WEDNESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

  Hailings....

WEDNESDAY MEMO
How una dey? Notorious for Jesus, your column is skipped today cos of in house news drama.
I hope that you are having a good day? Please stay away from anything that downs your mood.
I am yet to recover from seeing a severely autistic child yesterday. I went shopping and saw a mum with three kids...The oldest one has severe aggressive autism....
OMG OMG OMG!!!
The display and screams I heard were shocking....The woman looked drained....I broke down crying when I called her to ask what was wrong.....He is just 10.... People helped her hold him down while she shopped...She said she had to come out cos they ran out of food..he's been stopped from going to school cos of the screaming...
As I sit here in peace, working and looking around me, I cant help but think of this woman and what she must be going through....She said he became very very aggressive two months ago and I asked her if something upset him..i even saw her pinching him to keep quiet...Abeg this thing messed me up emotionally but I will be fine..
If there is anyone reading this that has a child with autism, I can only pray that God will see you through oh...It can only be God.....

KAI!!!
Have a great day and please spread enough love and care around you...



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MISS H AND HER MANY LIES

Now let us get straight to the matter....
When Ummugate was busted, they owned up and apologised, refunded some monies and did not come 100 percent into the comment section to try to scare me....
Hauwa did not force me to cough out the money but she used exactly what Blessing ceo did- used lies to get funds....That is wrong!!!
Too many lies that kept me quiet and watching her to see if i was mistaken cos i loved her like a younger one.. 

Please note that the minute I spotted inconsistencies, I stopped sending the monies  (Once i have goosebumps about someone, then something is off).....I would have walked away without doing this but she was the one who brought this matter to gaslight others into seeing me to be a bad person that I allegedly am...

Note also that i fell hook,line and sinker for the abduction story but now i spot the holes cos she said she fell down and hit her head on a stone and fainted but no head injury ?
Her move to gaslight bvs backfired cos when BVs asked, I immediately responded and that is why we are here!
She may be in school, she may have needed the funds but she used lies to get them.

Also note that the apology she gave me was to apologise for not getting back to me about her mum refusing to wanna talk to me.....She said she has never lied to me before and has been truthful but read the chats and see the second thing she did that gave me the goosebumps......

Her textbooks that she allegedly bought ,look at the date

The Date on these books shows from 2021.

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HAUWAS MUM -ALLEGEDLY

The photo she sent saying is her mum is a blind woman who is without eyes, nose and mouth...severely damaged face, probably from birth defect cos of the smoothness of the deformity.
I cannot post the horrific photo cos she did not ask to be a part of this drama at all someone may have sneaked in and offered her the bottle of fanta seen in the photo and carefully snapped her to avoid being caught...
With that kind of injury, this person cannot tend to any chickens cos the chickens would die from shock...I have been traumatised since I saw the photo... And you are coming to tell us that someone slapped this person? Or that this person was cleaning a school? what a laugh.

I am used to being lied to and its a shame but it does not affect me cos i have a good support system, my family, my friends...I have real love outside of this Blog so this place is like a movie room for me......Miss H enjoy your five minutes fame..

EVERY DOG HAS ITS DAY:

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WEIRD FACTS

----Having negative friends is linked to depression, lowered self esteem, insomnia and anxiety. Positive friends promote good overall health.

---- Airplane food isn't very tasty because our sense of smell and taste decrease by 20% to 50% while flying.

----It's normal to have an urge to jump off a cliff.

----Telling the truth when tempted to lie can significantly improve your health.

-----Studies found that disturbing a person while they're sleeping can increase their chances of permanently losing their mind.

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WOMEN DON’T SLUMP. - Must Read!!!

Strong women are collapsing quietly… and nobody is talking about it.
You wake up early.
You sleep late.
You carry the home.
You build the business.
You show up at work.
You manage the children.
You manage your emotions.
You manage everyone else’s needs.
Monthly cycles.
Hormonal shifts.
Heavy flow.
Trying to conceive.
Fibroids.
Premenopausal changes
Mental load nobody sees.
And in the middle of it all, you keep saying,
“I’m fine.” But are you?
A woman recently slumped at her business place.
Not because she was weak.
Not because she was careless.
But because stress had been building.
Blood pressure rising quietly.
Iron levels dropping silently.
Rest postponed repeatedly.
Strength is beautiful.
But strength without rest becomes danger.
Some partners understand and support.
Some don’t fully grasp the weight women carry.
But whether people understand or not , your health is still your responsibility.
Stop wearing suffering like a badge of honor.
Stop normalizing extreme exhaustion.
Stop clapping for burnout.
Stop proving strength by silence.
Check your blood pressure.
Check your iron levels.
Hydrate intentionally
Sleep properly.
Delegate duties
Say no without guilt.
Book your checkups.
If you collapse today, life will adjust.
So why are you sacrificing your health for people who will adjust without you?
No award is given to the woman who breaks herself for everyone else.
Your children don’t need a collapsing hero.
They need a healthy mother.
Your business doesn’t need a burnt-out CEO.
It needs a well woman.
Women… don’t slump.
Choose yourself too.
When last did you check your blood pressure?
Are you resting… or just surviving?
God loves you, please
Love yourself too
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