She wrote:
"I called my husband on the phone to ask him for money so I could cook but a police officer picked it up.He asked me who I am to my husband and I replied that I'm his wife .He then told me to come to Safe life hospital because my husband had an accident .
In fear and distress I quickly dressed up and rushed to the hospital.When I got there he was unconscious .I was nervous but kept hoping he survives ..I was not ready to be a widow at 35 years with 3 kids .
The hospital requested money to buy blood .I immediately transferred all the 50 thousand naira in my account .But they still needed more money to deposit .The policeman handed my husband's phone to me so that I could open it and make payment to the hospital .
Shamefully,I couldn't open it because I do not know his password...
All efforts to open it were abortive .I didn't even have any idea of what the password might be .
The policeman was so angry that how would i not be able to open my husband's phone ..Well it is what it is
I just assured the hospital that they should continue with the treatment that I will rally round to get them paid .
Not up to 30 min his phone rang and the contact was saved as "source of joy" .The policeman picked and put it on speaker .It was a lady's voice saying "baby you didn't even call me" I was shocked
The policeman asked her who she is to him and she said she's a friend .The policeman asked again, a friend or a girlfriend? and she said a girlfriend..He said she should come to the hospital that her boyfriend had an accident.
Infact not less than 20 minutes.She got to the hospital.After some talks ,the policeman asked her if she knows his password that the hospital needed some funds and she said YES.. My head travelled ...Mind you ,she doesn't know I'm the wife or whatever .The police already warned me not to fight her when she comes .
The police asked her to call the password.She did and i Immediately saved it on my head .I stylishly pressed it on my phone so I won't forget .Hmmm .What i the wife didn't know a concubine knows it .Men will stain your White
The policeman transfered a sum of 200 thousand naira to the hospital in the presence of all of us to avoid any fraudulent.. Now his girlfriend said he wanted to be going as she has other things to fix.
The policeman asked her who would stay with him and this woman bluntly said "He has a wife .Put a call through to his wife" .If he die now ,where would I carry him to ?" I was shocked .Why because I thought she didn't know he's married .Maybe she was being deceived by my husband.But guess what ?she knows ....She left the hospital.The policemen left too
I had already told a neighbor to look after the children for me.I then unclocked the phone .My husband has 8 million is his account and I didn't even have 80k as a wife .
I checked the transaction between him and his girlfriend he even transferred 1.5million to her that same day .This man has never given me 100k before .I felt pitied for my self .Looking like a mad rechered woman while my husband is doing financially okay
The least he has sent to this lady was 500k ..In this year alone he has giving her more than 5 million and I was there taking care of the children even with the little I have as a petty trader in which my family contributed for me so I can have something doing .
I checked their chats ,I felts a cold within me I was shaking .They were doing all things together .He has never licked me .But he licks this lady each time they want to have a thing together ..I'm not a dirty woman and I'm very beautiful to the best of my knowledge.This was the man that begged begged before I accepted to date him then back in the uni .
I immediately transferred 5 million to my account leaving the rest for hospital needs and the surgery he wants to do .His spinal cord was broken .
Now my husband won't be able to walk for now only on wheel chair ..Do you think I deserve to bear that stress ?
He was an abusive husband. He cheated on me several times, he doesn't make love to me ,he tortured me both physically and emotionally.I saw hell . He killed my self esteem .I saw a pure hatred from this man.He detest me so much.I would beg and cry to love me .He knows am not a cheating type .I would have to cry for him to make love to me .Even when he does .He won't kiss me .No connection .No affection.Nothing .I really suffered
The business I'm doing ,my family opened it for me. So many countless sleepless nights .I would cry and hold his leg to pity me .He would kick me up or shouts at me that my cry is disturbing him
It was when I had access to his phone that I knew he earned 800k as salary .He has been working for 10 years .Nothing to show for it .
I had to run away with my children and with the 5m I took from his account .
They are calling me wicked .But I don't care .I can't take care of a man who didn't take care for me when he was healthy
Let his girlfriend take care of him
When I needed him ,I didn't see him .Let him deal with it. May God heal him.
Adefemi Taiwo Damilola
A lover of peace
"I called my husband on the phone to ask him for money so I could cook but a police officer picked it up.He asked me who I am to my husband and I replied that I'm his wife .He then told me to come to Safe life hospital because my husband had an accident .
In fear and distress I quickly dressed up and rushed to the hospital.When I got there he was unconscious .I was nervous but kept hoping he survives ..I was not ready to be a widow at 35 years with 3 kids .
The hospital requested money to buy blood .I immediately transferred all the 50 thousand naira in my account .But they still needed more money to deposit .The policeman handed my husband's phone to me so that I could open it and make payment to the hospital .
Shamefully,I couldn't open it because I do not know his password...
All efforts to open it were abortive .I didn't even have any idea of what the password might be .
The policeman was so angry that how would i not be able to open my husband's phone ..Well it is what it is
I just assured the hospital that they should continue with the treatment that I will rally round to get them paid .
Not up to 30 min his phone rang and the contact was saved as "source of joy" .The policeman picked and put it on speaker .It was a lady's voice saying "baby you didn't even call me" I was shocked
The policeman asked her who she is to him and she said she's a friend .The policeman asked again, a friend or a girlfriend? and she said a girlfriend..He said she should come to the hospital that her boyfriend had an accident.
Infact not less than 20 minutes.She got to the hospital.After some talks ,the policeman asked her if she knows his password that the hospital needed some funds and she said YES.. My head travelled ...Mind you ,she doesn't know I'm the wife or whatever .The police already warned me not to fight her when she comes .
The police asked her to call the password.She did and i Immediately saved it on my head .I stylishly pressed it on my phone so I won't forget .Hmmm .What i the wife didn't know a concubine knows it .Men will stain your White
The policeman transfered a sum of 200 thousand naira to the hospital in the presence of all of us to avoid any fraudulent.. Now his girlfriend said he wanted to be going as she has other things to fix.
The policeman asked her who would stay with him and this woman bluntly said "He has a wife .Put a call through to his wife" .If he die now ,where would I carry him to ?" I was shocked .Why because I thought she didn't know he's married .Maybe she was being deceived by my husband.But guess what ?she knows ....She left the hospital.The policemen left too
I had already told a neighbor to look after the children for me.I then unclocked the phone .My husband has 8 million is his account and I didn't even have 80k as a wife .
I checked the transaction between him and his girlfriend he even transferred 1.5million to her that same day .This man has never given me 100k before .I felt pitied for my self .Looking like a mad rechered woman while my husband is doing financially okay
The least he has sent to this lady was 500k ..In this year alone he has giving her more than 5 million and I was there taking care of the children even with the little I have as a petty trader in which my family contributed for me so I can have something doing .
I checked their chats ,I felts a cold within me I was shaking .They were doing all things together .He has never licked me .But he licks this lady each time they want to have a thing together ..I'm not a dirty woman and I'm very beautiful to the best of my knowledge.This was the man that begged begged before I accepted to date him then back in the uni .
I immediately transferred 5 million to my account leaving the rest for hospital needs and the surgery he wants to do .His spinal cord was broken .
Now my husband won't be able to walk for now only on wheel chair ..Do you think I deserve to bear that stress ?
He was an abusive husband. He cheated on me several times, he doesn't make love to me ,he tortured me both physically and emotionally.I saw hell . He killed my self esteem .I saw a pure hatred from this man.He detest me so much.I would beg and cry to love me .He knows am not a cheating type .I would have to cry for him to make love to me .Even when he does .He won't kiss me .No connection .No affection.Nothing .I really suffered
The business I'm doing ,my family opened it for me. So many countless sleepless nights .I would cry and hold his leg to pity me .He would kick me up or shouts at me that my cry is disturbing him
It was when I had access to his phone that I knew he earned 800k as salary .He has been working for 10 years .Nothing to show for it .
I had to run away with my children and with the 5m I took from his account .
They are calling me wicked .But I don't care .I can't take care of a man who didn't take care for me when he was healthy
Let his girlfriend take care of him
When I needed him ,I didn't see him .Let him deal with it. May God heal him.
Adefemi Taiwo Damilola
A lover of peace
She is a goody too shoes sha
ReplyDeleteCuz if I no wipe all the money wey dey that account make my name no be onyinye. I will take ALL and still leave them
Incase you all are wondering, there are women who go through this and worse, smellos!!
Gifty
Honestly..
DeleteI will take everything
Another story that never happened.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteJah bless u. how did she know her husband transfer code on bank app? oniro.com
DeleteI thought so as well
DeleteLol
DeleteThis sounds like a make belief to me because...., hanhan..
ReplyDeleteIt seems all men are the same because that was exactly what I faced in my marriage. The man nearly died in the hotel. When he died the family said I should come and explain how he died, I told the senior brother to invite the wife he secretly married for him to make the explanation. I found that he married another girl when he died. Just because I had only one boy
ReplyDeleteAll men are not the same
DeleteI am a man but not senseles to waste time and resources on a woman who is not my wife
Sidechics don't wait a minute longer the moment senseless men fall on hard times, either through sickness or financial woes as they always do
The story may not be true, though
It serves him right. Even if he hated his wife and didn't want to spend money on her, what of his kids that were barely surviving.
ReplyDeleteMe can't overstand why people fi stay in a abusive relationship. You be man or be woman, you enable what a gwan inna your marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhen your partner continue to maltreat you. Only one option available: run 'way.
Spare we dem bomboclaat stories!
You enjoyed reading it though😂
DeleteIn the spirit of balancing. This is fiction!
ReplyDeleteit is called fabuology by funwontan gbenga adeboye.
DeleteOh dear, I read this morning that men don't seek marriage based on love or money, but based on stability...this write-up justifies what that male bv said this morning...from this write-up the man picked a woman he did not love, a woman who will be loyal(sic) pardon me, a doormat more like...a woman who will never question his motives, or decisions, which means stability...but this mindset is seriously flawed, cause it always backfires! Women be selfish like your male counterparts, choose you!
ReplyDelete
DeleteIt is not true that men choose their spouse based on stability instead of love
Men go into a committed relationship based on love (first) and virtues (real or perceived)
Why then do they cheat?
They cheat because they are depraved and enslaved by the sin nature
Not all men. Some men like their women fiery, some like strong and bold women who can stand on their own two feet, some like the helpless damsels in distress types, some like a mix. It all depends on the man. No choice is wrong, as long as the choice brings happiness to both.
DeletePeople would doubt this but it sure hit home. You don't know some men as you never jam some devilish men
ReplyDeleteWhat the man did is believable but the whole story? Nah!
DeleteYea, I totally believe this story 🙄
ReplyDeleteThis is pure wickedness😳
ReplyDeleteE fit happen ooo.
ReplyDeleteHow did you (wife) transfer 5 Million naira from his account if you lived together like strangers as painted in the story?
ReplyDeleteMen do many things with their mistresses that they never do with their wives.
ReplyDeleteA cousin of mine who was very good looking had a passel of women going through. The day he had an accident and became wheelchair bound all the women disappeared. A person who my family knows well, cheated with so many women on his wife, a woman who happened to be from a very wealthy family. He changed cars every year and lived the big shot life with the braggadocio to top it off. The wife was so humiliated when the side chick even went as afar as feeling that they could approach and address her. She filed for divorce and he went his way, he lost his vision after the divorce and not one of the side chick has stuck with him.
These stories sometimes seem out of this world but if you have lived long enough and have been lucky to see all kinds of living you will know everything written up there is possible.