Hmmmm.....
WAHALA DEY
My house help is male cos he does things mostly for my husband cos i live in a diffrent state and yet to move in fully...
He travelled for the weekend to ee his people and i was quite shocked to find out that he forgot his phone..i kept th phone in a safe place for him but the phone kept ringing so i had to pick the call and it was him on the other side trying to locate his phone.....I told him i would keep it safe for him and thats what i did...
However curiosity got the better of me that night and i went to work on the phone and the discoveries are quite shocking...My husband is begging him with cash to convince me to sleep with him and get pregnant....He has not yet agreed but he is being promised the diaspora as his payoff price.....
He is to make me pregnant three times and he asked my husband how he would know if he was the one that made me pregnant or not and my husband told him not to worry and has even threatened that if he refuses he would be sacked....
He told him he would give him his answer when he returns and i have rescheduled my leaving cos i want to see what they wanna do.....
I made a video of all the messages and i have switched off his phone and left it in his room...I am shocked........
It finally is an answer to all my qustions..Looks like my hubby cannot get me pregnant and is trying to get someoe to help him instead of discussing things with me......
What i read is a deal breaker but i am still in shock... Do you people advice i confront him or just walk away?
Confront what???you want them to unalife you in that house and say you have travelled back? Please oooooooooooo dont ask, i think you should pack your things and leave....
This is quite shocking!
ReplyDeleteEven if your husband is unable to father a child, there are far better and more honorable ways to address it. The first step should be honesty. He should tell you the truth about his condition and together, as husband and wife, agree on the path forward.
But asking the maid to sleep with you? That is completely unacceptable.
What if this is a setup? What if he has other secrets or ulterior motives and is creating a situation that could later be used against you? These are possibilities you cannot afford to ignore.
Beyond that, has he considered the emotional and psychological consequences? Can he truly live with the knowledge that his maid impregnated his wife? Can you? Can the maid? And what happens when the child grows up and the truth comes out?
The Bible gives us a sobering example in the story of Sarah, Abraham, and Hagar. What seemed like a practical solution at the time eventually brought conflict, jealousy, pain, and lasting consequences. Sometimes, shortcuts create wounds that last for generations.
Why not consider healthier alternatives such as adoption, surrogacy, or using a sperm donor through a reputable fertility clinic? These are legitimate options that protect the dignity of everyone involved and avoid creating an emotional and relational disaster.
Not every solution that produces a child preserves a marriage. Some choices solve one problem while creating many more.
Are you sure the whole thing isn't a setup for divorce? All he needs is to plan with the boy for payment after it's done but the main thing is for him to catch you both in the act and file for divorce.
DeleteWow wow wow
ReplyDeleteRun o my sister.
Moral of the chronicle: always lock your phone
Wait o, what if your husband is a BV? Because people wey dey visit this blog many, even though most don't comment
Your red pen sent chill to my spine Stella, because I don't think it should get to that extent but then on a second thought, a man that can plan such with his help, could do anything.
ReplyDeletePoster, since this is a deal breaker for you, kindly run before you go tok anytin.
Your husband purposely planned that with the house boy so you can see it and file for divorce. People who have such in their phone don't ever leave their phone carelessly am sure that's why the house help didn't purposely used a pin on the phone. So he left the phone and it rang before your arrival but your husband who has been in the house didn't hear it ring till you arrive and heard it ring. No please it's a plan to divorce and marry another woman. No broke houseboy will see such opportunity in this hungry 2026 and not grab it. To go abroad and free cash. No it's your husband's plans to get you triggered and he will divorce you
ReplyDeleteWow! Idi wise 🤣🤣 This looks like it. Poster check this post 🤣
Deleteposter, pretend you didn't see anything. Just guard yourself in that house and make sure you don't take any alcohol or eat any food the household cook. Go back to your base and act like nothing happened. Be at alert and watch how things unfold
DeleteI also think it is a deliberate act.
DeleteMaybe the house help left the phone deliberately, so you can find out.
ReplyDelete.
I will advice you leave back to your base ASAP.
DON'T say anything to anyone yet. Give it few months, and you will think clearly of a way out.
Meanwhile, don't go visiting yet please
no need to confront him but if you ever want to confront him just don't do it alone but make sure you have people who can protect you better your husband will harm you. He should have discuss whatever is the challenge with you so that you both can find solution than sharing this with a maid all in the name of not discussing with you.
ReplyDeleteSince he felt is not okay to discuss such with someone he claimed to be in love with, someone he married and never ashamed to be together and do things together. Then you should just pack your things and walk away, remember that your maid might have told your husband all that have played, your maid might have told your husband that is possible you have gone through his phone. Do not think they are stupid or unaware of what you have seen, just be extra careful because they might unalive you if you don't trade careful.
I will advice that before the maid comes back just get someone to be around since you want to watch how they will play the game. If you can install spy cameras please do.
He should have discussed with his woman about his inability to impregnate a woman. Many women would stay and help him find a solution to it unlike majority of men who would flee the moment they hear that their spouse has issues with conceiving . Is it pride that made him keep this simple secret away from you? Hmm...
ReplyDeletePoster no need to see how they want to execute their plan, move before they kill you
ReplyDeleteRun for your life NOW....
ReplyDeleteDo not confront him. Just go back to your base. If you feel you can't bear, file for a divorce. He should have come out straight to tell instead of doing that
ReplyDeleteFollow the red pen. People will go the extra mile to keep their secrets.
ReplyDeleteLeave and confront him from a safe place.
ReplyDeleteYou better leave now and watch from afar
ReplyDeleteYou go marry what I ordered vs what I got. Husband from Temu.
ReplyDeleteYour horseband will drug your drink, houseboy will rxpe you.
ReplyDeleteThen you will get pregnant.
Then you will born.
Then one day, your 7up horseband will demand DNA.
Then you will eventually agree as per virtuous woman.
Then you will see it is not your limca husband baby
Then your husband will shout and shout AHEWO!!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Then you will beg him
Then you will beg beg him.
Then you will beg him, beg him, beg him.
Then okunrin pure water will forgive you and hold it over your head for the rest of your life.
Chorus
E don tey
E don they since nyash dey back.
Na different different format na im dey.
E don teeeeey.
But you are still asking JAMB questions?
You never reach border so????🤔
Lol @ 1733
DeletePoster, one simple advice to clear all doubt, tell him that you need both of you to go to the hospital for fertility checkup. This is to real out the fact that he had those plans with the guy so that when you succumb he will use it as a very valid reason to divorce you
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Anon17:33, ogbadun rara. wetin be dis.
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DeleteI don laugh tire!!!
Madam poster, please your personal safety first.
Don't confront anybody.
And make sure you have evidence.
What kind of spouse do you people marry that you immediately think a spouse can unalive his or her partner just because a secret was discovered. Poster don't confront your husband at all. Just go back to your base for now and after few days especially when it is close to your visiting again, call your husband in the middle of the night and tell him you had a serious dream about the house help that he came and was dragging children from him and ended up killing him. You need to apply brain when dealing with some kind of people
ReplyDeleteNa wa o.Better end the marriage before they drug you and the house help will sleep with you.
ReplyDeleteIf you confront him, you would trample on his ego for sure. Just run far away before you confront him with the truth. So shocking
ReplyDeleteIje di!!!!
ReplyDeleteJust when you think you have heard it all.
Nne just leave that house for now, so you can think things through