A facebook handle wrote these words
'Ronke Bewaji Shonde was a beautiful daughter of a wonderful family, she had vision for her life and wished to enjoy the beauty of marriage.
She got married to the man who ought to love and protect her, unfortunately, she's lying in the pool of her own blood while the husband is at large.
Domestic violence has claimed the lives of many individuals, and the beautiful mother of two little children is the latest victim.
I will still repeat it again, no marriage is worth the life of any individual!
What will be the fate of the two lovely children she left behind?
Only time will tell!
I'm deeply pained by this horrible death that could have been averted, but I pray that God will open the eyes of many individuals in an abusive relationship to avoid terrible tragedies like this one''.
Source From Amara van-lare fb page
Those of you managing your Marriage situation because you like to fix what is broken or scared of what family and friends will say,I hope that you do not end up like her!
That said,the almost naked photo of the dead woman circulating the net is so wrong and i cried looking at it..Whoever uploaded that photo should have had some respect for her Corpse!..My two cents!
Bvs will still turn deaf. The yesterday lady will get a job, do Shakara small and go back to her husband. Her excuse will be maybe because she was jobless.
ReplyDeleteDaft people everywhere
You are right!,..
DeleteVery true... 1million likes to ur comment. Once she gets a job she will go bak to the husband
DeleteOMG! So Mercy Bewaji is dead? Her brother just died o, my God,what a sad moment for the family. These two were so much In love and always gushing about the love they have for eachother.Mercy rest in peace.
DeleteOh Lord, her little kids, her family, her friends, this is devastating.
DeleteWhat came over this mad man? So this is how this monster sent her to an untimely grave? The horror!
Do not rest in peace till you get justice.
Hmm, may God help us. Some people won't still see this and learn, they will keep using their kids as an excuse to stay in an abusive marriage
DeleteAnd some people will see her looking good outside and be praying for her kind of marriage /husband. Smh. Face your own life and don't be praying to be like others, you don't know what their story is.
DeleteBreaking head and loosing self esteem in the name of marriage? Mba nu. Impossible. Hit me once, I'm out meeen. I kuku can't fight so na to pack my load waka jejely. Can't deal.
DeleteFlora Okwuosa, now that you are no longer allowed access to social media. I hope yours won't be next. You managed to escape the first one but decided to yield to Stockholm syndrome.
DeleteJust look at this woman, went to her facebook yesterday and tears dropped. I was down and weak. You will still see people that will support the man and even make excuses for him Infact, if he proposes to a woman today,they will accept him without thinking twice.
The signs are always there. No one knows where life is. All you neeed is hit the wrong place and death is it.
That being said, blogs and media houses that were spreading the picture of her half clad body will face the wrath of God. You don't have to show such demeaning photos to further punish her children and her character. It is so so wrong and may our deeds come back to hunt us.
We do anything to drive traffic including the ONE that was preaching feminism a while ago because a little boy hurled insults at her. Now, you sit down and publish a half naked picture of a fellow woman. WTF? Giving the idiot husband a second chance to view the crime scene. It is all shades of wrong and I hope you will publish that of your sister or loved one. Idiots everywhere.
Permit me to poo here.
DeleteWhy are ladies so blind-folded cuz of love.this issue of domestic violence is somfin d guy u r datin has bin into for long even b4 u got married but u get ursef so emotional dat u don't see d dangers of such act by saying,.."He will change after marriage"....
Ladies be careful,no mata worth u ave invest in that relationship,any sign of "I wl slap u",,I wll kick u"...ogbeni,find ur square root ni ooo.
Back to we men,r we stupid or wat? Cuz I can't just give anwer to dis question sef,abi na love enter our head to that level ni..no one can try dat with my sis ooo cuz will neva do such to any woman.
RIP woman....ogbeni husband,u will never find peace
Mc pinky
Here is a warning to women whose marriage is only good for family portraits. Keep covering battered face with concealer and foundation and posing for make believe happy family portraits. Keep covering evidence,keep suffering, it will never end except one drops dead or get too old to beat. When the case goes to court, your portraits and pictures will give your abusive husband an evidence of a sweet marriage and weaken the prosecutors case of continuous domestic violence but instead portray crime of passion. A case of just one second of snapping. Flora Okwuosa, are you reading this? You are not more beautiful, stronger,or more precious than her. She is gone today. Tomorrow will another person's turn, someone reading this. Yes you! Your death could be avoided now. No need to wait for him to strike again, leave now. Now!
DeleteHope the lady of yesterday's IHN sees this. Once a marriage turns to manage and full of violence, run for your life. That discrimination you are so afraid of, that name tag u are scared ppl wil call u is not enough reason to die in the hand of a man all in the name of 'marriage' Suchh a beautiful lady....RIP
DeleteHere is a warning to women whose marriage is only good for family portraits. Keep covering battered face with concealer and foundation and posing for make believe happy family portraits. Keep covering evidence,keep suffering, it will never end except one drops dead or get too old to beat. When the case goes to court, your portraits and pictures will give your abusive husband an evidence of a sweet marriage and weaken the prosecutors case of continuous domestic violence but instead portray crime of passion. A case of just one second of snapping. Flora Okwuosa, are you reading this? You are not more beautiful, stronger,or more precious than her. She is gone today. Tomorrow will another person's turn, someone reading this. Yes you! Your death could be avoided now. No need to wait for him to strike again, leave now. Now!
DeleteFlora Okwuosa,now that you are no more allowed access to social media. I hope you are well. The women out there still writing chronicles to send in, are you still look for words? When you can act.
DeleteThat being said, I strongly condemn the evil and disgraceful publishing and sharing of Ronkes half nude photos on blogs and media platforms, did anyone argue with you that she isn't dead? Why go to that length to further humiliate her instead of putting the man's name, pictures and where he works all over everywhere. Coming from a blogger that was rooting for women bla bla bla over a mere insult sharing such photos of a fellow woman to further humiliate and hunt her kids. What is wrong with this world? Everything is about traffic! Bullshit! Please post that of your sisters when it happens to them. Bullshit.
Flora Okwuosa,now that you are no more allowed access to social media. I hope you are well. The women out there still writing chronicles to send in, are you still look for words? When you can act.
DeleteThat being said, I strongly condemn the evil and disgraceful publishing and sharing of Ronkes half nude photos on blogs and media platforms, did anyone argue with you that she isn't dead? Why go to that length to further humiliate her instead of putting the man's name, pictures and where he works all over everywhere. Coming from a blogger that was rooting for women bla bla bla over a mere insult sharing such photos of a fellow woman to further humiliate and hunt her kids. What is wrong with this world? Everything is about traffic! Bullshit! Please post that of your sisters when it happens to them. Bullshit.
It is very unfortunate this pretty lady had to go this way! May her soul rip
DeleteU see DV, it is not going away anytime soon!!! Infact majority of the people screaming against it here are the ones in it...
It is best our country starts considering correctional institutions for temperamental people (men and women)! When a man or woman hits u more than once; recommend it for him during his good times and make sure he attends FULLY. If he refuses, stay away till he gets help!
All these park and go na rubbish! So long as people keep seeing marriage as a big achievement; many* will keep living with violent partners and will only develop better ways of hiding it till they kiss the dust.
Finally, who are u people leaving them behind for? The next girl?? Then u jump to the next violent person anor partner dropped???
Abeg I don taya to type!!!
#anger management classes# #correctional institutions# #temporary restraint till u heal# etc
@my opinion nice comment...The ministry in charge of women affairs should take note
DeleteAnon 14.48, u were making a lot of sense until u said 'post that of Ur sisters "when" it happens to them'
DeleteWhat the fuck! All cos she ignorantly posted that picture, u are wishing such fate on her sisters. Yes u are, cos u didn't use 'if' but 'when. Smh.
Either u go learn English or I will tell u that it will first happen to Ur sisters before it happens to hers.
Arrant nonsense.
R. I. P to the dead.
Eka Joy: your stupid reputation precedes you. Are you a woman? You are a potential victim because no one has immunity and usually feel they are untouchable until it happens to them.
DeleteIf you feel so sad for her because I made mention of her sisters (someone close to her), then you are even more stupid because Ronke is someone's sister, mother, daughter and friend. If you do not want to do to others what you want them to do to you, then do not do it at all.
The news is always sweet when it is someone we don't know buy we protect our own with everything we got. Everyone that published that picture should also do so when it happens to their own sisters,i forgot to add mother, daughter and friends.
You are nothing but a blog rat without any iota of commonsense in you. Pig! May you open such pictures one day and see your loved one. Shove your dirty opinion down your gory hole.
How about Tiwa that suffered mental and emotional abuse yet women lime her on this blog took sides with Teebillz?? Pls i hate people who talk on both sides of their mouth.. Its the fear of the backlash Tiwa received for crying out that stops a lot of women from speaking up.. May her soul rip.
DeleteAnon. 19:23 May it not just happen to your sisters, may it happen to you and your unborn generation. You're a sad and sick person that needs to be tortured and killed. Just because she's ignorant of some things doesn't mean you should wish her and her sister evil. You're a sad and sick person. May you and your generation suffer sick and painful deaths in Jesus name. Idiot!
DeleteAnon. 12:58pm See you heaping insults and curses on everyone, you need Jesus in your life cos your bitterness no be here. Go to church and pray to God to help cleanse your heart cos it's not at peace. You need help. It's your type that would kill someone in a fit of rage. Many people on Facebook have that same photo, why you no curse those ones? Hate in your heart will consume you...little person. Na wa o. Just know all your curses will return to you a million fold.
DeleteAnon, I repeat Ur sisters' would be next if u don't take that Ur useless statement back.
DeleteLMAO, take which useless statement back? LMAO! You must think yourself a lion online when you are a wall ghecko in real life. God please listen to her prayers and gimme sisters already!!!!!!!!!!
DeleteLinda Ikeji, the selective feminist, when your sisters become the victim of domestic violence please make sure you please your minions with every graphic detail available, even at the post mortem. Do not leave any details! Way to go!
Double standards is when you say A is wrong when it happens to you, yet you feed on it when it happens to others.
If it was good, why feel bad when someone wish your loved ones well!
Please,please,please,bring it on!
Eka multiple personality disorder. The way you use Ebelechukwu and Amaka plus anon mode.
DeleteYou must think everyone on this blog is an illiterate like you. It is only you that uses either a full stop or comma after writing anon. Go back and learn from your mistakes. Be yourself and stop assuming igbo names.
LWKMD! For your mind now,you have plenty supporters.
Hello lonesome, wakey wakey! You are the most hated person on this blog so even if I crucify you on the cross, you won't even get a spit from anyone.
Oby O, people who see reasons from two guilty* parties don't necessarily speak from both sides of their mouths m'dear!
DeleteNot everyone follows one side blindly*
U weight things rationally cos every party needs to heal*
If some women stood up for tbillz, they sure had a reason! Y not tryna make sense out of their reasons than being straight out feministic* in a matter u weren't invited into from the start??...
My opinion, i see you were given an invite in the matter yourself?
DeleteThis Anonymous person is a very sad person, may God forgive you and may he give you the bad wish you're wishing someone else. If you're not a shameless hateful person then stop hiding under anonymous and show yourself. May God punish you and your unborn generation. Bastard!
DeleteEveryone here, even the idiots amongst you know I never go anon and never use another id. You are an idiot and some other ppl have thot to also let u know anon. Wishing evil on someone's sister, not because she perpetrated evil on u or another but just because she ignorantly posted a picture of a dead woman on her blog. Nna, that evil you've wished on her will go back to u.
DeleteOloriburuku somebody. Asiere, Ikeji eku
Fine babe like that just wasted her life over a useless man. God knows i wont tolerate such bulshit.
ReplyDeleteRIP fine woman.
God pls guide and protect her two kid. Amen
Kids***
DeleteTolerate wetin?...
DeleteIn this time and age?...Chukwu aju!...
Queen na sooo. Guys self no send whether u don drop 3 or 4 so far u re still in shape coupled with good character. They no send. Women make una love ur self, package ur self even after child birth. No body is worth dieing for. Run for ur life without looking back.
DeleteChai sexiest, u really are Linda Eze. Tolerate** can't be coincidence at all... smh*
DeleteSad!
DeleteRip
Kettle calling pot black. What pple can not do, they encourage their fellows to do it. You are not what you portray on korkus. Pls stop preaching gbangwa @ the sexiest mother of this blog. N the Queen and boss of this blog.
DeleteOMG!
ReplyDeleteShe was such a beautiful wooman.May her soul find peace.I pity her two kids.
*woman*
DeleteThat's the story I was talking about.
ReplyDeleteThe husband strangled her to death.
Can you imagine?,,.
DeleteI will kill you first before you think of killing me!...
How much is good poison again?..
Hian!,..
So where did the pool of blood come from?
DeleteJust negodu.
DeleteFine woman like that. She is still in shape and am sure if she takes good care of her self, no body will even believe say she don drop self.
Women they no go hear. Choi, choi, choi
*food...
DeleteMy God
ReplyDeleteIt's just so sad n unfortunate...stories like dis makes me TnkGod for the decisions I made!...don't fix wots already shattered..ppl mk mistakes n move on..the worse is dat she tried to leave on several occasions buh d so called pastor in dia church advised her not to giv room 4d devil..I hope he preaches at her funeral!..
ReplyDelete#saynotodomesticviolence
God gave us brain, make we use am. Na the Pastor dey chop beating. Some Pastors sef, asif they will allow their sisyers go through such.
DeletePoor Childrens. RIP to this woman. So sad. It was an avoidable death
Omg! What is this?
ReplyDeleteShe didn't deserve to die, at least not like this.
My heart is so sadden
Wtf!!!
ReplyDeleteIs getting out of a marriage filled with DV such a difficult task?
When would all these stupid ladies learn to value their life.
I'm sorry but I feel no atom of pity for her
If this was the 1st case of dv then I would've understood bt for the fact that it's been going on and she still stayed put is baffling
High time ladies understood that marriage or bearing a Mrs isn't an achievement
Rip
No atom of pity for her even in death? You are extremely sick! Idiot
DeleteYou are a pig! No atom of pity for even a dead woman....tie ti bae.
DeleteI understand where elena is coming from. She looks educated. She must have read so many stories where dv has led to the death of one of the parties involved or even both of them and the me times, the kids are not excluded. Why did she stay! Why couldn't she just leave. But it's still a sad thing this led to her death.
DeleteSmh for women who want to remain Mrs even in d worst situation
Eka joy: stop shaming this woman. She is dead already! Why haven't you said anything about the monster husband that committed the act? Why are you all over the place blaming the dead? You are a very stupid person! Is Ronke the reason you are still single? Please stop pouring your frustration on someone that is already dead. I am sure you are happy deep down but it will never give you closure of not finding a good man. Change your character and the way you think. I am sure all the curses you have gathered here are already following you!
DeleteAnon, u are an idiot. Keep showcasing Ur stupidity. The husband is a monster and that goes without saying. If u like remain in that terrible marriage of urs. May Ur case not be like hers. Asinu
DeleteNo be by force to comment on blogs madam Eka Sad! Is not a popularity contest here okay!..u seem like u the talkative kind...men don't like tht b4 u push ur own man 'through the wall' and not to it.. watch that mouth of urs.. Eka Sad
DeleteRIP beautiful one! I pray God touches the heart of whoever raises ur kids to raise them the way they would raise theirs and give them all the love and support they deserve ... Ladies please dont endure or worry about what people would say .. leave!!!!! Weda the abuse is emotional or physical it can lead to ur death so please leave !!!!
ReplyDeleteWOMAN either dark skin or fair skin, take a good look at yourself, we are beautiful.
ReplyDeleteWe are created beautiful, the beauty that radiates from within is established in our kids.
We are precious in the sight of our parents and siblings before we decided to join a man and become one.
When we become one with a man we love,
it doesn't have to reduce our esteem
It doesn't have to reduce our self worth
It doesn't have to reduce our pride
It doesn't have to tolerate violence
It doesn't have to end US in the MORGUE
Ladies, please WALK AWAY from a bitter relationship when you have the strength
Tomorrow will take care of itself
TOMORROW will take care of itself
TOMORROW WILL TAKE CARE OF ITSELF
stay beautiful for yourself
Someone who appreciates you will come
LONELINESS is not good but GRAVE nko, it's not our portion at an early age
Culture, stigma, stereotype, church abuse will continue even after a woman die from domestic violence.
Sell pure water, sell candy, reduce yourself to nothing to become something.
don't die for he will CHANGE, HE WILL NEVER CHANGE.
U wey like human arm prik...
DeleteMay her soul rest in peace . amen
ReplyDeleteThanks for not posting the other picture.
ReplyDeleteI saw this story on fb, not again! Please no matter what u have invested, flee because if not u would definitely die in that relationship. Some singles even see the signs and stay. I was once in a "perfect" relationship, but after he hit me twice, I ran oh, despite the fact that we were so close and I thought I couldn't live without him. I had to talk to myself in the mirror for over a year, really psyche myself till I had the guts to, and of course people yabbed me well, quarrelled, but I still left oh. He begged for years that he had changed, but I stood my ground. He was handsome, classy, from a wealthy family, had a first class, worked in an oil company, but na God save me, I still thank God everytime oh
ReplyDeleteU sure u be naija girl...wey no dey use ear hear oil company (whether na palm oil or vegetable oil dem no care)
DeleteI think I know you Sue. Heard you're married now if I'm correct.
DeleteSweet mother who are u anyways
DeleteCongrats Hun@Sue.
DeleteNawaooh...so you snuck off to go get marrrieeeddddd.
Kisses and hugs.
Good move Sue..I admire your courage..u did well
DeleteJust negodu!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful young woman, gone, just like that!
With two very young children to boot!
Gosh! Seriously, I don't effing understand what the heck will keep a woman in a home, where she's been pummeled on a regular by her husband.
I just don't get it.
Are there people that actually love being hit and apologized to later?
I'm asking, because, what people will say, should be the furthest thing, from the mind of any woman who is brutally beaten by the man who is supposed to protect her.
I still maintain that if something is too damaged to be fixed, don't even try. Before you know it, you'll make 'patching' a habit, not even realising that you're not really doing any fixing.
And next thing, your fixing will cost you your life.
And this woman was someone's daughter o, who this demon of a man, came to ask for, from her parents.
He's the one that killed her, no questions.
Since they were always fighting, and the neighbour also heard them fighting that morning.
Plus the fact that he ran away with her phones and locked the door.
This man is very evil, bikonu.
Tf!
All those people that she didn't want to face what they'll say, will still be the ones blaming her in death.
And in some months to come, they won't be talking about her again.
And the poor babies. What will happen to them now?
* sigh *
#WhiteDiamondOut
Nice comment dear. I was literally crying as I read through ur comment . I was married to a beast. A man who once proclaimed his undying love for me........ you make the best comment dear. Had to check and see if u reside in Abj...
DeleteLord have mercy!
ReplyDeleteHmmm no one knows what really happened. Rip lady
ReplyDeleteHmmm.
DeleteThis is sad.RIP beautiful lady. If he murdered you,trust me..he will have no peace.
Please the lady from IHN that posted that her Husband goes to Turn bible for her(i don't know what that means walahi) Please save your life.
RIP to her, I hope this serves as a lesson to some people who are suffering and smiling simply because of the title MRS
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
Finally she goes down. When love goes AWRY. Ronke doesn't deserve to die this way, she had love WITHIN.
ReplyDeleteThis is what it is when HE strives to keep your family and friends away from you. Never agree to the matrix, it is a redflag. Now Ronke is no more, her career, her 2 beautiful kids, her loved ones, her immediate family all behind her.
Mr Olalekan maybe you can order a trailer load of weed and smoke away your miserable life. Run no further your smart daughter can always give a 12am to 12pm of how shit went down. She sure will. God be with these 2 kids.
#saynotodomesticviolence
#themagazineshow
Cute wedding pictures and family portrait.. I cant believe this.
ReplyDeleteWhat else can I say that haven't been said about domestic violence?? May her soul rip.
DeleteHer grave will say "Here lies Ronke, the married woman, who died and left her kids after much endurance".
ReplyDeleteOMG!
ReplyDeleteThanks Stella for not uploading that horrible picture.
ReplyDeleteI blame this our society of d way women almost value marriage more than their lives. Even dis blog calling ppl gwegs is very wrong. You will see them calling a lady 27/30 gwegs all bcos she's not married. Who told you such ladies don't have suitors. But bcos of dis stigma women just marry any available man, sometimes they see the signs. But bcos all dere friends are married, they just say yes to the man. Knowing fully well he has a bad temper. May even have slapped them a few times. Even if your man doesn't beat you but beats others at slightest provocation, and has a violent streak, pls be careful of such men. And na dem dey love pass.
I just pity this lady, such a beautiful woman that shld be alive to watch her kids grow. Her life was taken away for what.
Bv Flora, hope you are allowed to view internet now. I hope that ur horseband has changed his ways. I hope the best for you.
Thank you for this piece,calling the singles names is enough to frustrate them and end them up like this. Why would anybody mock another for something they can't control,only one second is enough to make a married person single,so why mock the single. The fear of being called single has brought death to this beauty. For anyone here saying,rest in peace to this lady but has ever abused our singles for not being married, please don't deceive your self,start praying for forgiveness of sin because you are a murderer.
DeleteThank you. On this same blog, they preach against domestic violence , on this same blog they call sensible women who refuse to enter a life of misery in the name of marriage aunty gwegz. Hypocrites!!
DeleteChai!!! May her soul rest in peace.
ReplyDeleteGod will punish that man severely after the law deals with him.
This should serve as an eye opener to those in abusive marriages/Relationships! Leave while you can before you end up dead!
RIP young lady.
ReplyDeleteTo think that someone would beat another human being, be it thief or whoever till life is snuffed out of him or her baffles me always. How do they do it, how? The only thing I can kill and see blood and be happy is mosquito. Even rat I use gum ekute and at times I regret it, honestly. Now, what on this earth could have happened for you to hit her to death, when she was screaming,the pain or something couldn't you just stop, was she stabbed, poisoned, I just can't place my hands. If a husband can kill his wife, who is safe? This is nothing but sad... *tears*
ReplyDeleteThe funny thing is death isn't as hard as we think. Both of them could have been fighting and him beating her, he pushes her and gbam, she falls to the floor and hit her head on the ground. And that's the end of it all..
DeleteThis life is just so funny. One minute you are all loved up and another minute you are dead. He even had to lock up the kids with their dead mother??
And this same woman beaters can't fight their fellow men outside. They can't even raise their voice as they are cowards only come home to show their prowess
There is no need to talk about the pictures, there is nothing there.Peole need to see and understand,that picture was necessary to show these women how their lives can turn into nothing as long as they continue to live in DV. Pictures say a thousands words,if you don't want to publish it good for you but don't condemn those who did,i repeat people need to see these pictures to understand.
ReplyDeleteI agree that it is totally wrong for her corpse to be on various Fb handles. U have already typed that she is dead, its degrading for deceased pix to be used yo point out the obvious. In NY former religion (Islam) I remember that when a coffin with the dead is passing by, u all stand up nd stop talking, my IRK teacher back then quoted an hadith and said it was the practice of the Prophet. How true that is I don't know but I believe the dead should be respected. May her gentle diul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteHow many more lives do we need to loose for domestic violence to stop?
ReplyDeleteThere is a thin line between love and hate. This is really sad.
RIP beautiful woman.
I pray for the dead,i pray for the 2 beautiful kids.. anyone heard from bv Flora, I have lost weight trying to think up possible endings,i am sticking to happily ever after.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o Stella as u no see d pic grab u don post such pic before always support ur other bloggers
ReplyDeleteIt is a lie, I hvnt seen any corpse in that manner on this blog since I started visiting 2 years ago. Pls don't lie
DeleteRip
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in peace...the horseband is a devil...may he never know peace...back to the matter...most couples date @least 6months before marriage in our present world...how is it that ladies can't detect a man is violent through out those 6 months or more before saying yes...I mean how?The signs are always there but they turn a blind eye all in scramble to first marry...just like when I was in school I there is this violent cult guy in my hostel apartment, see how girls dey drag am and they all know he is violent... Beats them anyhow etc...tomorrow he will get married to a girl that saw the signs and if him kill am Stella go blame all men including me wey no dey imagine to slap woman
ReplyDeleteAmadioha grandson
Somebody must have told her to watch war room oo..now,evrybody is typing RIP.
ReplyDeleteSave your marriage and home is what I preach,but when it is a case of violence,separate but do not remarry and keep praying for a change in your spouse until there is a change. If he changes return to your home but if not remain unmarried until death sets you free.
DeleteMy dear u said the truth.small thing watch war room and yet they kep dying
DeleteLol @ untriumphant Zion. Am sure the man will remarry. But you advice the woman to remain alone and unmarried till death. You mad people ehn? If not for Stella's free credit, you suppose get airtime to yarn this bullshit. Mad woman like you. See advice biko. Which Nigerian man will stay unmarried my people. Hahahahha.
DeleteZION? PLAEASE, just keep your mouth shut!
DeleteTriumphant return... Really.
DeleteYou are so funny. You are one of the reasons abused women still stay in their marriages.
Separate but don't remarry.
*long hiss*
King XOXO MYSTERY
Unknown 16:03 and 17:40, if you don't know,ask and you will be educated.i try to avoid people with no proper upbringing but will answer this because it's about God's word.read and understand.
Delete3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?”
4 And He answered and said to them, “Have you not read that He who made[a] them at the beginning ‘made them male and female,’[b] 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’?[c] 6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.”
7 They said to Him, “Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?”
8 He said to them, “Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so. 9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality,[d] and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery.”
Don't be surprised she will be among those women worshiping their husbands on facebook et al.
ReplyDeleteThem never born that man wey go lay him useless dirty rotten hands on me. I go hire bad boys wey go beat nonsense commot from him brain mstchewwwwwwwww.
In my brother's voice... Na who die lose.
Before nko, na dem go make mouth pass abt how lovely deir marriages are on social media, na bcos of dis same character no dey let dem fit voice out. Dey wld endure to keep up appearances. Hvnt u seen all the beautiful family pictures. If u single ladies like continue tapping into d family pictures u see, u hv no idea what happens behind closed doors. Just pray to ur father for a good man dt treats u right.
DeleteDis was wot I faced 2 bt left & found out I was preg aft 2 kids & serious fighting,2 girls bt b4 I gave birth he married & aft I had my son & now he is asking me 2 come bk.all d kids a with him so shld I go bk cos of my kids or move on.I still love him & my kids 2 bt 2 live with another woman is nearly impossible bt will try cos of my kid.I tot dey said everything we suffer is 4 over kids.my fear is dat if I don't go bk my kids will hate me in future.he said he has change shey,she was a widow wit 2 kids girls 2 bt has a boy now.so shld I go & bk or leave my hubby & my kids & move on.pls am confused help me.kids hubby or my happiness,p.s d fights den were bad or I lost my tooth in d process & hit him wit a pestle so bad dat dey were scared 4 our lives.I pick dem 4 weekends & he said if I dn't come bk he will stop me frm seeing dem.he still make love & he still gives my money he even paid my debt & pays d rents.bt him & my people a nt in good terms bt me his people are in good shape.advise pls
ReplyDeleteNa wa to you, God forbid bad thing.... How did he get ur kids? Abeg madam pls do as u please. It is so so so obvious u want to go back but u dont want ppl to talk abt u. Mschewwwwee abeg go back jare. If una 2 like kill ur selves na u knw. Mschewwww
DeleteSo you have borrowed sense from this particular post abi?
DeleteYou are waiting for us to advice you b4 u.
Go and met ronke's people 4 advice.....she stayed 4 her children and got killed n you are here typing rubbish.
*receive sense*
DeleteDon't eva go bk dear. Neva go bk, if not it's ur dead body that will leave the house..
DeleteRIP to you if you go back, mtcheww. And you are still straffing him, well done o. Just know that your kids would always look for you, better move on with your life.
DeleteGo back now...... oshi rata marayo. Y will ur kids hate u, show them ur broken tooth and explain to them they r not dumb. Kids understand more than we know. U better dont return to ur doom
DeleteYou still sleep with a man you are supposed to be separated from?? Madam I don't even know what to say to you... You want to go back to a man who was quick to marry another woman even before you gave birth despite the fact that you left his house with pregnancy??
DeleteI think your English will kill you first before your ex. Shebi "he still make love & he still gives my money". Silly woman, it didn't work out when it was just the 2 of you, now wey him don marry you want to go back.
DeleteI think your English will kill you first before your ex. Shebi "he still make love & he still gives my money". Silly woman, it didn't work out when it was just the 2 of you, now wey him don marry you want to go back.
DeleteWhat are you saying? From the little I understand madam I think you should get something to do and take care of your kids.if you go back na OYO for you.you still make love and he still pays your bills.hian!
DeleteGet a good job. Get an education . Never go back. He will kill you if you do. Stop sleeping with him. Get a life. B
DeleteHaba!!
Let him send the second wife away,if not please don't go back. He has defiled your marital bed,tell him to collect the child from the woman and let the woman go, please we should always watch out for a man that respects us. You are not a property but his wife and as his wife,you must demand for your respect.Tell him you are willing to return anytime but you are not ready unless he changes,and the first step is to get some money,and settle the second lady and let her leave your home or you remain outside and keep praying for your home to be restored.
DeleteGo back, pretend for a few weeks. Then take your kids and run. Change your number when you are on the run.
DeleteAnon 12:26, you sound like an illiterate. I know you will still go back to him, hopefully he will not kill you. My advice to you, develop yourself. Stop waiting for a man to do everything for you. When a man does everything for you he believes he owns you, therefore he misbehaves just like he has done to you in the past and will do to you in the future if you do not develop your self.
DeleteNb: I recently noticed my hubby does not assist with house chores again, I did not say anything, what did I do, I withdrew financial assistance also. I think he noticed this because this morning, I noticed he carried broom and was sweeping the house, hmm I no send am work o (hahahaha). My fellow women if only you know the power of money, you will work hard for yours. A beg make I carry my pikins go lick ice cream. Horseback fit come too if him wan make I buy am ice cream too.
Don't go back. Keep every evidence u have, incase ur children ask wat went wrong with u and daddy den u show it to dem.
DeleteAnonymous 15:38. Chai.. u like trouble o lol. Obviously u are the one financing the family, from what I can deduce from ur comment. But please don't bully that man because of that. I may not understand ur situation or what has made u this stern, but u are gloating..it means dude walks on egg shells round the house. Anyway only u understands ur husband.
DeleteMadame anonymous, na to turn house geh for ur hubby and new wife should u return to that house o. Pele
What a beautiful young lady! This is sad but some women won't learn!
ReplyDeleteJames has entered "OMG" era.
ReplyDeleteSo sad, I wonder what caused this.
Nobody dey chop belleful again for this world, so men make una take'am easy dey pound una wives, ekonomi dey 3-bad.
Oh God! Not again!
ReplyDeleteSad. But will ladies learn to walk away?
ReplyDeleteEven if your wife cheats, please divorce her rather than walk away.
Ladies plus try to get independent in marriage. Stop being a sucking blood and taking shit because I cannot live without the bastard.
Ladies be wise. The fact a man is rich doesn't make him the best suitor for you
There are now comments circulating that she cld hv been cheating on him dts why he beat her. Tiwa thank God u defended urself ooooooo,don't let any1 mock and insult u for speaking out. This lady must hv bin closing her mouth in d name of keeping her family, na die she don finally die. Ppl now wld heap various allegations against her but she is dead and can't defend herself. Tiwa may hv not bin physically abused but u can imagine how Teebillz must hv spoken to her thruout deir sham of a marriage and she wld hv still kept quiet if not dt he brought everything out. Pls women don't allow any1 shame u into silence,pls speak up.
ReplyDeleteYou must be very stupid, so the beating that led to her death should be justified simply because she was cheating? If you don't have anything nice to say, it won't hurt to shut d f**k up..
DeleteSo Anon 18:19,after reading this,your spiritual mind didn't lend you an understanding spirit?
DeleteRead again before you get all emotional on someone that shares same view with ya!
Anonymous18:19 read well b4 you comment okay??
DeleteAnon 18:19
DeleteComprehending a write up is not such a difficult thing to do.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Lol iphie dearie I no fit laff abeg!!!!!! The insults wey I don chop from dis blog for no reason ehnnn....
DeleteRIP Ronke. I met her in February through my Sister in law. She was a wonderful lady. She stays in the marriage because of the love she has for her kids. Adieu Mercy Ronke Bewaji
ReplyDeleteStayed
DeleteI think I use to know her in GTB.
DeleteOMG. Father please guide my marriage, and lead us with your understanding, Amen. May her soul find eternal rest.
ReplyDeleteLadies domestic violence shldnt b d only reason to walk away. I am of d opinion that an excessively philandering husband. D one dt had community penis is enuf to move on ooooo, u wld just catch all types of diseases in d name of staying in a marriage. Some of u a chewing antibiotics like its vitamin C bcos of philandering husbands. Pls move on from such situations. HIV no dey kill again e no sha good to get am @ all. Ashewo husband is enuf reason to live too. Pls women b wise. Do war room for him from a distance.
ReplyDeleteWise saying
DeleteTrue talk
DeleteIf he is physically or Verbally abusive, ladies, please run run run,and never look back.Abuse na Abuse.Rip Ronke.
ReplyDeleteSo sad
ReplyDeleteMay God save us from End time husbands. Rip ma'am.
ReplyDeleteAmen o
DeleteRIP to the death
ReplyDeleteFaints!!!!!!!
DeleteKikiki just correct her @ real nutty...Imma it is "rest in peace to the dead"
DeleteJesu o, Imma Gold repeat after me 3times dead..
DeleteThis just too sad. I wish my friend will just learn from this. Her husband despite having a child outside beat her and still go sleep outside with the baby mama. Why suffering,when you can just talk a walk. Do you know where he wAs last night? A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteDiabetic violence will still thrive as long as we live in a very judgemental and hypocritical society....fr whatever reason life is lost.verbal n emotional abuse leads to depression...lots of people are suffering in silence and dnt knw d ryt people to talk to..God help us all..
ReplyDeleteDiabetic violence will still thrive as long as we live in a very judgemental and hypocritical society....fr whatever reason life is lost.verbal n emotional abuse leads to depression...lots of people are suffering in silence and dnt knw d ryt people to talk to..God help us all..
ReplyDeleteMarriage isn't for better for worse...Eff what the pastor said, eff the oath, Eff 'em all! It is a do or die affair. If you find yourself crying more than smiling in a marriage, nwanne turu udu...pick race n go find yourself happiness.we live everyday and die once!
ReplyDeleteHmnn. Speechless.
ReplyDeleteWhat!
ReplyDeletestella,ur post on me almost destroyed my self esteem 3yrs back,my in laws said I paid bloggers to put the story up on the net......I left and never went bak...it wld av bin stories that touch the heart you know,cos even my medical report stil calls for check up till date..i almost died...#saynotodomesticviolence...#iamasurvivalvictimofdomesticviolence
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