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Saturday, August 18, 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

Oh My Goodness!





STAND ALONE NARRATIVE - RIGHT OF REPLY

RE -A CAN OF WORMS OPENED AFTER A BOASTFUL RANT

Read Yesterday's Chronicle if you missed it.


Stella, This is the wife's sister, she is here but she is distraught and can't type. She told me to help her post. She knew her husband would bring the matter here because they are both regular visitors and hope you help save her marriage for she admit her wrong but now she is a changed person.

First her husband wasn't being honest saying someone texted him for the truth is out now, our step-sister did, we are from a polygamous home. seemed he was trying to protect her image but we found out already.

Stella truth be told the man is one of a kind, a good Christian, provider and faithful to a fault, very handsome too and for those saying he isn't good in bed, well she said otherwise.

Now the problem is larger than he revealed.

First sister lied to him she was a virgin for the three years they courted their first time together he saw her period blood and thought it was the other "blood",. He just realised after all these years that she wasn't a virgin then.

Some days after she came to visit before they moved to his state (the wedding was done in our state) that time she met one of her exes i dont know maybe it was a farewell moment but they did it. Yes before marriage she slept with a lot of guys in the neighbourhood and even did a few abortions( there's no point denying anymore for step sister already revealed it all) some even came to the wedding and am sure their picture may be in some wedding albums.

Stella all these is what is making him angry, the virginity lies, fake blood stain, sexual past,cheating in their first few days of marriage and to the main issue they did the test so he didnt jump into conclusion.


The truth however is that she is not the same person anymore Stella, i see how she has given her life to Christ ever since he came into her life. Her husband's love and godly ways touched and changed her and she has turned a new leaf. Please Sir forgive, we have no right to ask this of you but please she's sorry. Stella she never cheated since then except that day she came to see us before travelling to a new state. We know this because after they left she changed her number saying she wanted to start afresh but we fidnt understand what she meant then.

She has sworn apologised done everything, Sir please forgive, you have the right not to but please...




*WOW...this is a lot for a man to swallow all at once...
Maybe you should give him some time to swallow all of this and find space in his heart to forgive her...I am sure he will,judging from all the nice things you decorated him with...As for the Step sister,i dont know why she did what she did but may someone else open her can of worms to someone who really matters....wicked sheediot!!!

Dear Sir,let God minister to your heart...Take whatever decision gives you peace of mind.

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    1. Real gobe..
      The guy marry active ashawo
      which one chance pass this one?

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    2. person get to shine eye before marriage oh, ask question about that person... Are u telling me he didnt pray about his marriage? or God brought him this helper... a spirikoko guy, na wa o. i feel so sorry for him

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    3. Please, let's not forget the child in question. Oga do the needful as no one knows how hurt you are but the child is innocent. Don't let him/her suffer for this. You're the only father he/she knows. Try not to change the relationship you have as father-child.

      If you can, forgive. If you can't, let her go. Love your other children nevertheless and don't transfer your again or pain on them. God will give you the wisdom and strength you need.

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    4. I'm not even touched by this story
      The man never jam
      This is what guys want, a girl that when they're dating will be forming saint
      You wanted a virgin and you got one,I'm sure you left good girls who didn't fuck their neighborhood and invite them to eat your wedding rice because they were not virgins.
      I'm sure you were here insulting women chronicles that have only two men because you thought you married a virgin
      You are like those busy body women that insult young girls in their street for wearing ripped jeans but their daughters are taking down the whole street in their house.

      Please stay with her oh and forgive after all women marry as virgins and still get herpes and HIV from their husbands


      Side note......lesson that body count does not expand vagina walls

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    5. All runs girls should learn a lesson from this

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    6. 16:56, are you alright in the head?, do you know this man at all or you are just spewing gibberish.


      If not for the fact the man said that was his first girlfriend I would have said he left You for her.
      You are so pained that am wondering who did your life like this. Did you read the first part at all. Did she paste virginity on her head and that prompted him to approach her?.

      I think I know who this is, you went into anon mode to spew your venom, sister continue. Tueh!!!

      Uncle and sister chronicle , i honestly don't know what to say but may God be your succour.

      Every mallam with his kettle

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    7. @Anon 15:28, This praying thing reminds me of a testimony shared by my roommate. On how a pastor's wife met a lady who does the night parole and has lost count of the number of men. She was converted, of course, and stayed without a man for 3 years, a nice brother came from the USA in search of a wife. And guess who was recommended? Well, she joined him in the U.S and the nice brother called the pastor and wife thanking them on the phone for giving him a virgin, the wife bled and she was just dumbfounded, crying and all.
      So praise thy lord, somebody!

      I was in shock the whole time.

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  2. The wife might be among the people that do say karma is not real, but guess what? It's very REAL and it comes in different ways.

    If the man can forgive her he should please do and if he can't, let them divorce, she won't be the first or the last to be a divorcee




    *Larry was here*

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    1. If she had confessed to her the man earlier on,
      all these would have been averted!
      She lied that was all!!
      Lies destroys life!
      Enough with the karma shit!
      She ruined her happy ending with lies!
      I will confess to my partner how much of a slut I was if I eventually change my mind and want to get married.
      She should stop begging the man and think of a way to move forward! The deed has already been done.
      Enough already!

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    2. Karma ko Marker ni. Someone deceived the other and you're here talking about Karma. Her lies have come out in the open that's all.

      As for the man, I believe time heals all wounds. I only pray that he is able to do the right thing for himself and his immediate family. What a mess!

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    3. Dear posters sister, I know you are trying to beg for brother inlaw but you sound very arrogant, like you are trying to justify it all, even if it was a min after her wedding... cheating is cheating, even if she was wearing just an engagement ring, the thing is that she slept with someone else, the virginity lie isn’t a big deal but dont try to say her sleeping around while being engaged to this man should be excused.
      Secondly, she knew or at least suspected the child wasn’t his, why wait all these years, after all investments have been made, I know it’s not easy confessing but now he will never believe her for keeping such a secret, all I ask mr man is to please have mercy on the kids, even the one that isn’t his cus they dint ask for this, come sef! Your sister even said she dint know the father, does that mean she had more than one “good bye” sex with different men? And pls stop dragging your step sister cus at the end of the day your sisters hand no pure

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    4. PUSH UP!!
      Thank you oh, i even forgot that part.. she doesnt know the father, that means she gave goodbye fuck to the entire neighbourhood.... na wa o, her own no just good.
      Make she de go.

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    5. THE Husband Must HAVE BEEN A SERIOUS S.U.
      God knows how much your wife go don yab you for your back for believing she was a virgin. I'm sure that how her step sister heard. They took you for a fool

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    6. I am going through almost the same thing tooo.

      My wife slept with my friend on our wedding eve.
      I don't know how many of my colleagues and friends she has fucked after our wedding. Some confessed to me.
      She lost her first pregnancy after we got married. I suspected fowl play coz I told her the baby wasn't mind and that I will carryout DNA test after she put to bed.
      She aborted the second pregnancy secretly not knowing her friend told me.
      She is pregnant again but this time I am forming good husband. When she put to bed I go do DNA test ooo.

      I can't go and cum and kill myself

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    7. Stella ooo check comment 22:37, so many things is happening in this world ooo chai.

      It's now safe to admit both sexes cheat, but women voice it out more often while men keep silent about it hence why we fault men all the time not knowing women are not left out.

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    8. Na wah o. Things are really happening o .

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  3. hnnnn, it is well. but my own is how did d step sister know?

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    1. Only a spirikoko can enter this kind of one chance...

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    2. Do you know if he the step sister send this story in,see as the person expose her more,just thinking pool.

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    3. It might not even be the step sister. People will always find a scape goat. It might be one of the exes sef.

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    4. Exactly. The wife is even niave; how on earth should you tell someone this much about yourself? I can never, not even to my sister how much more step.

      Oga; I feel your pain but I can only plead with you to tamper justice with mercy. Take your time to think through this before taking any decision. Ask yourself if it was in the known of only you and your wife; will you want to divorce? Are you thinking of divorce because of the shame? And remember it's only you and your wife that matter in this situation. Not what a third party thinks.

      I wish you well.

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  4. She could have just come out clean especially when she knew she was going to make him claim another man’s child as his. The way you put it you’re making it sound like she did all those things because she had no choice “cheating in their few days of marriage” Deception is unfair to anyone and if this was the other way round everyone would be asking for the man’s head. It’s now left for the man to decide if he is willing to let this go or not and just because someone has asked for forgiveness doesn’t mean things must go back to the way they were. The man is all these things and more yet she continued cheating to the point she got pregnant, no haba it’s too much. He is good in bed but she kept sleeping around, even as he catered to her every need. She is sober now because someone outed her, if she had truly turned a new leaf she should have been the one to tell him rather than letting him believe all these lies. It’s a hard one and I feel sorry for the man, no one deserves to be treated that way.

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    1. ..not just few days of marriage, im sure it happened steady, that made the step sister angry and blew whistle.... she wasnt even discreet about it, if not tell me how the step sister will know! shes a prostitute.... the guy enter one chanxe

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  5. Meaning her first child is his? Why would she go and sleep with another man after her marriage?? Your sister is a cheat!

    Oga just do whatever that will make you sleep well at night. If you choose to forgive, make sure you do not suffocate anybody in sleep.

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    1. Fan Emmanuel, the man said the first child(daughter) is not his both the other are his.

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  6. Eeyah


    GOD Please intervene

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  7. Sister you are here preaching forgiveness. do you think its easy? do you even have an idea how this man is feeling right now? I dont even know what to say. you are here telling him to forgive. its not that easy to forgive o. it's not easy at all. it will be very hard for this man to trust people again especially women. this is just too much. to think that the woman's family know about all these but they kept it to themselves. there is nothing hidden under the sun. if he was a poor man now, we for hear. abeg the woman is a lier and a bloody prostitute. the man even tried sef. if it were some men, they will just break her head

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    1. This is too much to bear.this guy no be jesus Christ. So una be anonymous we dey come under anonymous post come confess say una husband dey train pikin wey no be e own??? My dear karma is a bitch. This life is run by a principle and nothing is hidden under the sun forever. So if the person no expose her your promiscuous sister for no talk. Tufiakwa. People pray and open your eyes before you say I DO""". Know the person well.

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  8. When the foundation is destroyed, what can the righteous do ?

    She lied about her virginity, she had sex with a lot of guys in the neighborhood before marriage, she did with an ex or a couple of ex after marriage and now she is a "born again" abi?

    So pls poster, what do u want from the man? He should kill himself abi? U already confirmed the first child isn't his.

    So he should forgive and train another "sperm donor's" child in this complicated continent Africa?

    Pls Let the man heal by himself abeg before u all push him to grave.

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    1. I pity people that says they are born again and keep deceiving themselves that they are deceiving people.

      Shame on born again who are still cheating, stealing etc. idiotic people who can never tell you the truth.

      Oga it is hard. You can forgive and can never forget because that will be deceiving.

      Just divorce her and let her go. Both of you should stop disturbing us with this born again stuff.

      Everybody is a suspect until proven. That is what I will say

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    2. You just called someone idiot , are you ok ? So much for a born again like you.

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    3. The wife said she doesn’t know who the child’s father is. So the sister’s story isn’t entirely true. She didn’t just sleep with one ex

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  9. changed person my ass. that woman can never change. thank God she didn't even connive with one of her ex to kill the husband. tueh.....

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    1. person wey conquer full neighbourhood fit change?
      If my brother 4give this kind woman n take her back, i don buy rat poison for her next week.

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  10. About the step sister yeah she revealed the secret but who wouldn't want to know if you were the one taken for abi on a ride? Time does heal wounds. You guys hands off and let the guy take whatever decision he wants to take. She has repented but if a broken marriage is her retribution, she should deal with it. Nobody can fault the man if he refuses to forget. The lady in question went all out in her deceit. This God is merciful sha. After everything you repent and you are brand new. The thing is the man is a man not God. All the best to all involved.

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  11. That marriage was built on lies!!!!
    Very shaky foundation, no matter how beautiful u design & paint the building, its bound to come down like a deck of cards, your sister deceived the guy, made him believe hook line and eventually sunk his ship, & hes not even xperienced, he'd have known she wasnt a virgin.. thats the shit about secrets, most of them dont decay properly when buried, they germinate & grow out with thorns to pierce out ass, not even Victoria secrets, someone with a decent shovel will dig it up someday! Its just disheartening.
    She doesnt deserve that guy one bit, he married an impostor...
    Even in an organization/company, if ure hired based on ur merits & later found out to be faked certificates & credentials, you'd be terminated, regardless of how good you get your job done! Well, thats up to the man, he alone know the burden & 1000 knives he feels in his heart right now.... not to mention, the entire street has heard, tongues will so wag, this kind gossip de spread fast pass wild fire, cus e sweet. Let him breathe and settle b4 u start choking him with apologies piled up to the ceiling..
    PS i doubt she can change her ways! Shes not a decent person.

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    1. You have not told a single lie! The foundation is a nonsense foundation. Even if they will be together, they better divorce, start dating again and then get married.
      I don't know if I would want to stay married to someone who told me so many major lies

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    2. Shes a Liar, a cheat, deceiver, abortion candidate, making gim train another mans child.... and they say forgive, even when No more Trust has joined that list. Abeg make she go her father house

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    3. Would your advice be the same if the reverse was the case?

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  12. it's hard. it's really hard to forgive after trusting someone so much you then find out all that.
    It is well. We all have a past, some people with messier ones than others.

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  13. He shouldnt 4give her.. that marriage don end! She has changed, ofcourse you'd vouch for ur sister.... married woman still chopping outside. tueh
    Her lose!!!!

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  14. Na wa oh. It is well.
    Oga forgive. If its ur wife now she will be forced to forgive oh. And still take care of the child you had outside so forgive.
    To err is human to forgive oh so divine.
    Every one is saying you are a a christian so don't miss heaven just because of unforgiveness. Ask Jesus to help you take the pain away. It won't be easy I can assure you . But it's possible.

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    1. Bianca, e easy for your mouth abi?
      Imagine if its your brother... will this be your comment??

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  15. The children. Everyone has forgotten about the children. Mr man no matter what you have against your wife don’t take it out on any of the children. Even the one you’ve loved and trained as your own for ten years. From experience love all of them and provide for all of them until they are of age. You won’t regret it.

    This same issue tore my family apart because my dad refused to provide for our first sister at the age of 8. She was always from one home to the other because her real dad was unknown. She suffered abuse and rejection. Today our house is on serious fire and he regrets his actions. My sister passed away last year from depression and we all can’t stop blaming and hating ourselves for punishing an innocent child for the sins of her mother. God will bless you for doing the right thing.

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    1. Chai. This spoilt my mood. May she rest well where there are no sorrows nor rejection.

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    2. You made a lot of sense here. It will be heartless to deny the particular child any of the rights of being a daughter she enjoys now because someone texted. That girl does not know any other dad but you. Will you deny her, will you be able to forgive yourself?
      And the other kids should not know about any drama playing out currently.

      And if they say they are "Christians", they should forgive the step sister that spilled.

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  16. Oga I know is hard to forgive and forget mana aga m ekwukwanu gini... so biko forgive and forget .

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  17. Evil step sister . That’s why they want to spoil Meghan marriage. End time family members .Better do ur shit with outsiders than family members . Oga sorry sir pls remember 70 times seven forgiveness . Even we human as evil as we are GOD is still merciful. Please I beg you sir think about what JESUS would do in this situation. No one is without sin . This is not to say I am taking sides but since she is repentant please forgive . I know you can’t forget but JESUS paid it all for us and still forgiving us our sins. Please shame that stupid step sister . Jealous step sister. Please sir Biko nu, ma binu, nago agba, sorry , forgive please. God does not count our sins against us if we confess with a genuine heart . Ejoor sir . I pray the Holy Spirit give you peace of mind as you read this . Peace be still. Amen

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    1. Karma must use person na.... dont hate the step sister! What goes around sure damn comes around.... there are always consequences for our actions, sooner or later!
      She might have saved he guy from HIV loading....

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  18. She was very deceptive
    Why all the lies about being a virgin and was even actively sleeping with other men when she was engaged .
    I beg Ashawo no dey retire na just break e dey take
    Anyway the hubby is the one wearing the shoes.He needs to give himself sometime and think carefully to make the right decision.

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    1. Abi oh, ashawo wey marry na vacation she go...

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    2. 🤣🤣🤣 fack you all and your Proverbs... I don laff piss for body...
      Ashewo wey marry, na vacation she go 🤣🤣🤣

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  19. This is what happen when you don't marry your kind. How can u be a Christian and marry a woman that have so much baggages .as a good Christian did u pray sir??? This lady is worst than a prostitute or maybe she was a former runs girl. She used u!! She used the fact u were too nice and gentle. We live in the world were good men don't seem to get good women and we good women don't get good men.
    Ma how can u treat a good man like this??? Even during courting u keep sleeping around becos he could not give u sex so since u were sexually active u kept sleeping and aborting around. If you were really a changed person like your step sis claim y not confess since about this child??? You are changed and it was another person that get to exposed you to your husband???? You are changed person u sleep and eat with a man knowing the child is not his???.
    Stella this man need to take a break pls!! This is more than just ""WE ARE SORRY SIR""allow him to heal emotionally and psychologically. He is not God that forgive us despite our sin! He is only human biko. Allow him to heal, pray and decide.
    Sir please! Find a way to forgive and love your kids again. I know is not easy but is time to really tell and show the devil that you can over come this storm and u won't allow him win.
    God bless!.

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    1. please allow devil to rest, devil hand de clean most times... thats her lifestyle & she didnt drop it after being married, u de call devil.
      She destroyed her home herself with her itchy punani... she should go back to the streets n keep fucking

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  20. What do you mean by ....."her husband wasn't being honest saying someone texted him for the tru........" yada yada oshisco united.
    It's your family that wasn't honest from the get-go.
    Please you people should give the man space. He needs a lot of space to deal with these shit. It's too much to digest at once.
    Give him some frigging space!!!
    Jeez!

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  21. Oturugbeke!!!!!
    Faithful man wey others dey find...
    The husband should please drink chilled water to calm down and make wise decisions.
    This kind matter no easy to forgive n forget easily especially when you know u've been faithful.

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    1. very annoying Mhiz adorable.
      Person keep prick for wife alone, endure konji till wedding night, only to carry am give one ashawo, and theyre saying forgive and forget like say she stain his favorite shirt.

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  22. You sister lie too much. Even if this man forgive her. The trust for her is forever damaged .hmm mm too bad

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  23. She was very deceptive
    Why all the lies about being a virgin and was even actively sleeping with other men when she was engaged .
    I beg Ashawo no dey retire na just break e dey take
    Anyway the hubby is the one wearing the shoes.He needs to give himself sometime and think carefully to make the right decision.

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  24. He could forgive her but i doubt if things would really get back to being the way it used to be. He would always remember her betrayal and lies. He could forgive...i really want him to but question is can he forget? that is tge determining factor in whether they get back together or not.

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  25. This is serious, oga please forgive.

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  26. Madam only you abort!! Sleep round with neighbouroods! ! Fake virginity!! Carry another man child give husband. Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa e Le gidi gan.e remain for you to kill. Chai .Stella we have no choice to than make we all beg oga.we hv to beg. Oga pls hv mercy. We know say u no be God but hv mercy. Pls☺

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  27. Madam step sisterno be only beg we go beg ooo. Make this man no go commit suicide ooo. Godforbid not his portion but he really need to heal.talk to your pastor or an elder that can take him out. This one no be just we are sorry sir. This is deep

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  28. Yes. He will forgive for his peace of mind but won't forget. Make your sis go answer her papa name. Someone that cheat after marriage is what?
    Family of retired cum active prostitutes. If it were your bro,will you advice him to accept the woman back? Disgusting chronicle. Tueh!

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    1. Thank you Shantelle

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    2. All I see is the wicked step sister. So on her dying bed she revealed all her sisters secrets. Na wa o some people sha

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    3. Nothing wrong with what the step sis did. May someone not see you sinking and keep shut.

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  29. Chai that moment your neighbours attend your wedding and they have all eaten your wife and leave ajeku for you. Oga if you are reading this pls take all the wedding pics! Look at the child and u go see who e resemble there. Cheapest DNA. The father is close to you there.

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  30. Only a contender for the biggest fool in all the galaxies will forgive and accept this trash woman back!
    Forgive; maybe yes.....but
    Accept; hell to the naaaaaahhhhhhh!!!

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  31. Hnmmmmmm! Oga dis is deep, I pray the holy Spirit ministers to you on what to do! It is well!

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  32. But do I really pity some of these men? When you show them who you are they run and stay pointing fingers. They prefer women who pretend to be what they are not, and thats a FACT.
    Poster, your BIL and sister arent the only ones in this type-a-situation. I know how many wedding pictures I see and laugh cos if the men know the girls they are marrying, they will prefer to have a quiet wedding. Years later, see gobe go enter.
    Abeg, at this point oga should be allowed to do what he wants. She should have been honest from the start that she wasnt a virgin. This is so unfair but I repeat that Nigerian men like women that pretend and alot of Nigerian women know this trick.

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    1. Men only want love when it’s torture!!

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    2. The man wanted a virgin na 😂😂😂 he better forgive as a Christian that he is naa

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  33. OMG
    Mehn, this is so messy
    Why lie to the one you wanna spend forever with
    I pray God heal the man.....this is too much to bear

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  34. This is messy..my goodness.!
    Thing is, men hardly forgives a woman who cheats. Yes she has turned a new leaf & I pray god heals their hearts. It may take time, a long time..but healing is a process. She needs to forgive herself too & prepare for whatever comes out of this.

    The step sister was most likely jealous this woman has it all. That's what happens when you come from a polygamous home..jealousy & strife are inherent.

    May God heal all wounded souls...Amen!

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    1. The woman didn't have it all! All she had was, deception etc.

      The sister did the right thing.

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  35. My God this is much for one man to handle,sir i beg you to forgive your wife if truly she haa changed,imagine its the other way round,it could have been you..pls forgive her ,theres nobody above mistake eventhough this mistake is much but then again nobody is totally perfect.i plead with you on her behalf and on behalf of your kids and life together pls forgive her,with all her mistakes i am sure there would b a little good in her, its so painfil you found out the way you did but forgive as a good christain ,it might take you time to heal but it would come because you are a good man according to how they described you and good men are hard to find..p.s:Don't let this destroy you, always be the good man that you are

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  36. That is why is good to alway think about the future and not just the present in whatever you are doing

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  37. This man need a lot of space like the distance from Abuja to Otuoke. Pushing to forgive now might make him a murderer. If that woman come to him now, he may strangle her. Pls keep your adulterous sister away from him for now and leave your step sister alone. Karma

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  38. Hmmmm..this issue is just somehow and I don't think preaching forgiveness should be the next step now cuz sincerely,it's not easy.....


    For now,,just allow the man be,he will decide on what to do..if you like preach forgiveness or divorce...Na weeing dey guy man mind him go do.



    Hmm..I have a lot to type but that will be on sp tomorrow....ogaoooooo



    Esu leyan

    Eyan lesu




    Mc pinky

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  39. Hmmm, the 1st and only weed I smoked was when I found myself in exact situation. Oga u can't forgive and forget this even in a million years. For your sanity,let her go.life is too short to bear this.she is remorseful now cos u found out.she was still screwing those guys ever since.

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    1. Sorry about ur xperience Oga!
      If he takes her back he will wake up one morning with a strong urge to kill her.. she has shattered him emotionally, plus the ridicule in the area! The marriage was a scam!
      God don open him eyes.

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  40. Everyone deserves a fresh start ,u both need that but not with each other let her go and move on cuz when trust is broken it cannot be fixed

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  41. Hmm...

    This really is a tough one. Sir, you need to take a break in order to clear your head a little. This is disheartening seeing you were faithful to her.

    Whatever your decision is, please DO NOT carry out this rage on ANY of the children. Move closer to God Now and let Him help you handle this matter wisely. Cry if you have to, be open to God on how terrible you feel. On no account should you feel REGRET for staying true to the vow you made to be faithful. You don't have to take her back but PLEASE FORGIVE all her wrongs, just assume she didn't know better all those years of being charitable with the body God gave her.
    Afterwards, do your best to love the kids equally please. It's hard but doable.

    For the lies, forgive her and move on with your life if that's what you eventually decide on.

    May God release upon you the grace to make the wisest of decisions in Jesus' name.


    This is a lesson to everyone to act wisely now irrespective of what you're faced with presently because you never know what's waiting ahead.

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  42. Who knows if this is the Christain husband's test. The wife was not a saint and all her past live has come back to find her. Oga take time to figure this journey out with wisdom.


    What do you do when bad things happen to good people - Hmm


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  43. If the roles were reversed, men would be scum.

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    1. Thank you ooo. They still found a way to put the blame on the man saying men want women that pretend so he asked for it.

      Like they forgot he married a woman irrespective of status, looks etc. Because he only wants a happy home. They said he wanted a virgin like she pasted virginity on her head when he approached her.

      I tire for them.

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  44. This man should move on with his life if he knows he won’t be able to deal with living with her and the child that isn’t his.

    We are all human at the end of the day, I honestly don’t know if I will be able to live with seeing evidence of my husband’s betrayal in my house everyday.

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  45. Oga have you watched war room?
    I say watch war room.
    How is your prayer life?
    You need to pray fervently against the machinations of the Devil.
    Oh yes. Marriage is for better or worse.
    As the head it is your response to steer your home aright.
    Don't give them devil a footstool.
    Pray!!!
    Gbadura!!!!!!

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    1. Thank u my sister! U captured my thoughts perfectly!

      Oga forgive oh! Take d child as ur own. After all, she already calls u daddy n knows no other father.

      Look good all d time. Do midnight prayer. Don't let third party destroy ur home.

      U people know how to force "forgiveness pill" on women. Oga now na ya turn. Swallow forgiveness pill ko to keep your home

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    2. Your response about watching "war room" is stupid. I know you are trying to prove a point that when men cheat, this is the advice their wife gets when they ask for advice online.

      What you all fail to acknowledge is that...it's other women, just like you...that give the advice of watching war room to those women.

      Women badmouthing other women and then trying to put the blame on men...smh

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  46. Why do I have a feeling the step sister sent this? Like the woman didn't get enough insult, so she
    decided to add more dirt. I don't believe the girls sister sent this. Whoever sent this didn't want it to be obvious, so added that last paragraph to make it sound like she cares.She just want to make the guy more angry

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    1. Gbammest!! Whoever sent this is a sneaky shaky Soul 😂

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    2. Exactly! THE person that wrote this is the person that sent the message to her husband.
      The person wants you poster! Shine your eyes well. Someone that can write all this all about her own sister wants her marriage to break irrevocably so she comes in.
      Poster all this happened within the first year of your marriage please let this go. Punish her but trust me another woman will hide herself much better.Ask yourself if truly you love this woman deep down if yes forgive her completely and put the devil to shame.

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  47. Your sister is a bloody prostitute and a very useless one at that. she's free to continue sleeping around. Oga listen to me do not accept this woman back. #Spotremover#

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  48. this is serious o...
    my story Is similar to this in a way, maybe I'd find strength to type someday

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  49. Hmmmmm am reading comments oooo

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  50. For those with secrets " only you should take to the grave " it's time to re-examine your stance.

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  51. Oga, remember you are a child of God!! Remember the story of Hosea and what God had put as his test!!! This maybe yours... do not lose sight of Who God is in your life and what He would want you to do following the example of Jesus. He lives us when we were most unlovable. He forgive Mary Magdalene, a know prostitute. She will be loyal forever if you let the love of Christ shine through at a time like this. It will be tough but you might end up having the best marriage ever, if you weather this storm...

    Most importantly, the kids! That girl is your daughter! So not let her fee otherwise. And do not seek to know who the father is. That child Ian yours. Even legally, any child born during the aubsistence is a marriage is a product of that union. Make her your Adiaha in everything. You will never regret it in your old age. Don’t let her know what’s happening now.

    Finally, all these family interference, so away with it. Do not be vulnerable before them. End all discussions and speculations. Seek a counselor (not a religious one)

    Madam, you have your whole life ahead to make amends for this mess! I believe if you exhibit great Christian qualities, your husband can even testify of your behavior from the years past (apart from the incidents early in the marriage) give him time to heal...and be ready to do the work to heal your home!

    Love can still conquer all. True love. God’s love!

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    1. Your head dey there! Oga - this is one of the wise comments.

      That child knows no other father but u. She calls u father!

      Forgive! Don't let d devil destroy your home. Your friends have worse secrets but u don't know cos it is swept under d carpet n dealt only within their four walls. Then they will come to u n say "If it were me eh...." Na lie oh! DVR hiding their own nbfanning d flames in ur home.

      Don't let family and friends interference destroy ur home...

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  52. I cant even talk again. I have opened my mouth since the begining of these chronicles yesterday. For once, I am short of words and advice. This is the height of deception and betrayal. But the wife must be ready to face the consequences. For whatsoever a man sows, that he must reap. God forgave David for sleeping with Bathsheba and killing her husband. But the child died. And the sword never left David's house. That is the aftertaste of forgiven sin. So wifey, you will bear the aftertaste of your escapades. It is a lesson for all those who are living recklessly thinking you can get away with it. Somehow somewhere it will catch up with you. I feel so so sorry for this man. And for the unfortunate children caught in this web. What becomes of the girl who enjoyed security thinking this is her dad? Oh dear. I just cannot imagine. The things that we women do....

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  53. When I thought I have read it all on SDK blog, I didn't know I was just getting started!

    Some comments here are so annoying. Look at them trying to blame the man for keeping himself and going for the woman that he thought was best for him.

    That woman was a prostitute, a liar, a cheat and very deceptive. She knew all along that the first child is not for her husband and she kept mum. Now, she's claiming to be a changed woman.
    If truly she was/is a changed woman, why didn't she opened up to her husband..... Why wait for her sister to let the cat out before coming with her crocodile tears.
    She asked for the music, she should dance to the beat.
    How evil and deceptive some women are. Going to give a farewell fuck to your ex and male neighbours after saying I do.
    This chronicles really touched my heart.

    The thing I can say to the man is to stay put for the kids, yes, all the kids and also keep it a secret from them, until they are grown enough to understand what happened.
    The man needs all the space in the world to think about his life and also speak to God to direct his steps and moves.

    She is sobered now because, her husband finally got to find out about her numerous atrocities..

    The step sister did the right thing by coming out clean. Who knows how many people she must have boasted to that she has her husband in her Palm and that her husband is training a child that isn't his.

    She should also try to do a remembrance check in her head to see if she can find her daughter biological father.
    Yes, the child deserves to know who her biological father truly is.

    In all of these the child is innocent!

    This is to our Young ladies, be careful what you engage your body into now, tomorrow might be too late... learn to Take responsibility for your actions now, don't do things because others are doing it or because it's in vogue.
    Do the things that when you look back, you will smile and praise God and then, give yourself some accolades.

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  54. If she saw blood on her wedding day,that means she was on her period and couldn't have been pregnant before the wedding,so it was after the wedding she went back to share pussy and got pregnant?(perhaps I misunderstood the write up).Dear friend of wife,if this man was your brother,would you ask him to take his wife back? I'm sure she was still doing some waka after her marriage and wasn't discreet about it and that's why step sister blew whistle.This is why I tell people to marry within their caliber,this man stooped low to marry a woman who wasn't a graduate not knowing she had PHD in sexual activities + lies.May God almighty heal your heart at this critical period,please don't turn your back on your children.Scum has no gender

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  55. Ms.A., may God bless you in million ways Amen. Your comment is one of the sensible ones here. The virgin man in the first chronicle was mocked that he caused his issue for not going for a virgin woman when looking for a wife that if only he gotten someone with similar in sexual experience he would have been able to satisfy her and she wouldn't have the need to go outside.
    Now in this chronicle the same people are mocking him again saying he was looking for a virgin like HIMSELF. Like what was he suppose to look for?.

    I think they just want to insult the man for no reason or they pained someone like him never crossed their paths.

    They complain men cheat all the time, now they have seen one that is perfectly different but still castigating him for the sin of others who are responsible for all the accusations they throw around about men.

    One even said men are always looking for women who prefer to be gentle and leave the real ones. Like he said that was his first woman he ever asked out in his life so where in his chronicle did he leave one woman for the other.

    Trust me a guy who is extremely exposed the kind of men women are busy complaining about here on this blog are too smart to marry the kind of woman he married they marry decent women.
    For the poster are you sure you are the sister or step sister because the post is honestly somehow

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  56. All im going to reiterate as long as this issue is concerned is- Dear Man life just happened,the true test of your love, confession,faith, virtue and marriage just showed up. Who ever said it was going to be easy? But its a choice you must make. Either to forgive and carry on with your marriage and pass this test or dont forgive,pack up the marriage...head for another but hold on,this test,you see this test...must surly rear its head again,maybe with a variant format but you will definitely pass through Life's TEST. There's NO SHORT CUT!

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