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Saturday, January 21, 2023

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative..

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PATERNITY SCAM EXPLAINED

I read somewhere where a doctor talked about how Nigerian women are wicked by bringing home another man's child claiming it's their husband's, well so many things can push someone into doing things like that, some are unaware sef, example in my own case,

I met my husband (currently ex husband) in 2006 through a friend, we started dating in 2008 January 20th, we started cohabiting that same January, by May, his family had started troubling me for not getting pregnant, his mom came to my place a few times to humiliate me for not being pregnant.

 I was treated like some trash, I went to so many places trying to get pregnant to no avail, one day I had an issue with my then neighbour, she mocked me and called me barren, mind you that I had had a child in my mother's house before meeting this man.

 I got angry, the thing led to a fight, and after that, landlord said it's either we pack or I should be asked to leave the compound, this man supported the evil landlord and asked me to return to my family first.

 I left Port Harcourt to Onitsha, he never called nor did he check on me for months, na me still carry myself begin call his friends to beg him for me, he refused. one of his co-worker's wife asked me to come to their house in Warri, lover-geh, na so I rush go, I stayed in her house for weeks until she was able to reunite us again. This time he told me he won't take me back to that compound but I will be staying in his hotel room (cos company gives them hotel allowee ) there in Warri.

 I agreed, this man lodged me in his room and lodged another girl in the next room, the next morning, this girl and her friend came and gave me the beating of my life, and still left me there, Oga was apologising over the phone cos he had gone to work, later in the evening he came back, was still trying to explain how he was sleeping with me and the said girl the same night when that girl came again, this time I decided to see the end, I dealt with the girl and this man again disappeared on me.

 I went through hell, thank God for that him co-worker wife, indigenes for kill my enemy, I was taken back into the room, Oga sent money that again I should return to my father's house at Onitsha, I insisted I must see him before I leave, he sent his elder brother, that one called me a barren woman to my face, he said I was only squandering his money, money wey I no see.

 I left in tears and promised myself that I must move on and never look back, I went back to my parents, it was so much humiliation from my family but I bore it, and after some months, I didn't hear from him, I didn't reach out to him either.

I had this friend whom I always confide in, he was always there for me, one day he came and this shoulder i always lean on became a dick I rode on and the rest became history, this thing happened on a Wednesday and on Friday, my husband came with his people that he wants to marry me.

 After the introduction, he begged my father to allow me to return home with him to Warri, my Dad agreed, we got home that night and had reconciliation s#x, after some weeks, we had a misunderstanding and he beat me blue, black and pink and ran off as usual, I went to meet his dad in Benin, after explaining things to him, he told me that the reason he's always angry is because I was yet to conceive, I quickly told him that I was pregnant.....

 When I told papa that I was pregnant ( I knew I wasn't, but I wanted to save my home, why I was that desperate at such a tender age, I don't know, eating insults and disgrace as food), Papa said are you sure? (It wasn't like I have ever lied to Papa before ooo but because they have concluded in their heart that my enemy is barren, that's why Papa was doubting me) 

I said yes but deep down my heart was panting, he asked that his senior son's wife to take me to a clinic to run a test, when we got there, we explained why we were there to the female doctor, so she took me inside the bathroom to get my urine, while we were inside, I cried and begged the woman to save my home, to lie that I was pregnant, I explained my predicament to her and she promised to help me, but when she came out, she said ******* you're pregnant:

 I felt it was based on our plans, so I was calm but when she said, truly you're pregnant, I saw the excitement in her eyes, I collapsed on the floor, this was how I knew that I was pregnant, I had even forgotten about that one night stand , I thought it was my husband's:

After I had the child, I was placed on 6months of no s#x because of the injury I had during childbirth, he contracted an STD, after the treatment, he was asked to run a sperm count test, he did and the result showed he had zero sperm count.

 My world crashed that day, thank God I didn't go with my child, na there God for start to de punish me, he believed it was the Staphylococcus that killed the sperms cells but I sneaked back and asked the doctor, abeg can this person father a child? He said no that it's impossible, I asked him like when did this thing start, some months ago? He said no, that the thing looks really bad and its dated from years ago, I asked the doctor again, can he father a child like last year, he said no that it isn't possible.

Na that time, e dawn on me say water don pass garri, we did our traditional marriage 9 months after I had my child, paid dowry on that same day, but my conscience was killing me..

I lost every strength to keep managing the marriage, especially when the beating continued, he kuku pushed me out, I returned to my family, but he never found out that the child isn't his until I told him 2yrs ago, he felt betrayed, but I didn't intentionally bring home another man's child, and his family were not nice to me, their wickedness and hurtful words to me were enough to do anything to prove that I was not barren:

 I am not saying I did something right, but I didn't bring home another man's child on purpose, sometimes I wish I can sit him down and tell him this, but fear no go let me, cos I don't wanna die....

So, this is my story, sometimes we dont plan things but they happen...


*Hmmmm, understood and it is better that you told him that the child is not his own...
The situation you described up there is enough to make a woman go crazy...
I heard of someone who was married for long and no child, her friend advised her to go and test another man to see if she would get pregnant, she did and it hooked and she could not bring herself to take it out because she had been TTC for so long.. So she pinned the child on the man and all the insults from family and friends  stopped, she was celebrated and people even gave testimonies on her behalf.

The day she will be found out will be the biggest disgrace of her life.... it is definitely loading!

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    1. I’ve never understood why some nigerian girls are addicted to toxicity…such a chaotic situation…may the good lord heal whatever is broken in you and make you whole again. And if something doesn’t feel right pls run away from it. Don’t try to fix it or understand it or pamper just run…for your mental health and that of your children yet unborn.

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    2. 20:47
      Culturally bred low self esteem is the reason why

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  2. Na wa o, what a story, Some women are going through hell in term of ttc, may God open the womb of all those ttc.

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    1. Stella please run article on the reasons people marry, this story illustrates why selfish wickedness is distributed like confetti to the woman as she could give them (family) all what they were after

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    2. I heard one gist like that about a man and his wife. They were TTC for many years after too much accusation from the man’s family the woman went for test doctor said you are fine madam try and convince your husband to come. Husband finally went and sperm count was zero zilch.
      Husband begged wife in secret but when his family comes harassing the woman, he will not say anything. The man actually started having an affair and when the girl came claiming she was pregnant for him, the mumu man kept quiet and accepted. Ahhh his family had more reasons to harass the wife. He even went as far as marrying the girl. She was shocked since she and the husband know how far. When she got tired of the harassment and insults she decided to play away match and ofcos she got pregnant. She announced to family that it has finally happened.
      Husband couldn’t say anything without exposing himself. So he had to shut his beak and accept it. He and his wife knew the through of course

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  3. I feel what you went through from here. I can’t believe people still think getting pregnant before marriage determines your fertility. I’m glad you told the truth atleast your conscience will rest now. Pinning another man’s child to someone else is what I’ll never do. Make God help person not to enter this kind big wahala. Stella God help your friend oo!

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  4. Some of you love to be treated like TRASH.

    Sluttychic.

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    1. Honestly. I stopped reading at the point of girl beating her in hotel. I’m like who has time for this nonsense. 🖐️ Anybody that stays after the first maltreatment deserves everything they get after the fact.

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    2. As in

      Which Kain suffer head be this?

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    3. Some people are actually ẹran iya, imagine such nonsense and ingredients on top nothing




      *Larry was here*

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    4. The suppos3d man must have been an oil worker that's why there are so many desperate girls on him. Na wa o but poster you tried o. Family treated you like that without marriage and you still married the man. Women pls let us value ourselves, money isn't everything

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    5. Double wàhálà for dead body..no love, no money, nothing was worth the trouble.

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    6. Proper suffer head. What is this mehnnnn

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    7. Asinn nn I don't feel an iota of pity for this poster, how on earth can you allow yourself be treated like trash? Ahan! Too much was disgusted while reading this trashy story

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    8. Poster go and read on building self esteem

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  5. It is well oooo. Alot of women gone through alot because of ttc.

    May God give the courage to walk out of abusive marriages. Amen

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  6. How can someone not have self-respect? You don't work or contribute meaningfully to the relationship. Your relationship with the man was just sex and violence. Stories like this make me not want to have a girl child.

    And what sort of family pressures a lady who isn't legally married to their son to get pregnant? Strange things are happening.

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    1. They probably suspected their son couldn’t conceive a child

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  7. And the Chronicle of the month goes to......

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  8. I'm shocked 😲 at your predicament.. Your family no try for you. They shouldn't have allowed you to marry that man.

    You were so naive and desperate for a husband.. Thank God that you are free. Take care of your child and make sure you get something doing to keep you busy.

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    1. She wouldn't have listened to her family members then, the best way to treat such children is to gladly release them to the third leg they crave for.
      Poster, I'm happy you're taking responsibility for your action.

      Felicity

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    2. Felicity she has a crappy family. See this part

      I went back to my parents, it was so much humiliation from my family but I bore it

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    3. Her family was focused on his money

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  9. After all the humiliation and beating you still agreed to marry him. Suffer no Dey taya you?

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  10. Wow, yes of course there is always a story behind everything.
    It is well with you poster.

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  11. A shoulder to ride on became a dick to lean on abi na how she talk am. OP what of the true father of your child? You didn't mention when you informed him. Your child needs to know who his father is.
    I see nothing worth condemning you for. Your husband is too toxic to be with. Move on.
    But for crying out loud, who sleeps with someone for the first time without protection?

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  12. What kind of desperation is this madam all in the name of marriage

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  13. You are still at fault o
    You are not supposed to continue with that guy.While you were being accused of not getting pregnant both of you should have gone for tests before you found the shoulder and d*ck. If you had gone for the tests both of you would have known that he's impotent.

    And why did you want to be with someone that treats you the way you explained up there? Na wa .

    You should have been a single mother and plan your life from there.

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  14. Thank God for your life Poster, but you hear am o.
    The annoying thing with these type of men is that they know they cannot father children but will not admit it.

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    1. Very true! My Brother In law was the exact same....abused my sister for years...continous cheating for years, his mum (that knew that HE and his BROTHER can never give birth) kept abusing my sister, calling her baren, giving her different concortion to drink by force...chai, looking back then ehn ...my sister really suffered in that Magodo! This her husband is a Big prominent man with cars...but was only giving my Sis N40k for household warefare....when my sister couln't take it anymore, she had to start up her nursing profession again to become mentaly stable. Still, my Brother in law and en family was always stressing my sister, abusing her, he will beat her, he even used a gun to threathen her one time like that...omo..proper shege. Na so one day, I tell my sister say na US ooo...make she just go there go hide small, she listened, now she's earning $5k/week as a resident nurse in one of the biggest prison in the US....she don get her green card, its been 5 years since she left Nigeria, I really give God the Glory. Her husband cant enter US, they banned him....so he is all soft now with her, lolll. I know my Sister wants a family, but she is the happiest I have seen her since she left that yeeye man for naija..make the idiot dey fuck all those small small girls dey go, na still depression go kill am...weere. But all in all, I have forgiven him lolll

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    2. imagine...i hope she has divorced him?

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  15. This poster has a penchant for suffering. Like she enjoys fights and generally rough and demeaning conditions. What a pity.

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  16. You’re a nonsense person with no iota of self respect or esteem.
    Mtchewww, a man treated you like this and you still agreed to marry him .

    Gerrahere

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  17. What kind of children would you expect this poster to raise?

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  18. Hmmmmm is good you told him the child isn't his, The mistake you made was going back to the man after all he has been doing to you.

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  19. You didn't kill anyone but did what was best for you to save your name.

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    1. Which name ?
      She is pathetic!
      Begging nurse to lie that she is pregnant.
      On top person wey dey give her problems ,beatings.
      If she had left him she will be better off.
      Her story is irritating.

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  20. Omo poster you Don see shege banza in the hands of this your so called husband oo

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  21. poster i hope you are working on your self esteem? you must stay away from abusive men.

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