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Hmmmm,what are the signs that one is a side chick?

NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

SIGNS THAT YOU ARE A SIDE CHICK?

Stellz,how are you doing?I have been reading other people's narratives,never knew I'd send mine too.

Straight to the story,I am in my 20s,I just met a guy and we started dating,everything was going smoothly until last week saturday. We were on our way to his house when his car just stopped on the highway,the roadside mechanics came and fixed it because it was a minor issue something that has to do with water. 

They charged him like 10k,we felt like what it was too much,just for my bf to tell one of the mechanics that he doesn't have money o that infact he is going to collect 5k from his junior sister(me),I just opened my mouth,I didn't say anything because I was in shock. I wanted to get down and just take a cab home but the kind hunger wey hook me ehn!

 I was just humble.

 So on our way,I asked him why he called me his sister,he said because he wanted them to have sympathy and not collect that much from him because he didn't want to pay that much. I said is a friend not more appropriate than junior sister,he said he was sorry and all. When we got to his house,his neighbor came to his apartment to do something and he introduced me as his gf to his guy,in my mind I was like Naso!

Stella,please,don't sit down on my matter,use your red pen abeg. It has got me thinking,I just started dating this guy,I can still quit now before it gets deep. 

That was how someone I dated for 3yrs always introduced me to people using just my name and I didn't see anything wrong with it only for me to realize that I was just a side chick. I don't want to go through that kind of heart break anymore because I'm a reserved person and barely talk.. Please help! Thank you.

So it is when somebody introduces you as his girlfriend that you feel confident?let me tell you,some men even introduce their side chicks as wife.

Why dont you just chill?you brought it to his attention and he adjusted and now you are confused?

The relationship is still young and i am not there with you on ground and if you feel that you are a side chick,please please discuss with him again.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

WHEN THE EX COMES CALLING.

Greetings Stella and my amiable Blog visitors,

Please, i am caught between financial and emotional dilemma and need the help of this humble family. This may seem lengthy, but i crave the indulgence of everyone to be patient while at it, please.

There was a guy i dated for almost 3years, he was my first! But, along the line he dumped me and got married to someone else(even has a kid now).

I picked up my pieces calmly and moved on jejely.  

Beginning of this year, i met someone else and this new guy in question treats me like a queen, everything has been rosy for me until last week(My ex and i even after he dumped me, still keep in touch occasionally) my ex told me about his business expansion which is currently in my base(N:B Le Boo, and my Ex are in same line of business) and is now proposing that I link him up to le boo so that he(my ex) can be supplying him(le boo) with goods and for every good supplied i will have a share of commission, which is very huge.

The issue now, is that my ex is saying i should introduce him to le boo as my brother or relative and i shouldn't tell my siblings or anyone at all about the deal.

In as much as i need the money, because my present job doesn't pay me well, but i am scared he may be up to something.

please am confused and need advice from you all on what i should do because i really love my new boo and i have found peace with him, scared of any problem or regret of any kind that may arise later or do you people think i am being paranoid just because of the past? 

Maybe he means well for me(because each time we talked on any occasion, he always advises me et al.) Should i go ahead and grab this mouth watering opportunity beneath my foot by introducing him to le boo?

From what you have explained up there,there is something fishy that doesnt sound right.If you introduce Le boo to him,you do so at your own risk.