Tuesday In House News

Hailings greetiliciously....

Hailings greetiliciously....

TUESDAY MEMO

Greetings and hailings.....How una dey today?This very sunny but still very cold outside situation ehhhhhhhh....Yesterday when i went out, my jacket was too light, and as i comot for motor, omorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, i froze in the cold wind....I use my car seat heater so my back and Nyansh gets as warm as i want.....

Plus the allergies are back, my eyes are red from Sunday outing!!!..I just used drops now sef...

What weather are you battling with where you live? who is still taking collagen?has it started working for you?It has for me....I asked Reality TV Star Chioma what she was using for her skin cos she glows from head to toe...She shared her beauty secrets with me and i have started using the things she uses, non is bleaching agent ,so watch out people, my skin will start popping like hers soon and we fit begin resemble...#twinnyloadingeeeeeh...LOL

Even Iyabos skin wear kork shoe......Its beautiful..

Instead of using the money you have to branch amala joint everyday and wack abule amala with goat meat in waist coat, buy products to spoil your skin and stop hating on those with popping skin...hahahahahhaha

E reach your turn, you call am bleaching cream...

E reach my turn i say i no sabi swallow amala again..

Hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahaha sometimes i am the only person who understands my jokes.

As for BV Oki, i saw what you posted inside in house on Monday and i have noted it......If i give you the money, what will you give me? Nothing is free anymore..I no be mumu AGAIN.....That is how someone here collected money for business from me and went to pay money somewhere else to advertise for customers...LOL...hahahahahhahahahahahaha i still laugh in a shocked way remembering this...like how?????????????

Oki maybe you should work for me culling stories for one month to get it....

Those of una wey also apply, i like una Faith but the problem is miracles no longer just happen like that here anymore..una wickedness don change me...

Abeg abeg abeg abeg!!!!

Hehehehehehhehehehehehehwhy am i laughing? I laugh becos i am happy..I laugh becos i am free, i laugh becos Gods got me...I am laugh becos i am a Jesus baby..... Shout out to Sandra, this week i no go ever disappoint you...Hugs to you sweetie..... To the anonymous who came to my inbox to warn me to be careful of BV Sandra, well i dont know who she is or what she looks like, we have never spoken and email exchange was just once but i like her so much through her personality...same way i dislike so many of you thru your personality....Choose the good path, even if you are evil behind, come forth with good....Until she does otherwise i will continue liking her........

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DONT CALL YOUR MAN “DEAR”  
“Dear” is polite.
But mature love deserves something deeper.
Here are romantic names that feel grown, intentional, and intimate:

- “My Love”
Simple. Timeless.
Soft but powerful.
It carries emotional weight without trying too hard.

- “My Heart”
Deep. Personal.
It says, you matter to me.

- “Shugar”
Old-school. Elegant.
Feels poetic and rare.

- “My Safe Place”
If he truly makes you feel secure, this hits differently.
Men value being seen as protection.

- “My Anchor”
For the man who keeps you grounded.
Strong. Steady. Present.

--“My King”
When said with sincerity, not exaggeration.
it feels respectful and powerful.

-- His full name.
Said softly. Intentionally.
Sometimes romance is in the tone, not the nickname.

Mature love isn’t loud.
It’s steady.
Intentional.
Deep.
Choose names that reflect the role he truly plays in your life,
not just something trendy because when a name carries meaning, it becomes more than a word.
It becomes connection.
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I call mine honey but when he pisses me off i call him his German name that he does not like ..LOL

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'STOP DATING WOMEN WHO BROUGHT CHAOS AND EXPECT YOU TO CLEAN IT UP

Some women spend their youth chasing thrills, collecting experiences, and leaving a trail of broken hearts, empty wallets, and messy lives. Five baby daddies later, multiple failed flings, constant drama, they suddenly “want a nice guy” to carry their baggage. Let me make this painfully clear: you are not her therapy session, you are not her rescue mission, and you are not her emotional dumpster.

 SHE IS LOOKING FOR A SAVIOR, NOT A PARTNER
After a chaotic lifestyle, she wants someone to fix her story, clean her mess, and pay for her past choices. Nice guys fall into the trap thinking loyalty or patience will earn respect. Reality check: she sees you as Plan B with a pulse, a free ticket to stability she never earned.

 BEAUTY WITHOUT VALUE IS A LIABILITY
Five baby daddies, wild nights, zero accountability , that’s not charm, that’s a red flag. No matter how “cute” or “sexy” she seems, she is a financial and emotional debt waiting to happen. Her past pleasures will cost your future.

 SHE DOESN’T RESPECT YOUR TIME OR ENERGY
Every call, every effort, every sacrifice becomes expected. You give; she tolerates. You invest; she assumes. A woman who spent years avoiding responsibility won’t suddenly respect discipline just because you offer it.

 LOVE CANNOT FIX CHAOS
Love is not a vacuum cleaner for bad decisions. Emotional maturity doesn’t magically appear after heartbreak, and respect doesn’t spring from desperation. You cannot turn chaos into peace — you can only walk away before it destroys you.
 SHE WILL COMPARE YOU TO HER PAST
Every man before you, every wild adventure, every reckless fling — she remembers it all. No amount of gifts, loyalty, or effort will erase the echoes of the men she truly desired. You will always be measured against ghosts she never fully let go.

 YOU BECOME THE DEFAULT, NOT THE DESIRE
She didn’t chase you; she didn’t desire you. She settled. Settling breeds tolerance, not passion, and tolerance is the silent killer of intimacy. You will never feel her genuine excitement because it does not exist for you.

THIS IS NOT A JOKE, IT’S A WARNING
Nice guys think they can “save” her, “show her the right way,” or “change her life.” Wrong. You can’t fix what she refuses to fix herself. You can’t love someone into responsibility. You can’t negotiate desire into obedience.

YOUR PRIME YEARS ARE NOT FOR CLEANING UP PAST CHAOS
You have a life, goals, energy, and future at stake. If you spend your best years funding her mistakes, raising kids that aren’t yours, and paying emotional taxes, you are losing your power quietly, irreversibly, and painfully.

SHE WILL TEACH YOU PATIENCE AT THE COST OF RESPECT
Every compromise you make, every line you draw and then erase, every boundary you bend — she sees as weakness. She doesn’t appreciate it. She assumes it. And when she tires of your effort, she moves on, leaving your energy drained and your dignity broken.

THE BRUTAL TRUTH:
Women who spent years chasing chaos, ignoring consequences, and collecting men are looking for men to carry their baggage, not share a life. They want a wallet, a house, a backbone ; someone else’s ; to solve problems they created. The universe does not reward nice guys who take on other people’s mess. It punishes them. Harshly.

Mscheeeeeeew!!!

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WEIRD FACTS
----If it drains you, it's not for you. Remember that

--- If you feel tears coming on and need to hold them back, relax your jaw and refrain from blinking.

--- Wearing skinny jeans can cause nerve damage in your legs, a condition called "tingling thigh syndrome."

---: Andre Stander, a South African policeman and criminal, robbed banks on his lunch break and often returned as the investigating officer.

----: Farting helps reduce high blood pressure and is good for your health.

--- A person generally hates you for 3 reasons: 1) They want to be you. 2) They hate themselves. 3) They see you as a threat.

-- A man can reduce his chances of getting prostate cancer by having at least 4 orgasms a week.

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READ AND AGREE OR DISAGREE

“Do not chase or beg someone to marry you,” this is a very strong advice, and in most cases, it is wise. A brother/sister has directly or indirectly rejected your proposal, but instead of seeking another partner, you are begging and chasing someone who do not see you as a fit, if someone wants you, they will come forward with seriousness.

Marriage should be built on mutual desire, respect, commitment and willingness, not pressure or desperation. Don't ever see an intending partner as your last hope, you are likely to be taken for granted. You can convince a brother or sister, but do not make the error of begging, because it is unhealthy.

When you beg someone to marry you, you unintentionally lower your value in their eyes. A person who truly wants you will not need to be persuaded repeatedly. 'Hard to catch' is a ruse.Marriage shou based on willingnes,emphasized consent. No one should feel pressured.

You can succeed to persuade a brother or sister into marriage, but you may lose genuine affection, respect, loyalty, and emotional investment, because in the real sense, interest must be natural. When someone senses fear of losing them, they may manipulate you, delay you and keep you as an option.

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