Friday In House News

 Weekend hailings.....

FRIDAY MEMO

It is a beautiful no Sun day and as you are reading this, I just arrived fresh protein store to buy in quantity for the freezer........LOL

I dey market, i go soon return to yard to resume work and others.....

Enjoy your day.........

God bless you

Hugs

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD

Growing up, I loved good music, still do and I loved dancing. I couldn’t and still can’t sing to save my life, but I could hold my own forte on the dance floor.
In primary and secondary school, I wished I could join the school cultural dance troupe, but I couldn’t because I knew my parents would have my head so I could only watch from the side lines.

In the university, I got the opportunity to join a dance group, and for the short time I was part of it, I was able to visit different states to perform with the group.
Arthritis, motherhood came in, and I stopped dancing like I used to, but I have always hoped my children would love dancing and be good dancers.

My first is like his dad can’t dance to save his life. No rhythm at all. Watching him dance looks like watching the praying mantis in Kongfu Panda( Master Mantis)but without the stealth of a martial artist. Just long limbs splaying around. I kind of gave up on him ever being a good dancer.

My second wouldn’t even stay still enough to listen and dance. I tried encouraging and dancing with my princess, and she showed no interest till last week when she mistakenly stumbled on a music channel and danced, little steps, but with the rhythm, her siblings lack

Now, every day she asks me to play music so she can dance. She is just shuffling for now, but I can see the potential. Maybe one day, she will be good enough to dance professionally.

Professional dancer dey put food for table?LOL

Thats how we were having a convo with someone and the person was suggesting some kind of low class jobs to my Bambino who is in the University...Bambino kept stealing glances at me and with one kinda msile on his face and when he couldnt bear anymore,he asked the person, ''So you can use this kind of Job to live well and not depend on the govt''? Hehehhehehhehehehehehe

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TEACHER LIFE
Lunch hour in a school can be quiet… or it can be a full-blown safari. And in my class, it’s usually the latter.
Take the posh-but-messy parent. Hair done, shoes sparkling, perfume perfectly balanced. Their child opens the lunch bag… and it smells like it survived a week in a swamp. The spoon is crusted. The flask? Oily from yesterday's lunch.

Then there’s the “new lunch box every day” parent. Monday: Spiderman. Tuesday: Captain America. Wednesday: Paw patrol. The child shows off the designs like a tiny fashion influencer, while I silently pray for consistency.

Some hover in between: neat today, dirty tomorrow. No pattern, no warning. You never know what you’re going to get, so I develop psychic powers to anticipate chaos.
Meanwhile, the overpacked lunch child struggles to lift a flask so heavy it could double as a dumbbell. Then he unloads mountain of Jollof rice, two chunky pieces of chicken, fried plantain, and a side of salad, Half eaten, half uneaten, half asleep , attention span gone, and learning? Forget it.

Some children have perfected the whisper plea:
“Miss C, please call my mummy! I forgot my lunch.”
You call. Fifteen minutes later, the driver arrives… with instant noodles. Again.

Then there’s the pay-for-school-meal child — quietly eating, no drama, no whispered panic, no emergency deliveries. Bless them. Calm in the chaos.
And we cannot forget the “normal, proper quantity” parent. Neatly packed lunch, just the right amount, everything edible, everything clean.

And then comes the spilling. Someone’s juice is leaking into someone else’s backpack; another child is trying to swap their boiled egg for a piece of chocolate. It’s a black market trade happening right under my nose!

Finally, at the close of school there's always this call, the classic:
“My child did not finish his lunch!”
I sigh in my heart and think: madam, this is not a restaurant. And yes, don’t overfill their flasks .your child is not training to be a sumo wrestler.

Lunch boxes are more than containers. They are small, explosive lessons in parenting, chaos, and patience.

WOW!!!...I am always fascinated by Lunch boxes becos i buy dem tire...My Bambinos hardly ever ate food they took to school until i found out why and stopped giving them.....WE ENROLLED THEM TO EAT SCHOOL FOOD AND BOOM!!!

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NOTORIOUS FOR JESUS

When my BIL brought his fiancee, his mother kicked against it saying her son will not marry Yoruba. They had a long back and forth and on the long run, they married against her wish. She conceded because the man put his feet on the ground.

Two months after, the lady got a scholarship to UK that covered her family and she went with her husband. Soon, they bore a baby and the mother in law was invited over.
It is just a month now and we hear their home is a battlefield with both women fighting for superiority and marking territory, leaving my BIL in a tight corner. He said to my hubby, "It feels like I married two wives".

My husband advised him to take it calmly because he appeared disturbed over the issues. My husband explained how my mother in law is not learned, not in support of the marriage prior and how they both are living together under the same roof for the first time. 

He also reminded him how my MIL and I also didn't get along the first time until much later. My MIL, though has her flaws, she is a good woman nevertheless. She is a very successful woman and that can sometimes comes with ego, coupled with the fact that she is not learned. I suspect she sometimes feels threatened by her daughter-in-laws because she has four sons, no daughters, and all the children married away from their tribe. I hope they all find amicable ways to deal with the situation.

It is a big headache for a boy mum imagining where your son will find love and wanna marry..I am sure that i dont want my Bambinos to have Nigerian in laws abeg.....

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 BV Blessed K Birthday Giveaway

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SDK THURSDAY 10K GIVEAWAY LIST

The names in green should send their account details to Waju with your ID card showing your face and name that tallies with your Bank account details.....I will change this format for the business giveaway.......I will study all very well before i send even 5 kobo to anyone.........

I am sorry if you dont like this method, dont send if it doesnt go well with you but i will not be scammed again..You will receive alerts after proper checks

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2) BV Jaybest(plastic Id) - 10k to smile

3) BV Acenene - 10k to clear Airtel gbese

4) BV The Beloved One - 10k to not pass her by

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6) BV Ace - 10k will sort one or two

7) BV Official Prestige - 10k to locate her

8) BV Iya Nimi - 10k because money nor dey tire her -LOOOOOOL

9) BV Tochi - 10k because she is interested in it

10) BV Preety Patience - 10k to fill her gas

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13) BV Hallel - 10k because she is interested in it

14) BV Preety Mary - 10k to cook better Oha soup

15) BV Mor - 10k nor bad if he locate her

16) BV Gloglo - 10k to buy gas for one month

17) BV Whistle blower - 10k to add to prepaid bills payment

18) BV Straight guy - 10k to solve family issues before salary arrive

19) BV Azed - 10k to buy foodstuffs

20) BV Fresh Petals - 10k to cook a nice pot of stew

21) BV Talita - 10k will be appreciated

22) BV Neesolah - 10k will make her happy

23) BV Grateful Soul - 10k will go a long way for her  

24) BV Godswill Lami Baci - 10k to offset household expenses

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READ THIS BEFORE YOU MARRY ANYONE

If you must marry anyone, please make sure you are ready to tell them everything about yourself that can affect them.
You cannot have a serious health condition and hide it from your intending spouse.
You cannot have a hereditary health challenge and keep it away from your partner.
Tell them the things you have done in the past that could affect your future together.
If you have ever dated his uncle, tell him
If you have ever dated her friend, tell her.
If you have ever had a mental health crisis, let them know.
If you were an agbero before, let them know.
Whatever it is, as long as it can affect your future together, open up.
Many marriages are breaking today because of things from the past that were hidden and later discovered.
Anything you know that can destroy your marriage when it comes out later is better said early.
Let them decide to choose you despite your story.
Do not build your marriage on deceit.
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