Toke said many issues come from men who are not financially stable but still pursue women whose lifestyles they cannot sustain. She added that confident men know how to set boundaries and do not feel intimidated.
In her words
''I think really the problem is with guys who do not have are always making that noise. Anyone who is confident in himself can tell a bitch no because he is confident. If you are confident and you are not a boy nerd or someone who had women problems while growing up''.
Toke explained that she strongly believes in dating within your wage bracket because it reduces unnecessary drama.
She said
''I am a big believer of date within your wage. In that way there would not be stories that touch. You would have a good girl at home, a girl who would even make dinner and understand that oh baby you do not have, okay from my own money I have made dinner for us. And you are cheating on that girl trying to get with a babe''.
She added that this is one of the reasons many women are cautious about relationships.
According to her
''This is why it is scary and this is why women are where they are. It scares us. Heaven forbids that you end up with a guy who has not blown. You do not really know his true characteristics. The day he blows then he now decides that you are not his type''.
Toke also addressed men who date women for convenience and abandon them once they become successful.
She said
''And so many men are just dating girls for convenience and it is so unfair. When you hear the story on the other side about how this girl has everything, used her school fees to take care of you, and the moment you hammer you now think you can move on''.
God is our strength beyen
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ReplyDeleteGone are those days you just date , make lovely memories and marry. These day relationships are crazy and complex . Talking stage , financial stage (needs and wants), emotional stage, mental stage, genotype stage, polygamy stage before yes I do. I pray everyone gets want they looking for. I believe in everything family values should be considered first.
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