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Yeah and vice versa
ReplyDeleteCapital YES
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks. If he can afford it, why not?🤷
ReplyDeleteEmphasis on if he can afford it
DeleteIt depends on the reason of giving. If it's for the house upkeep(kitchen) and kids, then I see nothing wrong with it. But if it's just for her persona upkeep, then I will say making it monthly isn't ideal since she's working and earn as well.
ReplyDeleteSo giving her occasionally is acceptable since she's earning too.
© TEEJAY
When you put it that way you relegate to her a post just a little higher than your house keeper, cos you are simply giving money to take care of the kids and the house, which includes you. So you make this a priority before her, that brings all of these things together (that is the running of home, taking care of you and the kids, managing domestic helps, etc)
DeleteAnd making it occassional, while its commendable, still doesnt cut it, whether she earns or not. She is your wife, and you should take care of your spouse. Without her, there is no children, for whom the upkeep you prioritize is meant for. And without the kids there is no full house. So bottom line you are to adequately, and constantly care for her at all times.
Dont worry, a good woman understands, family dynamics and situations, and would not request when you dont have, AND would always support both you and the home aswell with what she earns.
But every husband should have the mindset of taking care of their wifes as a second nature, not as an option, of whether she earns or not. The home would be happier for it.
Regardless we appreciate you guys. So Husbands if you are not doing this, please readjust, and if you are already doing this, take your flowers.
Yes please
ReplyDeleteMonthly upkeep as in upkeep for the household ba? Yes naa. Even if out of love she wants to add hers, not more than 20% should be ok. The man is the head of the house, unless he wants to sell his 'marriage rights' to the woman. No lele.
ReplyDeleteYes
ReplyDeleteWomen just generally like the gesture, even if they can afford it
ReplyDeleteIf he is rich enough and doesn't mind, yes. If not then no need to over stress the man please.
ReplyDeleteI believe by monthly upkeep you mean personal allowance for the woman.
DeleteYeah.
ReplyDeleteMonthly upkeep for the house? Yes
ReplyDeleteIt depends on their lifestyle. If they are public ppl it is a necessity, if they are the average couple next door, then monthly is not necessary but a few times a year is good. I am assuming monthly upkeep to mean personal support for herself.
ReplyDeleteYes, very necessary 😊
ReplyDeleteAdunni
Yes, very necessary 😊
ReplyDeleteAdunni
Yes.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your response Teejay
ReplyDeleteDefinitely. It's called home keeping allowance.
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason the man is called THE HEAD OF THE HOME.
A woman is a HELP MEET(Supporter).
He gives you , you augment with yours
Definitely. It's called home keeping allowance.
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason the man is called THE HEAD OF THE HOME.
A woman is a HELP MEET(Supporter).
He gives you , you augment with yours
100%yes
ReplyDeleteSure
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