight ko kerosene light nii🤣🤣
I have not listened to the audio, somebody listen and come tell us.
ReplyDeleteIf there is no motive behind this,why record a conversation between you and someone you claim to love.If I knew I was going to record a conversation between me and someone, will be careful with my words and throw questions at you to reveal alot. It's just like a blackmailer nailing you,wish them both peace ✌
ReplyDeleteGbam. Gbammer and Gbammest!
DeleteWhether it is Alexx or Fancy or anyone else, if you plan on recording any call, you the recorder will ALWAYS be very calculated and mindful of what you say on the call and also steer the conversation to incriminate the other person as you already know you are recording and they don't know, you will also be extremely careful with your responses in such a conversation! it may not be apparent to anyone else listening as we can not always tell by your intonations or inflections unless you're not good at the acting deception. Remember also that people can pretend and act a lot, not just actors, moreover, this guy na actor by profession, so he has a higher index of suspicion that he was able to effectively act his part to make the call not suspicious. In fact just the fact that a someone starts recording their partner is a premeditated act and glaring purpose is to either incriminate their partner, blackmail them, or lure them into saying or admitting things that be embarassing, or incriminating, and they do this by directing the conversation. Same as when they (Government agencies) do wiretapping, either telephone or physical, goal is entrapping people.The unsuspecting partner is usually freely conversing in this call, and remember, if you are friends, lovers or partners, there is still an element of trust and you may share secrets or intimate things that you wouldn't with someone not so close.
Alexx, it appears set out for revenge in this whole saga and his actions were planned and executed, in that vein, the recording of the other person was part of his deliberate, vindictive revenge.
Now all is done, He should move on (he/his actions actually disgusts me now the more it is apparent what he has done), Fancy too should move on (she too was not wise at all through all this), She made a terrible mistake doing this second round of apologies and being hoodwinked so bad, her initial public break-up was unfortunate and not ideal but after several attempts to work with a headstrong, pompous and egocentric partner who absolutely refused to join forces with her to craft a mutually agreeable announcement that would prevent all these shenanigans, but she did not need to go 2nd round with him. After making all those attempts and he refused, Alexx has no standing to object to however Fancy decided to handle the iniitial announcement! He can't eat his cake and have it.
They both should stop already. Fancy should ignore him and his minions from now, concentrate on healing herself and learn lessons from the 6 - 8 years encounter. My 2 cents.
Why dint he record the ones before that one?
DeleteIf he is mr recorder, let him release all other recordings before this one.
I am sure he cannot do that
Alex like he said is really calculative, he did this one after and kept it as evidence Incase anything goes left since it was a planned to do in the first place.
Anyone who cannot see through him is actually not intelligent at all 🤣
Push up (original)
I have listened to the conversation. From the tone of his voice and words he said, Alex is mean, cold and somewhat cruel. What I heard is the sound of a man that is not into his fiancé, a voice that sounded cruel and a man that was talking more about himself, calls that are waiting for him and a man that has serious ego.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm Fancy is not perfect but from the conversation, Alex is a cruel, cold blooded man without emotions.
Apt
DeleteSeconded!
DeleteAlex is a cruel, egotistic, vengeful, cold blooded man without emotions. He should move on as he has achieved his goal although he may not like the actual outcome which is that more people see him in a very negative light. His actions disgust me. He should take a chill pill.
One person thought they were reconciling while the other was busy plotting his revenge. If you didn't forgive her abinitio, you should have just kept her at arms length and squashed any attempt at a reconciliation.
DeleteHis voice is cold, mean, wicked, devoid of emotions, infact, he is so rude, telling her to use her brain etc. Fancy, are you star struck? Abeg men never finish for earth, go and build your self esteem.
Fancy should just move on, she shouldn't respond to any of his games again, in a little while everyone will move to another topic but her truth she has said lives on.
DeleteThese two should shift abeg.
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ReplyDeleteI listened to it. Truthfully, Alex is rude,arrogant and condescending. His tone was so annoying and harsh. This is someone you planned to spend your life with, yet you couldn’t be patient with her.
You made her write an apology, dictated how it should be written and she did that cos she loved you.
Imagine telling her he wasn’t going to acknowledge her apology on his page but under her comment.
In a bid to bring this girl down, see how you ruined your reputation. Now, the whole world can see how stupid and mean you are.
From his tone, that guy never loved Fancy....how could she have been so blinded by love she couldn’t figure him out?
Sluttychic.
Yeah the selfish and narcissistic ones act like Alex did here. That nigger is cruel for this
DeleteI agree. Only someone with similar character will be defending his actions.
DeleteYep, his reputation that he was trying to salvage just exposed his true self which made the reputation worse. People like me who were indifferent to the so called reputation in the past now have an extremely negative view about him, and this has everything to do with his recent actions. Fancy's initial public apology had no impact on me or how I saw him, all the gay rumors over the last decade or so had no impact on me or how I saw him. I mostly took note of him because of how SDK used to write about him, I noted she kind of really liked him, so I kind of liked him too, never loved him though, he was just an average actor who appeared to have a good sense of humor in SDK's post. Now, I just think that he is a vindictive, rude, egotistical, mean, and condescending somebody and only his actions, and responses brought this on.
DeleteI just listened to the recording and all i can say is ....enough already! This is becoming more than it should be. It is obvious that Alexx wanted fancy to repair his public image she inadvertently(or not) damaged on her way out of the relationship and she played right into his hands. Whatever happened in their five-year long relationship to get them to this point is both their business and i think they need to both sheath their swords at this point and move on. Its too early in the year for all this drama.
ReplyDeleteYou are very right @ anon 14:04.
DeleteAlex is just too full of himself. Proud and filled with ego.
Terrible man. Fancy please no more words about this. Please move on. Babe u dogged armoury not just bullet.
Exactly..
ReplyDeleteYou shouldn't keep quiet forming "you're a man" when a bitter lady goes about tarnishing your image if you're innocent,. That would only be enabling more ladies to do such because they've seen they can get away with it..
Keeping silent when you're being slandered because you're a man isn't just dangerous to you alone but dangerous to other men in the world..
Ladies are quick to learning evils and manipulations, they are everywhere giving themselves bad advice, when one tries a wicked manipulation and it works for her, she will run to other women to spread the evil,. Case study is here on this blog,. The other day one was advicing her colleagues how to deceive a man and show your true colours after marriage.. yesterday a lot of them were telling the chronicle poster to be cooking for his family and some using their home as examples etc etc.. as a man, the first thing you should know is not to ask women for advice in relationship, they'll advice you base on their fantasies and agenda,. Meet your fellow men to tell you the truth,. The best people that can advice you about relationships as a man are Players, true Gees your mom and your sisters.. Players top the list,. They know it all and see through bullsh!t💯..
Back to the topic..
Fancy need to come back and explain to us, cos it seems like her whole interview were lies borne out of spite and malice.. she said he told her she should see what it is to be trolled after she posted the apology and she called, said he was even avoiding her calls,. But from the leaked audio we saw that he was even asking her to tell him what to comment, even going ahead to give her 3 options but the confused girl couldn't make up her mind on anything..
In everything, Fancy is the root cause of all this issh.. all these girls wey no dey get sense, small thing them don rush go internet go post trash..
PS: like I said before, our judgement is based on the evidence we have before us,. Maybe if fancy comes with a weigher evidence, the balance of probability might shift, but for now, she has a lot of explanations to do.. when lies are noticed in defences, we find it hard to believe whatever the person says, first she said they never had sex untill Alex sister outted her, and now this..
Fancy.. oya show Face.. cos we're beginning to think you want to use Alex to make yourself popular here which we believe was the reason behind the whole relationship thingy too,. That's how you ladies do, before we know, we'll start seeing you in Transcop Hilton with all these ashawo politicians in Abuja..
One more question.. are you bisexual or Les? You claimed you didn't have much experience (😂) when you met Alex, but somehow you knew the sex was wack when you had it with him after 5 years.. how?
1. How did you cope sexually during the 5 years
2. Were you cheating on him
In anticipation for your response.. Cheers
Thanks Dante for the above comment. How does she know sex was wack if she is inexperienced and that was her first time with him? That’s what most girls say to get over the hurt/break up.
DeleteThen she complained about the Uber comment, but went ahead and belittled him for sending $500 a month from Nigeria to US. Which is a lot of money in Nigeria and U.S. free $500 for a whole year. For someone who claims to make 6 figure salary, and good at investment. She is not very smart.
How did she belittle him, she just mentioned how much Alex sent to her,
DeleteChop life gang member wey never belle full.
I am beginning to change my stand like 👍 Dante! Alex is narcissistic o, but he actually loved Fancy! I hate lies, you came out and said you guys never had sex! But later agreed to once! I live in the US, even though I am currently in Nigeria.
DeleteEven though LA is expensive like, I earlier said, and $500 is not much! but for Alex to convert Naira to Dollar , when he does not earn dollars he tried. How many men in the US gives you money!
Fancy reminds me of my younger self, using my mouth 👄 to sabotage my relationships by sharing too much.
Alex might be bi, because I know a lot of bi ladies that are properly married. They were experimenting and I also know staunch lesbians that are married as well. As a child of God, I do not condone immorality! Jesus Christ died for all sinners.
Fancy and Alex are not compatible, and from my research on her, she is not really exposed! She might have lived in LA , but not properly in schooled ! Where did she study in the US; because obviously 🙄 her reasoning level is very low, compared to my younger friends from Nigeria in the US, who are now studying for PhDs in stem. Some are already PhD holders.
Fancy, if you are reading this , go back to school and upgrade yourself. You are a model, I have not seen a top brand that you have modeled for!
You wanted Alex, so badly, that you could not place any healthy boundaries for yourself in the relationship. I walked away from a 15 years relationship, after the guy cheated with a friend in another country and came to confess. He never knew the lady was my close buddy, because I have lived across continents. Even though we came back as friends, before I finally cut him off.
My problem with Fancy, is why would you call off a marriage and still be looking for closure! This is the part I don’t understand! My ex was my best friend, as I thought, but after his final betrayal, I erased him from my memory. We do not really need to know, all this information you put out there, because is your personal life.
Please go and find Christ and learn to live in Christ and let the Holy Spirit be your companion.
Alex should do same, because I took time out to review your personality, and I will say, you want to place yourself too highly!
My prayer 🙏 is that both you and Alex find Christ and go on to accomplish the purpose for which God created you guys!
My summation is , you guys were never compatible, so move on to other things! Do not rush into any relationship, take time out to find yourself . Shalom
Alex is a GAY man, take it from me. He has always been and always will! Ask around you might find out his bf pre-uti and before he contested Mr Nigeria! He better keep quiet before we run him off this street
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DeleteIs this Regina Askia or is this "here in America"
Santa Claus Hohohohoho.
I think someone told Fancy that Alex has planned a mouth watering revenge on her so Fancy took him to the cleaners. Alex sort of loves Fancy. Alex loves Fancy.
Fancy may be naive compared to the obiakpor Nigerian girls but she was clearly in love or afraid of the unknown.
The fact remains, some players reserve some girls as wife while funking everything that moves. Fancy is not your average Naija girl.
Fancy is a high value chic.
Alex and Fancy should reconcile.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Dante, your problem is comprehension. She said they didn't have sex within their 5 years of dating. She broke up with him because of this and other reasons. The sex happened months later when they hooked up because she was asked by his aunt to reach out to him and so she unblocked him. It still doesn't change the fact that no sex happened for 5 years when they were parading on social media as boyfriend and girlfriend and later as an engaged couple.
DeleteUr biased Dante. Inexperienced does not mean virgin. Read to comprehend. It just means body count no high or she has not gotten on top before. Could mean alot
DeleteBig Stellz..
ReplyDeleteOnce bitten twice shy..
After the stunt she pulled the first time of running the the internet to post breakup,. Alex would be a fool not to record their conversation moving forward..
If not for this recording, would we know she lied in her interview? Even if we might agree he was picking his words, was he putting words in her mouth? Did he not allow her express herself as she deem fit? Did he manipulate her or try to pull out discriminating words from her mouth? Was it edited?
The recording was only made for self defense just incase she comes out again to tanish his image and call him narcissist, their most favourite word.. Like they say in law, the 'document' speak for itself..
Wisdom is profitable to direct..
She needs to come for another interview, she can't develop cold feets now
But honest with yourself please. If you were going to record any call , you will have the advantage. Moreover you wil have the opportunity to edit whatever you recorded. Audio recordings can be easily manipulated by voice modulation technologies. So except the recordings come before experts you can't conclusively say the voice belongs to the young lady. If your intentions are pure you don't need to record calls. Did the recordings change the fact the young man is gay, narcissistic, a bully , self centred and overtly foolish. The burden of proof is on the boy to prove whatever he leaked is the voice of the young lady. Don't tell the world you are a child in an adult body because of your quest to support what is wrong
DeleteLol.. @Alexo
DeleteWho be this one?
So you're believing all what she said and the chats that was released without saying that how are we sure that the chat was with Alex and not another person, you also didn't say the chat might have been manipulated..
But now you're coming here to say recorded calls can be manipulation and we need experts corroboration..
You are the child in an adult body.. shame on you..
Stellz na him first carry insult come oh, na the insult weh him give me I give am back so abeg I no won find my comment 🙏
When I supported fancy in the last interview, I was cool, now the narrative has changed, I'm now supporting wrong 😂😂
DeleteWho be this one is condescending and rude?
DeleteI am not Alexander
Alexander,👍👍👍
Delete*Feet - plural
Delete*Foot - singular
@ Dante
Dante too bad you don't see you have a problem. Just because you must rubbish the female gender by force you push your gender narrative. You are not an objective person. All your analysis is based on your gender view. So simply because you feel Alex responded he is now right by all means? Well continue your gender war, but it will not serve you in any way. Those who want to follow your negative stance will also get what they are looking for. If you like abuse me as you often do anyone who has a different view from you, no surprise there. Any human being that does right should be applauded and anyone male or female that does wrong should not be praised. People are not wrong or right based on gender, but based on their actions and who they are. I'm sorry for any female that has anything to do with your kind. She has already been judged and sent to prison without even doing a thing.
Delete@DANTE......... The narrative has CHANGED completely....We are with you here. We thought Alex never had any sex with her. We attacked Alexxx.. All of a sudden, she admitted they had sex one time...If we probe her further, she'll remember another time, and another time, and another time....
DeleteAlexxx is not coldhearted but he needs to be that when dating these western women if not, they will treat you like doormat. We are glad he record her.. During the recording, we saw a women that is manipulative, vindictive, argumentative, energy drainer, talks down to... etc........ She is a relational disaster.. She needs to LIVE THAT TRUTH too and stop pretending... She calls Alexxx a Narcissists but FANCY is actually a Narcissist....She is displaying a NARC RAGE right now because she LOST to Alexxx.... Second, because her MASK has fallen, she wants revenge. All the interview was a revenge plot to crush Alexxx... She lied they never had sex until Alex family called her out...
By the way, to those that use the word gaslighting, etc... learn with it is before you use.. Alexxx never gaslighted that girl. Alexxxx is controlling as he should be when dating a WESTERN girl.. Fancy is the NARC here... Btw, Narcs normally call other people narc first.
Married and divorced men
This single and married men. I used to see your write up and wondered why no one engaged it but I realise that you sound obtuse most times and only seek validation with your comments. I hope what you wrote actually made sense to you?
DeleteKanyi
Someone has finally said this!!!
DeleteKanyi. Well said!
DeleteThis guy sha! He's just a typical egoistic Nigerian man. I only wish Fancy well. Let her face her life, there are better days ahead.
ReplyDeleteThings can only get better for her. This experience will make her a wiser and stronger woman, I pray it does not totally destroy her faith in the male gender. There are actually good men out there, though fewer.
DeleteFancy needs to move on.Just a case of a pained ex who is out there to vindicate herself not minding the consequences...she should move on...she leaked their chat,she told the world he wanted her to pay for the big societal wedding...All I see is a young childish girls ...Alex is definitely not a saint but Fancy is not innocent as she wants the want to assume
ReplyDeleteNancy is typing 🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️
ReplyDeleteI can't find the audio but you both should rest from your drama.
ReplyDeleteI am tired already!
DeleteThis guy tune the fear me ooo thank God fancy run ooo imagine no be phone talk.
ReplyDeleteBlogs are even making it more boring and annoying. Abeg make una rest .
ReplyDeleteI listened carefully and all I can say is that both parties should move on. If they get married in future it's likely not going to work. A partner is filled with love while the other is filled with pride.
ReplyDeleteI haven't listened to it and I don't care.
ReplyDeleteFancy already won,this one Alex is doing is BS.
If Alex truly released that Audio, he isn’t as smart as I thought he was. Fancy should move on. The mumuishness being exhibited in this whole brouhaha makes her look very unintelligent. Stella advise her to stop and move on. Trolls won’t leave her alone so the fight is useless
ReplyDeleteFancy if you are reading this, from a sister to another it is well with you. Next time, please look well before you leap. Stop tolerating too much in a relationship, from the way he speaks, he has no respect for you. Sis, you are better than this, I sincerely hope this agbero Alex hasn't broken you beyond repair. I hope your softness and self esteem is not bruised beyond repair. Please take time off and heal, this is just too much for one person to take. I see you dear, you will be fine.
ReplyDeleteOhhh drama no dey finsh for my country
ReplyDeleteI hope all this gay bashing is not going to hurt her. She is a model in the USA, an industry filled with gay people. I’m shocked she is putting his sexuality in question publicly. I hope her career survives it.
ReplyDeleteAnon 25:47, Fancy is being careful to announce his sexuality publicly or admit it in any interview because of where she resides but people are saying Alex is g*y even before their ' never ending drama' so, the fault is not hers and she should not be sanctioned for it.
DeleteAnik
She never gay bashed Alexx. She said she does not care about his sexuality in response to a sexuality question. You and the other internet minions are the ones who have been gay bashing. So, STOP it! Leave Fancy alone. Idiots.
DeleteShe never gay bashed him. If anything her love for him made her accept what others may not normally accept.
DeleteAbeg, I have listened to the audio. Which one is Alex is cold, Alex is mean? I’m beginning to feel Fancy is the manipulative one here.
ReplyDeleteThey will soon label u their new found favourite word - narcissistic. 😂😂
DeleteEnough Eka! We get it, Alex was wronged by Fancy. Let people have their opinions and stop trying so hard to make him the victim! Alex is a narcissist. Go read on it if you have no clue on what it means!
DeleteI wonder. That audio was after she called off the wedding. Was it supposed to be romantic? 😃
DeletePeople have been commenting under comments of people that share same opinion with them with ppl taking side digs at the ones that don't share same opinion, u didn't see that one to comment on, I say mine and u carry ur yeye self come talk rubbish. Just take ur time abeg. It's 2023, let's respect ourselves
DeleteEka, when I decide to give you a piece of my mind, Stella won't post. Stella, you enabled hers so kindly indulge me. Stop being uncouth Eka! You can make your point without sounding like a tout. Alex doesn't know you, give it a rest!
DeleteIf I'm on the call with my fiance and we're talking no matter how long the call has been and you rudely mention to me you have other important calls waiting and would want to attend to them, you're just trying to say what we've been talking about is no longer important. Make I no lie I won't handle it well. She's even more worried about if he liked the post or not. She's more in love. It's sad.
ReplyDeleteFancy pls this call coming in is very very important can I just get it I'll be quick and get back to our call. Sounds better. A man in love or one who cherishes his partner doesn't talk the way Alex sounded on that voice note.
That aside they're not compatible so they should move on and stop trying to hurt each other. When two persons are not good for each other they bring out the worst part of them out. Alex will meet someone that complements him so will Fancy and they'll live happily ever after.
Alex was more upset and irritated with the whole issue not manipulative.
ReplyDeleteFancy on the other hand wanted Alex badly and would do anything to please him. She thought Alex would still be there for her after the apology not knowing his ego will not let him change towards her. She should never had tried to rekindle the dead relationship. I hope she learns her lesson and move on. Las Las everybody go dey alright.
I can see even through his tone he forced her to do the public apology for his revenge, knowing he was planning to shame her, exonerate himself and throw her away. A calculated human being. See how the revenge opened up more cans of worms.
DeleteAll I know is that Alex didn’t love Fancy that much ,while she was head over heels in love with him. Remember she mentioned Alex cheating with curvy ladies. Both of them are in their 30s , therefore not that young to be called inexperienced or gullible in heart matters. By calculation, they were over 25years when they started dating, so Fancy claiming to be naive is not excusable. I said it last year when she called off d wedding that she was gonna regret her actions ,but some of u were not having my opinion & here we are today. If she had done that quietly, we won’t be having ds conversation today, but she was feeling herself as an Akata that was equal to d task & rushed to rubbish Alex on SM. Both of them are not saints , not taking sides bcoz only them know d truth. Las las, they both have their partners in waiting, bcoz Nigerian youths no send ona with all these stories. Many are waiting for d scandal to die down b4 striking to take over. U guys will be surprised that Alex is already in a serious relationship. As for Fancy, she should be careful not to end up with scammers as suitors, not after exposing her financial worth. They’re all over d place with cameras for sex tape evidence.
ReplyDeleteThere are inexperienced adults. It is not necessarily by age but by actual experience.
DeleteSo after what she did to Alex by calling off the engagement publicly with a bullshit write up, u guys expect him to be blindly in love with her. Cos obviously this call happened after the breakup 😏
ReplyDeleteI doubt anyone expected him to be blindly in love. Many applauded him till it came to light that he was being manipulative to shame her. In essence he was out for revenge. That is childish and vindictive. If that is good in your book then that is fine for you. 🤦🏾♀️
DeleteIf fancy can keep receipts, Alex is allowed to keep too.
ReplyDeleteControl freak, Narcissism raised to the power 10, on full display!
ReplyDeleteAll i can is Alexx Ekubo is very stupid and manipulative
ReplyDeleteBabe has been dafing herself from the beningin. girlfriends of convenience dem u better shine ya eyes and read the writings on the wall..
ReplyDelete@Anik the fact still remains that she put it out there and she was careful not to say he is gay. But every thing she said went in that direction. You can call me an idiot but I’m not gullible.
ReplyDeleteI don’t assume I know what went on behind closed doors but this recording appeared to be a very recent one, after her latest apology.
ReplyDelete1. He admitted on tape in what appears to be his recording that he made changes to her last apology.
2. I don’t know the laws in Nigeria but it is illegal to record anybody’s conversation in the US. A text message is NOT the same as a recorded phone call. I never delete messages or non commercial emails. I still have twenty year old emails in my inbox. It’s not illegal to have old text messages or release them but it’s illegal to record phone calls without consent.
3. To the commenter who seems upset that some of us use the phrase “here”, no offense, some of us have read this blog for over ten years, from HERE, it’s not meant as an offensive phrase, just our reality. The owner is in Europe & it’s a good thing she has global reach. I’m sure she appreciates all her readers equally.
4. He was very condescending & demeaning in this conversation with her. Fancy is 29 years or so, telling her “you have a brain, use it”, talking down at a woman is in poor taste. My strong suspicion as a parent of Cusper Millenials & Gen Zs is that we erroneously sell the idea of marrying from 🇳🇬 to these kids who have little root in the culture & the context of a lot of things.
Is it possible that the young lady wants to marry Igbo like her beloved dad who raised them after he lost his wife? Possibly being a liberal American she did not care about any rumors of his sexuality. She wisely states she doesn’t care about that, she is in California, the bluest of the blue states! Was there family pressure on her to marry from Naija that led to her astounding level of naivety? Is that why she returned after calling it off? It seems for her age, she tolerated being rudely spoken to, younger people of that age group will not put up with the tone & language of that phone call I listened to, heck I’m in my 3rd quarter of life & my husband cannot talk to me like that, we cannot speak to our adult professionals like that nor will they put up with that tone of conversation!
4. To the “she is not educated enough”, “stem phd” comment, my opinion as a parent is that she seems moderately successful. She had a deal with Intel/her jewelry brand on her page, makes 6 figures etc. Frankly many of us in medicine, pharmacy, academia etc here are rethinking the Nigerian model of forcing kids into the sciences as finance, sports & entertainment is also good. Look at the sheer number of Nigerian names in the NFL,NBA & College leagues. Tech is still very good but Rihanna, Kylie Jenner aren’t in Tech or science & are $billionaires! We realize the pressure on our kids to be in certain fields that aren’t the only $ rewarding nowadays, so she doesn’t need a phd in stem. Don’t get me wrong as mine is a family of PHD/STEM etc but Facebook, Twitter, Microsoft founders never completed first degree. I speak respectfully as a parent/professional.
Let’s stop steering kids towards marrying from Naija by force, they seem to be from different worlds & wouldn’t have been compatible. In writing this I’m advising myself too as a parent. My adult kids will never read the saga or know the two but this was a lesson to let these young adults find love with whoever lives or best understands them. If they happen to meet folks from Naija, fine but let God do his work.
5. The memes & Cyberbullying on sexuality is in poor taste & can lead to depression in victims.
👍 Well said.
DeleteYou articulated your point well without being condescending.
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US recording law is based on your state. However, federal law allows one-party consent. This means that anyone who is party to a conversation can record it. It is only in states like California that both parties to a conversation must consent. Otherwise, you can go with the federal option and if you are on the line, you can record it. He also doesn't live in the U.S. can sue him but the case will not go anywhere on the basis of jurisdiction.
ReplyDelete“Under the federal Wiretap Act, it is illegal for any person to secretly record an oral, telephonic, or electronic communication that other parties to the communication reasonably expect to be private. (18 U.S.C. § 2511.)” Confirmed by attorneys in several states.
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The intonation is intonanting 🤗
Please let us be real. The fool here is Fancy. She should take her L and move. She’s hurt, yes. He did her dirty, yes. But how does that make him a man to actually be chasing like this?? I can even accept if he came back to beg her and she took him back…but YOU are the one chasing HIM??! Ah sorry o but this is NOT Alex’s fault, I am dragging Fancy. And people saying he’s calculated, why did he record it…because he also knows she’s collating receipts to likely use to get him back again! Hear the desperate ‘but did you like the post…’ I wanted to slap myself as I no fit see am slap. She’s lucky she did not wander into the hands of a veteran Yoruba demon. Someone with esteem this low will remover her teeth if it so please him. Friends of Fancy, if you are reading this, help her esteem! The next guy might not be so nice.
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