Friday In House NEWS

 Happy Weekend And Plenty Hailings....

FRIDAY IN HOUSE MEMO

How everybody dey? I hope you are doing as great as I am!

Now this is for that ID Ta***** or whatever your name is, i went to your dead beat blog to see what you have to offer after all the insults you drop for me and i was glad i went there cos for someone who has not been able to update since 2019 coming to a creative and active Blog to throw insults all the freaking time.I pity you and your wicked jealousy!.......I am doing my thing, living the good life and doing my dream Job.....who are you?

You dont need to come here to comment, you are not needed at all...go and better your life and find something to do cos now i understand all your jealous comments...You said i have hungry people commenting for me cos i feed their hunger? why dont you look for hungry people to feed so that your dead blog will be active? Such audacity!...Jealousy go kee you there!

Please meander away you are not needed here if all you do is continue to spread hate comments.....I pity you.....

EHEN!!!!

I have an appointment for something in 3 hours and i cant wait, so excited!.....I will probably talk about it next week!

I hope that Oko Ahewo comments in the Night post......

I resume cooking today eeeeeeeeeeh and I am making two types of dishes....I am making something with salmon and roasted tilapia on a platter of assorted finger food with fries as major backing and then i am making spaghetti bolo garnished with my fave shrimps......lol

Dont forget to do your usual advert in the comment section....I need someone who sells samsung tabs.....Please contact me if you are not sc#m....lol

Is there a blog ID you hate so much that if you see their comments, you try not read what they typed even if they made sense? The blog ID i hate the most is the one i complained about up there cos it has been back to back hate on me for no reason........I am 100 percent certain that the person is female.....I remember A BV telling me inbox how much a former BV Irene bernards hates me, hate me because you know me or what? someone are will self implode one day on their hatred...........I rarely use the word hate and i really use the word love but anytime i use any of both i mean it....I hate anybody who plots against me without a valid reason..I hate people who are jealous without having a dream!

Abeg!

Hugs to ya all

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

I am currently packing things up to move house again, barely six months after the last move. It’s been so stressful but because I enjoy changing my environment a lot I can’t complain. The longest I have stayed in a place since my teens is four years at a stretch and barely two years in I was done and itching for a move and change of scenery.

This time around, I am moving because of the kids. The amount of toys I have found while moving has got me thinking. I was able to convince them to let go of a lot of them, and I am glad they complied.

I am also letting go of sentimental things I have held on to for a very long time. It’s kind of liberating letting go. I am someone who can hold to things for a long time because of the to them. Like a blouse that is barely worn, still new, too small, and ten years old, yet I have been holding on to it because of how much I value the person that gifted me.

Also my favourite cooking pot too, I have held on to it for too long it needs to go. My mom spent a huge sum gifting me for my wedding, so I have been super attached to it.

Maybe because my birthday is a little less than two weeks away and I am itching for a new and fresh beginning again, it’s why I am willing to let go of so much. I am happy letting go, it's "out with the old and in with new" henceforth.

Hahahahahha its cos you have a choice being married to someone who can afford anything you want....person wey no see new pot go let go of the old one?LOL....I hope that the new place turns out right for you and the kids oh...... Ah your hubby has tried....hug him for me ejor...

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REASONS WHY YOU'RE ALWAYS BROKE EVEN THOUGH YOU WORK HARD

You wake up early every morning, hustle till your body complain, but at the end of the month, your bank balance still looks like an empty pocket thief struck. You ask yourself, “Why are rich like those guys?”

1. YOU WORK HARD, BUT YOU DON’T WORK SMART

You hustle physically, you run errands, you do odd jobs, but you never think about how to multiply that hustle. You run like rat with no cheese.

Meanwhile, other guys are using their brains to invest small small, learn skills, start side hustles, build passive income.

Working hard is good. But working smart is the key to escape a poverty trap.

What to do: Learn skills that pay well. Invest in knowledge, not just sweat.

2. YOUR MONEY HAS NO PLAN, NO TRACKING

When salary enter, you just spend anyhowly—no budget, no savings, no investment.

This is why every month, you are broke before payday.

What to do: Budget your money like a CEO. Know where every coin will go.

3. YOU CARRY TOO MANY PEOPLE ON YOUR BACK

Your salary is not just for you — it’s for mama, uncle, cousin, friend, street people... you are playing Minister of Finance for everybody.

But no one does the same for you.

Reality: You can’t build wealth carrying 10 people. You must build yourself first.

What to do: Help when you fit, but put your future first.

4. YOU’RE ADDICTED TO SPENDING, NOT INVESTING

You spend on luxury, new gadgets, slay queen maintenance, designer labels… but when time to invest come, you suddenly “have no money again.”

This lifestyle is a silent killer. You build others’ businesses, not yours.

What to do: Switch your mindset from consume to invest. Use money to grow assets.

5. YOU LIVE PAYCHECK TO PAYCHECK WITH NO EMERGENCY FUND

Every little emergency crashes your finances—no backup, no plan B

So when things go wrong, you borrow, borrow, borrow until you fall into debt trap.

What to do: Save at least 3 months salary as emergency fund. Build cushion.

6. YOU FAIL TO MULTIPLY YOUR INCOME SOURCES

Relying on one salary? That’s like sitting on one leg and expecting to run marathon.

True wealth comes from multiple income streams—business, investments, side hustles.

What to do: Start small side hustles. Learn to create money streams outside salary.

7. YOU WAIT FOR MIRACLE WHILE DOING NOTHING

You pray and wait for miracle money. But no action follows.

Prayers without hustle and procrastination with spiritual flavour.

What to do: Pray with your legs and hands. Action is the partner of blessing.

FINAL TRUTH:

Hard work is important, but without planning, discipline, and smart decisions, you will remain broke.

Village people are not then cause of your poverty; your habits and choices are.

If you want to escape the poverty cycle:

-Hustle smart, not just hard.

-Budget and track your money.

-Cut unnecessary spending.

-Build emergency funds.

-Multiply your income sources.

-Stop carrying unnecessary financial burdens.

-Pair prayer with action.

If this post hit you hard, don’t just scroll.

 Change your mindset, change your life.

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MEMO ON MEN

Men get mind too much. The way they can just turn off their mind about their kids is something I can never get used to. You have a child somewhere and you go about living like they don't exist.

 You go to bed and wake up without sparing them a single thought. You eat and drink without bothering if they've eaten or not.You have two kids somewhere and you're not bothered with their feeding, school fess, accommodation and general wellbeing. You eat but you don't care to send money for food for your child.

Your partner in trying to make it easy for you to be involved tells you to pay the school fees of the kids. School fees for unrestricted access.

A good deal.

Instead of jumping at the offer, you tell your partner she thinks she's stubborn.
I'll forever maintain that men abandon their kids to punish the mothers. They want the woman to suffer for not being with them. Their ego and h8tred for the woman is bigger than whatever they feel for the kids and that's if they feel something.

Which is why you have to pvn1sh them back by removing every trace of them from the kids lives and continue with your sole responsibility.
Tomorrow, they'll say they were denied access but how do you have access to a child you're not responsible for?

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