RANT OVER BREAKUP
I broke up with my man friend last night after he told me to come to his house tonight to sleep over.
The house he and his late wife were living in together. The wife died just last month, for Christ's sake.This man had the audacity to say such a thing to me. Very wicked man…
The house he and his late wife were living in together. The wife died just last month, for Christ's sake.This man had the audacity to say such a thing to me. Very wicked man…
I told him it's over between us straight because I'm not a bad person at all. Even if I'm dating you, it doesn't mean I should be happy about your wife's death. Though I will lose his care and everything, I don't give a fuck. I have a heart
LOOK AT THIS GOODY TWO LEFT SHOES
PLEASE YOUR OWN IS TOO MUCH... who said you would be happy by going there? did the man kill his wife ? or you want him to take you to a hotel? you should have just counselled him that its too early to come over there and maybe ask him over to yours...you are the one who has a wicked heart indeed cos you were gbenshing the womans husband before she died and now you wan form holy...abeg comot for road, he will find someone else.....
Lol.
ReplyDeleteWhat are you saying 🤣🤣
You are already dating him,his wife death didn't stop you..
If you feel it's too early then just tell him not breaking up with him,like what are you trying to prove?..
🤣🤣🤣……omg!! You are so dramatic, you are unbelievable. How self righteous, you even broke up with him 🤣🤣, you just did him a favour to explore…girl this is when he needed your support and attention. Emotionally and otherwise…a shoulder to cry on, you were his sidekick not the structure (wife).. he is going to miss that structure and feel the void. You made a bad decision…
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to check and be sure this is not Stella posting Saturday laughs on a Friday. Girl you are hilarious!! The wife probably died out of neglect or heartbreak from her husband's cheating habits and you are here saying you have a heart while you are a participating factor. Girl, next joke please and may that breakup be the last time you dated someone's husband.
ReplyDeleteIm not judging you but, my dear you have "no heart."
Where you not his side hen before his wife passed on? Please stop forming holier than thou.
ReplyDeleteI think she already knows she did wrong dating the man. But even she is shocked at the man's audacity right after his wife's death. Poster you still have a conscience. There is hope for you. Repent and take Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Saviour. Good you dumped him. There is nothing to applaud about the man's behaviour. Even you, if you fall sick or something happened to you, he will call someone else immediately to take your place. As he will do now.😂
DeleteWhy did I laugh after reading this? 🤣
ReplyDeleteWait, you were dating him when you knew he was married and your so called good heart didn't beat, but all of a sudden after his wife's demise, your heart is now active. You don't have any heart abeg 😓
Lmao. Where was your conscience when you were fucking the man while his wife was alive?
ReplyDeleteBetween the poster and Stella red ink ,I don't know which is more hilarious 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
ReplyDeleteStella nice talk
ReplyDeleteBut u r dating him just one month after losing his wife. So what are you if he is wicked?
ReplyDeleteNawa oo. The man should not have told you to come over just one month after death of wife. What will people say. No mind am ,na konji cause am.
ReplyDeleteYou should have explained to him the reason for not coming instead of breaking up
This is craziest shit I have heard all week
ReplyDeleteSo your competition has passed on all of a sudden you realize you have a heart???
Wonders shall never end
Aunty you no wan marry ya man fwend??
You need therapy for your avoidant attachment style. You only date unavailable people
ReplyDeleteIt's actually avoidance coping mechanisms.
DeleteNo mind her, I sure sey she don see another young man wey wan do detty december for her. All di bad tins wey you and d man dey do before im wife kpai nko. Yeye.
ReplyDeleteThe case of chiwawa calling antelope goat. Na really Goody two left shoes.
ReplyDeleteIs this a joke? Eh yah, good girl😀
ReplyDeleteSome men though. Barely a month after your wife's death. It is well.
Stella don finish the matter. Na real Miss Goody two left shoes.
ReplyDeleteShe passed about a month ago which seems like you've been with him even before her demise. If this is the case, then you're not justified for dating someone's husband. Naaa
ReplyDeleteHello Poster,
ReplyDeleteOur choices sometimes unsettle me. And no, I am not speaking of the breakup itself, nor of wickedness or villainy, but of the moral confusion woven through your story. What I see are misaligned values colliding with unprocessed grief.
Your relationship with this man should never have existed in its original form. Yet ending it now is not you being wicked, even if it is a belated realism. Boundaries can be necessary, and moral awakening imperfect.
While it is debatable, two things can be true at the same time. A woman can be wrong for entering a relationship with a married man, and still be right to draw a line when death enters the picture. The human conscience does not switch on only at the scheduled time. Sometimes it reacts late, and like it or not, late is not the same as fake.
I cannot dismiss the man’s desire - it matters. Inviting you into a shared marital home barely a month after his wife’s death signals emotional recklessness at best, moral numbness at worst. Or perhaps the relationship simply preceded her passing. Either way, unresolved grief leaks into intimacy in damaging ways. Anyone familiar with loss knows this. Grief, however, does not excuse poor discernment; it demands restraint. Anything less normalises emotional disorder.
However, nothing is virtuous about staying in situations that feel wrong. Nor is it noble to rewrite one’s role in it to appear cleaner than it was. But you cannot suddenly discover conscience only when discomfort reaches you personally, as if cruelty equals moral clarity.
Condemning hypocrisy is easy, and it exposes how casually we treat infidelity. Would the venue have mattered if it were elsewhere? Truth should always be named honestly, not framed as moral superiority.
Stop trying to have your cake and eat it too. Let this breakup remain broken - after all, you called it. Next time, learn to navigate relationships in a healthy way. You may have reminded us that true character is revealed less by what we reject than by what we tolerated before rejection became convenient.
You see why women shouldn't kill themselves over a man. See how short it took him tueehhhh
ReplyDeleteHe had moved on long before. Better to be single than married to such a thing.
DeleteWho exactly are you planning to leave that man for, wicked girl?
ReplyDeleteYou knew he had children, and now you don’t want to inherit responsibility.
It was convenient when you were enjoying a piece of him while his wife carried the burden, but the moment she died, you suddenly “found your conscience.” God punish you.
If all he did was ask you to come to his house, it’s because in his mind, the situation had changed and he thought it was acceptable now. But the fact that you latched onto that as an excuse to walk away shows just how wicked you are.
Poster I applaud your walking away. He will still find someone else to use, and dump afterwards. I doubt you were the only side chick or hen. I hope the stupid mofo doesn't have kids, and will not be bringing various fowls and chicks to the house. If he can't respect the dead who will this one respect? Not saying he can't move on, but what he is proposing is too callous. Horrible person.
DeleteThe thing is that you realized in that moment that this is what your future would look like if you were to remain with him. You finally realized that just as how he could not mourn his wife, it is same way he would treat you. Your action was not because you have a heart, it was an act of self preservation from ending up unloved and unvalued. You see that in a month you too would be forgotten and his mistress would be invited to sleep in the same bed his wife laid in just a month before. And you did not want that future for yourself, so your broke it off. Please stop the grandstanding, you are no paragon of virtue, just a woman who has seen the writing on the wall and hit by fear of a loveless future filled with lonely nights, when the affection of her man will be alienated from her because of his philandering ways. Eventually climaxing in a complete forgetfulness of existence in mere weeks after death as he moves forward with his life. You have seen your future and do not want it. You met wisdom for the first time in your life.
ReplyDeleteGo forth and leave married men alone. Give your life to God and live with good principles.
You don dey fear for your own life? 🤣
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