WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Woman crush Wednesday Hailings...

WEDNESDAY MEMO

I hail...

I greetilicious una - LMAO!

I hope that you are having a good day?My day started good and is going on just fine.........

I am hungry for Fisherman soup...BV Miss Ess cooks so good eh, In January i ordered for fisherman soup from her and someone coming to Germany brought the soup...I cant believe how good it tasted....Ah everything inside it was fresh and sooooo yummy!!...She goes to peoples houses to cook for them as well...Please patronise her if you wanna eat good food.....

I am looking to order more when i see anyone coming my way ...arrrrrrrrrrrrrrgh!

If you a business person you can advertise in the comment section the way we normally do it here.......
Let me look for what to eat before i resume blogging again...I am taking about one hour off...I DEY HUNGRY, I forgot to eat breakfast!...I dey come!

Let me share small testimony....One of my friends dashed me two M this morning.....The cyber reptile that says i beg my rich friends , you are damm right oh,I am expecting more....thats how we roll..I dont live on the internet trolling people like you...I SACKED YOU, deal with it and move the heck on!!!..Abi you wan send account?

Mscheeeeew!!!

I saw all the talk about Ogbono soup and Okro yesterday.....I cant stand the smell of that Ogbono it looks like someone vomit sef....I remember seeing in school those days that someone cooked ogbono and beans....LOL

Kisses ya all...need to post fast before you know who complains......

I want to cook egss to eat...I saw that Big brother stars eating biled eggs and it set off my hunger buds.....

Who likes to eat cooked eggs? My friends does not cos she says its baby chickens....LOL

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

One time I was working in this private primary school near my house. Teaching the learners all day would leave me drained because It was at the beginning of the year during our church’s 21-day fast.
I was so lean, pale, and weak, but my boss never noticed or cared. Instead, he’d announce every Friday with bold face, “Fellowship time! Wait behind, everyone!”

It didn’t matter if we had other plans or needed rest. The staffs will sit for hours, hungry and exhausted. I will sit down in one corner, pretending to be attentive.

He was a fanatic of this church (name with-held) that is more obsessed with appearance than concern for people.

He'll say, “God is watching oh", if anyone tried to leave early.
Not once did he ask why I looked so frail.
Not once did he notice I could barely keep my eyes open.

One day, I almost fainted during prayers, and he didn’t care. I realized then that I was just a tool to him. A pretentious fanatic with no heart, that is what he is!
That night I thought long and hard about everything and quietly updated my résumé. 

A week after, I resigned.
Could you imagine that this man tried to guilt trip me, saying "You are turning your back on this children who needs you the most."
Trust me, I gave him a bombastic side eye and said,
"No, I am turning my back on abuse disguised as spirituality."
I walked away from that job and never looked back.

As for my church, I stopped participating in the fast and six months later, I left for another.
Some churches fast to grow spiritually but mine nearly drained me dry. 

My peace returned when I left. God didn’t stay behind, I carried Him with me.

Hmmmm!!!!..God is everywhere for everyone,he is not seated in one Church waiting for people to worship..Know this and know peace ya'all!!!

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DIFFERENT KINDS OF BESTIES

1. The Competitive “Bestie”
A friend who constantly compares grades, looks, followers, or attention. If you get an award, instead of celebrating you, they sulk or try to outshine you.Healthy friends celebrate each other, not compete with envy.

2. The Manipulative “Bestie”
They guilt-trip you or say, “If you were really my friend, you would…” Forcing you to keep secrets that make you uncomfortable, or pushing you into risky behavior. Real friends don’t control you—they respect boundaries.

3. The Jealous “Bestie”
They get angry if you hang out with anyone else. They say, “You’re not allowed to talk to her, you’re MY best friend.” Possessive friendships can turn toxic and even violent.

4. The Gossiping “Bestie”
They share your secrets with others or laugh about you behind your back. You tell them something personal, and the whole class knows by morning. Trust is the foundation of real friendship without it, there is no safety.

5. The Draining “Bestie”
They always take but rarely give whether it’s time, money, or emotional energy. They call you only when they need homework help or someone to rant to, but disappear when you need support. A one-sided friendship is not friendship it’s exploitation.

A true friend will protect your dignity, celebrate your success, respect your boundaries, and stand by you in public and in private. Anything less is not friendship.

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A SIMPLE GREETING CAN OPEN A DOOR THAT A CROWD WALKS RIGHT PAST

Let me tell you a quick story about opportunity and respect.

A group of university graduates arrived at a pharmaceutical company in Oregun, Lagos for an industrial attachment interview. As they entered, one by one, they walked past the security gateman without a word of greeting , focused only on their goal.

All except one.
One young man paused, looked the gateman in the eye, and offered a genuine greeting. The guard, so often made to feel invisible, was delighted and greeted him back like an old friend.

As the others flocked inside, the guard quietly beckoned to the respectful young man. He shared a crucial piece of information: the company had already filled all its slots the day before. None of them would be accepted.

Then, he did something life-changing. He gave the young man the name of a contact at another company in Ikeja and told him to use his name as a reference.

The result? The crowd of students left empty-handed. The one young man who saw the humanity in the gatekeeper was guided to a new opportunity and was accepted.

Moral of the story? 

Never underestimate anyone. Respect isn't a strategy for gain; it's a reflection of your character. But often, it gets rewarded in unexpected ways.
The people who seem to "hold the door" are not always the ones in the corner office. Sometimes, they're the ones who 'guard' it.

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NOBODY TALKS ABOUT THIS

Nobody talks about after you finally heal from a traumatizing relationship.

When you have taken the time to concentrate on yourself and you are finally in a place where you're done healing and you are ready to step out into the dating world again, it's nearly impossible to find someone because you see the red flags in everybody.

You see so many things you're not willing to compromise with because you actually trust your intuition.

You can see when things are an issue with people, and you know you won't be able to get over it later on in that relationship.

So you don't allow your feelings to get in the way of logic and just cut it off before it even gets to that point.

Then you realize how many people aren't actually working on themselves and are just seeking a shallow connection.

They aren't even looking to improve themselves as a partner in a relationship, and they think their perfectly fine the way they are.

So there's no room to grow into a relationship together because they are already set in their ways.

It's a little exhausting at times because you also feel lonely during all of this and that sadness can take a toll on you but you have to remember one thing .....

It's better to be single with high standards than in a relationship settling for less.

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WEIRDFACT

----The number of seconds between when you see lightning and hear thunder divided by 5 = how many miles away the lightning is.

---If a self-driving car gets in an accident that is clearly its fault, the owner doesn't pay damages — the manufacturers do.

---Athazagoraphobia is the fear of being forgotten or ignored.

---The difference between like, love and in love, is the same as the difference between for now, for a while and forever.

---Blind people smile despite never seeing anyone smile before because it's a natural human reaction.

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