STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
A STORY TO LEARN FROM
Happy New Year Dear Stella
I am in the car shaking in tears...my bones are rattling
A young lady at work, very bright, super smart ended up getting married to a guy i silently disapproved of, I enquired a lot from her but she seemed love struck.
Few months after the wedding, she started reporting sick, it was getting too rampant that she would be away for about a week or 2 before resuming.
Her husband traveled from May to August last year and during that period, she didn't report sick. That was when my antenna stood, I knew something was wrong as she called in sick again and again and Since november till 3rd January, she'd been on admission, I visited and kept begging for her to open up to me.
Stella! Her anXs has been destroyed, the whole inner intestines are perforated and leaking. She says her man has never penetrated her vagxna since marriage cos he only prefers her exit.
She passed on this morning , she bled to deAth and suffered system poisoning as her fexcal matter was leaking into her system
Ladies, please speak up to save your lives.
A young lady at work, very bright, super smart ended up getting married to a guy i silently disapproved of, I enquired a lot from her but she seemed love struck.
Few months after the wedding, she started reporting sick, it was getting too rampant that she would be away for about a week or 2 before resuming.
Her husband traveled from May to August last year and during that period, she didn't report sick. That was when my antenna stood, I knew something was wrong as she called in sick again and again and Since november till 3rd January, she'd been on admission, I visited and kept begging for her to open up to me.
Stella! Her anXs has been destroyed, the whole inner intestines are perforated and leaking. She says her man has never penetrated her vagxna since marriage cos he only prefers her exit.
She passed on this morning , she bled to deAth and suffered system poisoning as her fexcal matter was leaking into her system
Ladies, please speak up to save your lives.
I hope as many of you as possible read this and desist from such act...Its not love to allow anyone penetrate you from behind, its barbaric and wicked!!!
What did I just read? 😭
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Don't ever try to please anyone while you displease yourself in the name of love or otherwise o. Now she's gone but brother G is alive. May her soul rest in peace
I don't feel for people like that,she actually got what she wanted. May she rip
ReplyDeleteShe did not love herself
ReplyDeleteAswear, speak up to save your life if you can't na to just die your death simple abi he do her juju🙄
DeleteUnfortunate what happened to her, hope she.s finally at peace.
ReplyDeleteThat aside, anal sex can be associated with a number of pathologies but messed up and perforated intestines like you described above is unlikely. Anal tears and sphincter issues {causing incontinence- uncontrolled defaecation or even fistulas} are more common. The lady probably had something else going on medically which may or may not be related to the anal sex.
important to avoid the misinformation. There's a reason the Bible frowns against sexual deviations.....
God punish that man
ReplyDeleteThis is a heartbreaking and deeply disturbing account. My sincere condolences to the family, friends, and colleagues of the deceased. No one deserves to suffer or die under such circumstances.
ReplyDeleteWhat stands out most painfully is the clear pattern of abuse and coercion within the marriage. Any act that endangers a partner’s health, dignity, or life is not only immoral but criminal. The husband’s behavior, as described, is disgusting, inhumane, and a gross violation of marital trust and basic human decency. Marriage is not a license to harm or degrade another person.
Yes, he should be held accountable. This is not a “private marital matter”; it is abuse with fatal consequences. Silence, ignorance, or cultural excuses must not shield perpetrators from responsibility. When actions directly lead to severe injury and death, the law must take its course.
This tragic loss should serve as a serious warning and a call to action. Women must feel empowered to speak up early, seek medical and legal help, and walk away from situations that threaten their lives, no matter how they are packaged or justified.
May her soul rest in peace, and may her story not be in vain. Let it awaken consciences, protect others, and compel accountability where it has long been avoided.
Stella you posted this last week.
ReplyDeleteThe lengths some women go to just to keep a man sha
Stella you posted this last week.
ReplyDeleteThe lengths some women go to just to keep a man sha
I did not post this as a chronicle, it was from SP TO IHN n not many pple saw it so i decided to make it a chronicle cos wetin be this?
DeleteIt's so sad that she passed. It's so sad that she didn't love herself enough to walk away the moment she realized the beast she got married to. So many questions are left unanswered. Why did she remain there? Oh no!
ReplyDeleteAnd to that be4st of a man and other men alike who belong in their dirty closets but would rather choose to creep out to destroy someone's child's life all in the name of masking their choice of sexuality, may posterity be unkind to them all.
Being obedient and submissive doesn’t mean you turn over your body so a spouse can do with it as they please. Your first priority in life is to protect yourself. Nurses have seen the gaping holes of older adults who indulged in such practices in their younger years, some having to start wearing diapers much sooner in life. Rectal incontinence is real and it is a very embarrassing condition.
ReplyDeleteNothing beats the engineering of the human body. The placement and design of the anus are such that we are able to maintain our dignity throughout our lifetime so we do not stink and offend others, or attract vermins like cockroaches to our person. Changing nature never turns out well for anyone. She should have opened her mouth and spoke to someone instead of keeping it to herself. But I get why she probably did not speak up, fear of judgment and gossip likely caused her to keep silent, unfortunately with deathly results.
Whoever told women marriage makes one complete in the society is a devil .
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ 😭, Why did she allow that beast do that to her. 😭😭😭, May she RIP.
ReplyDeleteSome people enjoy it
ReplyDeleteBut never let anyone do to you what you don’t approve
Even if u wan do, at least do it carefully
Which one be do it carefully again,what happened to pu*sy bikonu hiyaaa🙄
DeleteOluwa iye mi!!! 😳😳😳
ReplyDeleteMay her soul rest in perfect peace.
Jesu, I can’t imagine her pains, God why did she remain in the marriage, what was in it for her that she couldn’t run away Jesu
DeleteWe women should be careful of what we allow because of marriage and love.
ReplyDeleteNawa
ReplyDeleteNawa
ReplyDeleteBecause of being a "mrs".... hmmmmm...
ReplyDeleteVery sad. I've already made a vow that God created the place only for number 2 and it will remain so
ReplyDeleteHow come gays don't go through exactly what happened to the dead lady.
ReplyDeleteThere is more to the story.
Dear young women, call me old fashioned, I don’t mind. Anal sex is not natural and you should NEVER engage in it or let any man make you engage in it. Run from any man that wants anal sex, he is perverted. I had a patient 16 years ago in Pennsylvania who suffered from some terrible consequences. She had a terrible smell, lived alone in a 6-room McMansion after the guy died, they had no kids and she took a bath multiple times a day and sprayed expensive perfumes yet nobody could stand near her for a minute and no doctor or nurse wanted to deal with her if they could avoid it. She was severely depressed and lived her older years in pain and sorrow. Don’t ever do it.
ReplyDeleteCall me any name but in 35 years I have never had and old never have my husband lick my plate nor would we engage in anals. Young people may disagree but these acts are more recent and were never associated with marriage 20/30 years ago, I first read about it on this blog. Do you know how many oral and throat cancers as well as other diseases that are linked to the plate thing?