Nollywood actress Bimbo Akintola (44yrs this year) granted Vanguard Online an interview
and talks about not wanting a husband.
Bimbo is a sweet natured woman,full of laughter,talks like the dictionary
started in her mouth and delivers her movie roles like she was born with
a script in her hands.......
Read Excerpts from the interview
On not needing a husband: “I don’t need anything. I’m a complete person. I only do things that make me happy, because I believe and I understand the reality that this is just one life and you should live it to the maximum, happiness and peace should be the key. I’m not searching for a husband, because the rumour that I’m searching for a husband has given me wahala,- all kinds of people from left, right and centre, looking for me saying they want to marry me. Please, I’m using this opportunity to tell everybody, I am not looking for a husband!”
On regrets: “No regrets whatsoever. I’m doing what I want to do. I’m excited.”
On her relaionship status: “Yes, I am. But I don’t talk about my relationships.”
*Yeah right tell that to the birds!..WE BELIEVE YOU BIMBO.
I dey console myself! Abeg, tell urself truth
ReplyDeleteShe hasn't got money,she fucks one small tall dark skin boy dat hangs around bukka hut in lekki 1,she smoke weeds,sconk,drugs,she's messed up in the head. All she want is big amu nd cries inside for finacial help.. Abegie make she take several sit joor
DeleteEvery woman needs a man by her side to be complete.
DeleteYes,I said it!
You might not realise it now.
Bt my sis y naw???? Na imo state girls dey tay 4 house like dis naw!!! Chai!!!!
DeleteD comments here are so deep,educative,intelligent and insightful,stella big kudos to ur commenters. Went through the comments on the same post on LIB and all I could do was shake my head,couldn't even make it tru the 1st 10comments,very shallow comments,most of them not more than 3sentences long! Its really sad cos I used to love going tru the comments on there,don't know what happened...oh wait! I tink I do...SDK happened!...NewBie!
DeleteI have always loved this lady, she seems a very confident lady. Marriage isn't the ultimate goal in life, so madam so long as u r happy, not dashing in and out of marriages, as if u r having a running tummy n dashing in n out of the loo.
ReplyDeleteMarriage s nt 4 evry1,f she s happy wif d way she is,den gud 4 her.Live n let's live
DeleteWhere is it written ind bible dat marriage is nt 4 every1#justasking*
DeleteItohan, ask a multitude of women and they'll tell you they wish they were never married. I raise up my hand first.
DeleteStella pls not everyone wants to get married. Believe it or not.
ReplyDeleteHmm I know Bimbo very well. Yemi solade was to marry Bimbo but she was still enjoying street life, so he went ahead to marry someone else after dating her for so long.
Delete......I like bimbo but she likes to overdo. The problem with intelligent, over zealous, or over ambitious women is that, over confidence rips them of time, d good things if life, and sometimes, a good man to marry them.
... Am not saying u should be desperate, buy there's time for everything Bimbo. I was like u, even worse. But when I got closer to God I understood life better. ...Whether u are a celebrity or not, a successful woman is a potential threat to her male suitors. Not becos they can't afford her mostimes, but because they are just threatened by her nonchalant demeanor..which is what u are doing now Bimbo.
...You have a name, just comfortable financially, almost hitting menopause, but not ready to marry? I would rather that u didn't make this declaration public by saying u do not want a man. You've just reduced ur chances yet again. But I know deep down that u long for a man of ur own. Solade that should have married u is almost a grandfather now, yet u say u are not ready?
....Except there's something u ain't saying. I know how ur mother is very worried. The alcohol, cigarettes and the late night u keep with random men is part of the frustration you've inflicted in yourself. U may think u are ok, but u are not.
....You are always high..not good for a lady. We've all been bad girls at some point, but the ability to retract is what makes u smarter than ur peers.
...Take a cue from Nike Osinowo...Na me fine like this can destroy a woman's life...else, y would dat Nike marry someone like Dr Soleye if not for money and out of frustration?
....Will continue to pray for u o. You need help. One love still
That is what they all say but deep down they are sad lonely and depressed.
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ReplyDeleteI agree with her. The quest to marry by force has landed enough ladies in hot soup. She's not writing off marriage, if it comes, fine. But to say she's looking all over the place for a husband insinuates low self esteem.
Bimbo, do your thing. Not every woman can possibly marry. For one thing, there are more women in the world. The men can't go round.
That your closing remark Stella, na you sabi.
100 likes!
Delete1000likes. Marriage is simply overated
Delete1billon LIKES!!!!! If she collect person husband now, na una go sscream, if she marrry e scatter same!
Deletewell, same as love, money, etc, however, these are prerequisites for happiness which is the ultimate goal.. Just like salt in a pot of soup..take the soup as happiness nd marriage as the salt, love as the 'animal' and money as the active ingredient..whether egusi or ogbono
DeleteYes u are right. Live and be happy. However, there is time for everything. A time to sow and a time to reap. A time for the moon and a time for the sun. But no time is ever too late when God is on ur side. Delay is not denial. God's time remains the best time. I pray that she finds true love in a real man.
DeleteWait what? 40 what? Wow. She has good genes sha.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria, marriage is everything. If it flops these same set of thundercunts will be the first to slate the woman. I guess Oprah Winfrey is married too, right? Marriage isn't for everybody, if you can make it on your own then why get married? People die through marriage abuse these days, let's not be quick to hurry women to what they won't be able to handle.
ReplyDeleteReasonable comment. Temmy
DeleteWow!!! best comment pj *clapping*
DeleteWow!!! best comment pj *clapping*
DeleteThanks o
DeleteKindly tell them marriage isn't the beginning and end of life o
Marriage isn't everything.love your comment
DeleteI'm impressed, @PJ!
DeleteAm happy ur mother raised u well!!!! The best comment ever
DeleteStella, thank u. U were reading my mind
ReplyDeleteBut why are we always so quick to cite the not so good examples in situations like this, when we can encourage ourselves with the positive ones? Someone said Oprah is rich, yet not married. Good for Oprah, but is she really happy? What about the examples of those who have blossoming marriages? This is the devil's gimmick on humanity. The spirit of retrogression is when u look for a person's bad situation as example to console yourself. That some people get battered in their marriages doesn't mean that BIMBO will go tru the same abeg. While no one should pressure or castigate her for her status, because it is not left to her but her God, all the same let us encourage ourselves with positive scenarios please.
DeleteWhich sane man will even marry an old,igbo-smoking,lesbian like you....mtcheeew...Old cargo,your time don pass..
ReplyDeleteAt least she's intelligent, good at her craft and can speak English which is more than can be said for you and your smelly-mouth husband.
DeleteMy days! Hot tears!
DeleteEishhhhhh! Gold scent Easy on Linda!
DeleteAnd Yes! Bimbo is a babe.
I thought she was yoruba
DeleteGold scent! Lol. Una mean this Linda Eze today o.
DeleteIgbo ( Indian hermp)
DeleteAunty Bimbo,Husband's are not looking for you too,so she is not lair.
ReplyDeleteSDK you just made a childish comment, what do you mean by "celebs can lie for Africa"? So you think its not possible for her to wait for Mr right and if she doesn't, she would rather be alone? Most women think like that..the highest she would do would be to have a child, so she might not be lying ...
ReplyDelete*am out
Story that touch.
ReplyDeleteIf I hear bimbo that u ain't looking for a partner. Aunty gwegwegwe! Liar
ReplyDeleteI love bimbo.stella please marriage is not for everyone no be by force to marry nah. I love unmarried women like oprah,linda ikeji,rita dominic,genneviv,ebube,halima abubakar,etc this women give me hope that I can still make it without any man,men are arrogant and have big ego .I can't take that shit from any man
ReplyDeleteI better be single and happy than married and sad
Trust me, all these women u mentioned wet their pillows every night with tears, especially d naija ones
DeleteAnon 1.51 dnt say wat u r not sure of. I can tell u dt more married women are crying day and night compared to single ones. U can take ur statistics from posts on dis blog alone, most are unhappily married and looking for a way out.
DeleteAnd u know that because u r beside them wen dey wet their pillows? @anon please stick to facts not what ur head thinks, if ur a female, not every1 would wet her pillow like u cos she's without a man.
DeleteIts obvious she cant get married again. Must be all these career women that didnt av time for men then. She cant see a single man again. All the best o......
ReplyDeleteShe's right. That she's not looking doesn't mean she doesn't desire marriage. It just means that's not all what life is about
ReplyDeleteAwww Bimbo, my fav actress of all time. No, there was no rumour as to whether u were hubby-hunting. So I'd say u're actually hubby-hunting & hiding behind d "rumour" to say it. Just like Daniel with d "hacked e-mail" thingy against Doris. Lol
ReplyDeleteBimbo @44 u not looking for a husband,are u a celibate may the good lord hv mercy on you oh,stories that touch.
ReplyDeleteShe can't find. Plus she's a hot lesbian.
ReplyDeleteYou know any babe wey she don fuck? Or wey she dey fuck? Rumour mongers. When a woman us single, she's a lesbian abi? Meanwhile, most of the lesbians are married women.
DeleteAnon pls help me ask o. Humans and stigmatising. Bladdy rumour sellers.
DeleteAbeg she don born pikins dem? The last time I saw her, her tummy be like she dey pregnant.
ReplyDeleteAunty Bimbo, you should even be acting frustrated sef, why on earth is she acting all fulfilled? And to even think that people call and she turns them down, unless there is something she is not telling us
well...maybe she feels comfortable being single. she should marry whenever she is ready cos we no wan hear divorce. but 44yrs old & still single though? God help her
ReplyDeleteI love Bimbo Akintola,she's an amazing actress...wateva makes her dream well,ain't nobody's bizness.
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DeleteShe said she's in a relationship so saying she's not looking for husband is not a lie per se, maybe her partner wll soon be her husband
ReplyDeleteOnly you just made sense. How can she be husband hunting if she's in a relationship? People will not bother to read, digest,and understand. They are just insulting the lady for no just cause
DeleteOr she simply meant she's in a gay relationship.....myopic minds dissing others
DeleteY do u always abuse/insult pple Stella? It has nw bcome a way of life for u. D lady sd she Is hpy wit herself, what is Ʊя̲̅ own I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ doubting her for God's sake? Let her bE pls!!
ReplyDeleteBimbo are u sure of what u said? Words have power remember!
ReplyDeletei so much luv dis Bimbo, her laughs mostly. Chyqueen
ReplyDeleteAwon mama ni yen!
ReplyDeleteShe is really lookin gud oo
I admire dat even wit d pressure of bleached skin in movie industry,
She is among d few dat refuses to buldge.
Even if sh no wan marry
Let her av babies abeg!
So she wld av company in her old age oo.
Is marriage the soke determinant for having babies? Do you know how many have been married without kids for years?
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DeleteHeyaaa ! Marriage is not everything though! So no need questioning or abusing her. Its Her Life.
ReplyDeleteOld woman keep decieving your self.at a time when u go don old well well with a man and with out child then we know who go take care of you.your mates are married with kids and you there lying and decieving your old stupid ass that u don,t need husband.you and old mama rita dominic one day una go cry soteyyy u go look for any idiot to call husband but then it might be too late.two words for you go and die
ReplyDeleteHey nasty anonymous. This Lady could be your sister cousin or relative. Have a heart now! She should look for any idiot to call a husband.... Someone you love will experience this so life can teach you a sound lesson. I just pray Bimbo doesn't read this WICKED comment of yours. May God salvage your Wicked soul. And leave Rita out of your shit.
DeleteWhy r u so angry? U carry another person matter for head like this.have u eaten?hungry man na angry man.pele
DeleteAnonymous 12:31 easy! You'll be 44 one day. You'll have other problems that people will laugh at you about. I hope you'all be this loudmouthed when responding.
DeleteHaba stop d hate cos u sound so Frustrated and bitter..."Marriage is not d ultimate goal in life"
DeleteSome women are so bitter, that's y they are not happy in their marriages cus even their so called husbands can't stick them.
DeleteYou are so unhappy. Choi. It really pained you that someone could be single and happy, because you sick hubby don turn you to punching bag. Oloriburuku omo. Mashanfani onidokudo. She is single and happy, kill yourself. Wayray jatijati. Some people just get to a certain age and they get tired of hoping to get married someday, and refuse to bow to pressure from miscreant like you. Every woman alive hopes to get married but if it does not come what will you do? Kill yourself abi? Asinwin omo. (Google the meaning).
Delete@ezi..I understand ye standpoint but bimbo should know better than to make such comments! It's obvious that it's a lie and a bid to put up that super woman attitiude ...ppl moreso celebs gotta mind what they say..even she doesn't wanna get married she should recognize that its coz of d male folk she's gotten popular ladies forno give am eye sef!..also a dildo can't do all the work a guy is most likely helping out xcept she's a lesbo S some blieve..
DeleteBelieve it or not, marriage isn't for everybody! Some people are single and loving every single minute of it. For Nigerians, getting married is like finding the holy grail, the utmost life achievement. It's a good thing yeah but that's not what life is all about. I think nigerians need to loosen up and stop putting unnecessary pressure on single women above 30 because it's this pressure that makes them settle for any tom, dick or harry that pays them the slightest attention. If it happens, fine. If it doesn't, it's not the end of the world. Just live your life and do what makes you happy. C'est tous.
ReplyDeleteThe pressure breeds low self esteem, they settle for any tom,dick and Harry, become extremely subservient and the *dino* (Dinostic Violence) starts. Oseburuwa!
Delete@siobhan,,,is it c'est tous or c'est tout????
Delete@siobhan,,,is it c'est tous or c'est tout????
DeleteI know, I love bimbo akintola though, to me she's one of d best actresses in nija, I just hope she's happy.
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abeg stella lets talk so we talk so ,i love bimbo with a passion ,she is infact a art of her own ,oya list of married people ,funke akindele,princess,chika ike and the ones forming married people and yet dying oh i forgot to mention doris simeon,abeg leave bimbo alone marriage is not fulfilment ,many people are married yet living in pains and regret and will not leave because of what society will say ,dis garri and groundnut i dey eat dey worry my brain ,christ okotie all dem marry .marry marry marry marry
ReplyDeleteThese celebrities try. We can put other people under unnecessary pressure in Africa.
ReplyDeleteWait o..if na you what would your response be?
What if she truly doesn't need a man? Has anyone considered that?
You expect her to wear her heart on her sleeve and tell the whole world she needs a man.
She simply said she is not looking for a husband and does not necessarily mean she is not interested in getting married. By being or sounding desperate means every Tom, Dick and Harry will be putting unnecessary pressure on her and may lead to making one of the worst decisions in her life.
ReplyDeleteI love this lady to bits and a pray that God will grant her hearts desires in this new year (a husband of course!)
Anon12:31 how can u tell someone to go and die this new year? The heart of men is really wicked that was a cruel comment, may God forgive us all, Amen!
ReplyDeleteMarriage is very important. Every woman needs a husband. Check the lifestyles of most women telling you they don't need a man. They are disgruntled. Their attitudes suck, they are mostly depressed and all. This is because a big hole has been made in their lives and they tend to fill up those holes with a lot of lies and vices. Yes , people get married and divorce and yet all women desire to get married someday , (irrespective of the number of divorces) .Ladies, instead of looking up to women who do not believe anything good can come out of marriage, why not single out one or two people you know their marriages have worked and look up to them! Am tired of people filling my ears with crap about marriage. If you believe in it, it will work. There is a kind of respect a woman earns by being married especially in our society. I do not encourage desperation though. That doesn't mean a woman shouldn't pray to get married someday.
ReplyDeleteI like d phrase 'if u believe in it', for those that dont believe in it nko? Marriage in Nigeria is full of shit. 80% of marriages r dead already.
DeleteGod bless u Anon 1:15pm. U actually re echoed my thoughts. I posted the sane thing before getting to read ur submission. Well said.
DeleteI think she's past the point when being without a husband gives her sleepless nights. Doesn't mean if a good man comes along she won't be happy. So yea she might be saying just how she feels..... Henewayyyy I am a new out of the closet sdk follower so I will be commenting ALOT. Watch This Space *peace*
ReplyDeletebimbo akintola is one the brilliant actresses nigeria can boast of anyday anytime. thank God marriage is not one the yardstick to make heaven.
ReplyDeletePlease free the lady,I miss seeing u in movies bimbo, for all those insulting her, u all are wicked.
ReplyDeleteThe fact that we are married doesn't make the unmarried ones inferior to us. Marriage is a product of God's grace and we should always remember that there are so many forces militating against marriages.
ReplyDeleteIt's never deliberate for a lady that has attain marriageable age to remain single that's why we rejoice over marriage whenever it happens.
We should learn and cultivate the habit of praying for the unmarried ones to be married rather than castigate them or make them feel worthless/inferior.
My opinion.
Exactly!
DeleteBrilliant
DeleteI love bimbo akintola. Yes marriage is underrated. If its not meant to be then let it be rather than forcing things. My guy got me so angry 2days ago January ist and I poured out my heart and told him what no girl with "liver and kidney" has ever told him. This is 2014 and no time for dulling. For me its either marriage or am having a child this year. So bimbo, don't allow society push you to the wall cos all that matters is your happiness. At 44, she looks really good.
ReplyDeleteTell it to the birds ke? Stella with all these your years of living abroad you still think every woman wants a husband? Like most people have said not everyone desires to be married some people are happy single or with a companion they are not married to. Nigerians will make someone kill for marriage na wa!
ReplyDeleteMake una free this girl abeg! Isn't Kate Henshaw in her forties? Is she not happily divorced? Abeg marriage is not for everyone.
ReplyDeletelol.....ladyengland didnt know you were this dumb.......so how does not looking for a husband equate being celibate? i was 36 when i got married and i was not looking for a husband......i met someone, we fell in love and we felt we ticked all the right boxes and wanted to spend our lives together....if she meets the right person marriage will happen, so now let her enjoy her singleness and if she desires a child nothing stops her from getting married....we put too much pressure on people to get married out here and there is no where in the bible where God says everyone must marry.....its just a human desire to spend all your life with someone....if it happens fine if not dont make her feel less woman or human.....as for you linda eze you are a minus to humanity and i pity the womb that bore you....you are indeed a failed project......
ReplyDeleteGood for her! It is good to know yourself in this world, and be true to you.
ReplyDeleteI can't point my finger at one man who has done anything close for my life as what God has done. Not one. My first allegiance in life will always be to God. If a mortal man comes along, so be it, but if one doesn't I will still be 100% happy, healthy and wealthy. Apart from possibly making a child together, I honestly cannot see how any man could add anything to my life that is not already within me.
1000 likes. God bless u.
DeleteAnonymous January 3, 2014 at 2:36 PM, You have spoken well.
DeleteHmmmmmmm, attitude matters!
DeleteOne needn't be desperate for marriage because its only leads to wrong choices being made.
ReplyDeleteSeveral unmarried ladies in their 40s now either choose to give birth to kids as companions later on,this shows how much we've imbibed western culture while the marriage values are fading away.
Our economy has made most married men to shy away from their responsibilities,so the unmarried ladies aren't encouraged to take the vow with struggling men.
Bottomline,most women desire responsible companions, but resign to fate & go on with their lives(life is too short ) when it isn't forthcoming .
I pray Almighty God grant marriageable women responsible men who ll be the comfort of their eyes,amina.
Amen to this!
DeleteAmen to this!
DeleteAmen. I m hugging you so tight. #no homo#.
DeleteAT 44 this is a woman, not a girl. And bimbo for long has shown a level of maturity and confidence that comes with womanhood. she is also a very intelligent woman. Marriage is not for everyone. if she gets married and gets out later we would all be here cursing her out.
ReplyDeletehow many of you who are married are truly happy and proud of being married? if you are happy in your marriage congrats! if you are not sorry! if you are unmarried, and choose not to be married it is your decision and your happiness in life should always be your priority not others. unhappiness is not what someone can hide, this woman has never struck me as an unhappy person.
You are just ignorant Stella. Smh !
ReplyDelete@anon12;31,,,4 insuting my sis,,,dis year shall b ur year of untimely death!!!R.I.P to u already!!!
ReplyDeleteTout
DeleteUr generation tout!!!
DeleteWhatever makes her happy.
ReplyDeleteRily Stella? DinT xpct dt kind of side comment frm u. Since when does gettin married Validate a woman? Can every married woman beat der chest n say dt dey r better dan Bimbo cos of der marital status? She dint even say she doesn't need or want a husband she said shez nt searchin 4 one. No b by force.
ReplyDeleteOMG! When did the level of reading and understanding English degrad to this level in Nigeria? All of you insulting Bimbo simply did not understand the write up. Read and understand b4 commenting and stop displaying your ignorance here.
ReplyDeleteBetter still there is now Ibo, Yoruba and Housa on google translator use it. For those of you whose languages are not on google translator ask your mum for translation, that is if she educated.
She is in a relationship and does not want anymore man and she is happy. Pls stop the insults its not her fault that you dont understand English.
Abeg y'all shld leave bimbo akintola alone. Marriage won't take her to heaven. They force u to marry den wen u marry u go get high bp. I was under d same pressure from every corner, I eventually married a DOG. Everytin gives him a hard on. Bimbo take ur time
ReplyDeleteSorry to laff at ur misery, but that was funny
Deleteno one should insult @Bimbo
ReplyDeleteI love her alot
Just be Happy @Bimbo..thats all that matters
@Galore
Nigerians and their weird ways of reasoning, am sure mrs melaye is regretting the day she said I do to mr melaye, a man who distributes his sperm to babes and beats his wife blue black, he takes it a step further and posts another woman's picture? That one na marriage? , pls leave and let leave, May The Lord fill our homes with laughter and peace. It isn't do or die.Most importantly mr right can come at any time.Lets stop this hateful comments.It is well
ReplyDeleteNigerians and their weird ways of reasoning, am sure mrs melaye is regretting the day she said I do to mr melaye, a man who distributes his sperm to babes and beats his wife blue black, he takes it a step further and posts another woman's picture? That one na marriage? , pls leave and let leave, May The Lord fill our homes with laughter and peace. It isn't do or die.Most importantly mr right can come at any time.Lets stop this hateful comments.It is well
ReplyDeleteLets nt kid ourselves...is thr any woman complete witout a man?
ReplyDeleteI have a couple of questions for u,
Delete1)Are u a male or a female?
2) Did u ACTUALLY take ur time to read reasonable comments on here before commenting?
If u r a female, its such a pity, so u tie your being complete to having a man? Wake up call human, u need a self check. Being complete is all about U!!! When u came to this earth, was ur sole purpose to end up with a partner? U had better find ur reason for being here instead of reasoning u have to be with someone to be complete. Such low esteem :(
Ehn ehn. You are incomplete abi? Don't worry, we will complete ourselves with your hubby. There is love in sharing. Ready or not, here I come.
DeleteNo human can complete another! No human can completely satisfy
DeleteA man doesn't complete a woman, God does. When you walk with God, He makes you whole and when you meet that man, he complements your walk with God and your journey through life. Please ladies, don't get it twisted...that's why no matter how much ure hurting from pain in life, it's God's grace that sees you through, ur partner can only comfort and stand by you but he/she doesn't have the power to help you move on. So Live, breath, exhale and get close to God by the time He sends the man, u are complete and not needy. Read The Lady, her lover and her Lord by TD Jakes.....A must read for all singles
DeleteShe's d Author of her life. . . We've all gat our destiny in our hands!
ReplyDeleteHelloooo! Sorry I got in here late.
ReplyDeleteOK guys, I think a majority is misreading Bimbo.
Bimbo is all of the praises Stella sang about her....very intelligent, plays with words that you 've got to read, digest n understand to get her point.
While she was at univ of ibadan, (theatre arts); hardly in school, always on movie locations but trust me, when she's beeped for a test/exam.....she tops the class with her grades ( she's got brains). it got up to the point that lecturer's started beefing her and made her have an extra year. (*rolls eyes* )
Chimney? yes she is! Smokes like one.(scared for her lungs)
Now, Take this to your susu collector......Bimbo Akintola has never been desperate for marriage. She is a lady that believes if it comes, OK! it doesnt, oh well....
All you all, saying she is a lesbian......shussh! Stop it! Don't trash her image please! She's not.
Bimbs, I love you cos I've always known you to be a Lady who is never under pressure...always easy/sweet/fab actress/intelligent/takes life jeje.
She isn't searching doesn't mean if she connects with someone she won't get married to him.it.i got married when I wasn't searching and pls getting married is not how much you desperately search, searching for husbands could cost one heartbreaks . The key thing is Our society drives us into desperation, some ladies despite all the red flags plunge into an unhealthy union. some parents kick their daughters out of the house cuz she isn't married, etc,so at the end of the day such a person will settle for anything just to save her face and answer mrs. It is absolutely wrong. A society that expects you to commit suicide cuz you are not married, your opinion on certain matters don't even count cuz you are single.Then if she gets married, Woe betide her if she is caught up in a bad marriage, the same society expects u to endure n be miserable in the marriage even if the issues are life threatening.God help us oh, let's look well before we leap and ask The Lord for direction.
ReplyDeleteStella honestly I think it's time you begin to give your blog some censoring......a lot of us mature people come here but the way you allow touts like Okija wife post comments is beginning to really piss me off......what kind of upbringing do they have that they cannot type descent words? What kind of example are we allowing teenagers who come here get? Young adults should be able to learn from some of us mature people....yes we get some post you will just want to yab but to come here cursing and being totally foul mouthed is totally loosing it....honestly anytime I go to Bella naija I feel happy that I don't get to see a lot of trashy talk like I see here and Linda ,s post.....I read all the blogs cos I get different things from each one but I think you should start really disallowing comments from some people......at least prince jobless is behaving a bit better now and toning down the trashy talk cos you started refusing to post some of his comments.....this Okija wife should be banned from this blog, she is totally and utterly a sickening foul mouthed irritant.....
ReplyDelete@1:49,,u nd ur generations shall b banned 4rm goodness nd mercies of d lord,,AMEN!!!
Delete@1:49,,u nd ur generations shall b banned 4rm goodness nd mercies of d lord,,AMEN!!!
DeleteOkija baby....I'm not the only one observing! Lmaaao and you proved anon 1.49am right! You did it again.
DeleteLaughing so hard tears pouring down my face! Choi. Lady you need to slow down with the cursing please. It says sooooo much abt who u r and where u r 4rm
DeleteShe's one of the best actresses in Nollywood.Take it or leave it!
ReplyDeletehmmm
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