She says that she felt forced into the decision after two years of harassment and pressure after their separation...
In an emotional video that she shared on Instagram, she accused Harrysong of filing a petition with “false allegations” against her, said he repeatedly shows up unannounced at her house and has made life difficult for her in Asaba where she currently lives...
She explained she’s surrendering the children for now so she can find her life and avoid further emotional harm..
She promised to file a counter‑petition and fight for her children when the time is right,and warned that she does not want them placed with household staff ….
She asked Nigerians to bear witness to her decision.
She explained she’s surrendering the children for now so she can find her life and avoid further emotional harm..
She promised to file a counter‑petition and fight for her children when the time is right,and warned that she does not want them placed with household staff ….
She asked Nigerians to bear witness to her decision.
She also told her daughters how much she loved them and said she was documenting it so that tomorrow no one would tell them that she left them for prxstitution.
She says she knows he would reply to her video and change the narrative with lies....
As long as the children are well taken care of wherever they are,that's what matters.
ReplyDeleteWith time when the dust settles you will definitely be with your children again.
Love and light Alexer,stay strong.
This is hard but it's well.
ReplyDeleteDo what you need to do, they will look for you when they grow up.
ReplyDeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteThe Victim Gender!.. all these emotional manipulations moves no one with common sense, what was the false allegations that was filed against you? Was there no evidence that was relied? You're giving up custody or the evidence against you gave you no choice?
You better be making sense when you want to say something cos all these tears and playing victim works no more, unless for people that don't have sense
Give up custody of minor girls for that matter?
DeleteMadam, you never ready talk truth of wetin really happen..
Not with baby girl and as young as they are, nah! Not right at all, they might be abused
ReplyDeleteIf they're minors, you as their mum is best to care for them.
ReplyDeleteWhy not get custody for the kids instead of being scared for their safety.....this doesn't look good to me
It is puzzling how couples who once professed love for each other can later have disagreements they are unwilling to resolve. Often, pride and selfishness prevent them from addressing these issues, leading them to label the situation as an “irreconcilable difference” rather than making the effort to communicate and find common ground. These children will now be emotionally affected.
ReplyDeleteSelfishness is what’s destroying marriages. The way marriage was planned for us is for our different goals to work for the good of the marriage/union but these days, everyone is just very selfish and doing what’s best only for them. Most people are thinking of the end at the beginning and I don’t blame some, past experiences of others have thought people bad lessons.good people are in bad marriages and bad people are with good partners.
DeleteIt will be hard for you but it's well my dear, just relax ok they are his children too,he will not harm them
ReplyDeleteThese kids are too young Harrysong. Why don't you leave them for their mom. Just be providing how you can for them , they would fare better this way I. Believe.
ReplyDeleteGirls under 5.. i empathize with you my love but that was a terrible decision.
ReplyDeleteGirls under 5.. i empathize with you my love but that was a terrible decision.
ReplyDeleteI know this is not an easy one bur i am sure you will be fine
ReplyDeleteMy heart goes out to all these kids caught In these messy adult break-ups
ReplyDeleteKids deserve stability, safety and love from both parents, not pressure or fear
This is so heartbreaking
Honestly the kids are the victims here.
DeleteOh Dear
ReplyDeleteThis Will Really Be Hard At This Their young Age
It Is Well
Hello iya Boys
It is well with you
ReplyDeleteMeanwhile Harrysong posted a video where the girls are crying saying they don't want to go to their Mommy's house and I wonder what he intends to achieve with the video. We are talking about little children here, I mean baby girls that are under the age of 6.
ReplyDeleteFalse allegations?
ReplyDeleteIf the evidences weren't strong, no court would grant the father sole custody of minors that are even females.
May God protect the girls.
The kids are very young and no one in their right senses would ask you to hands off UNLESS, there is something you are not telling us.
ReplyDeleteYour children will never forgive you. My mother sent me abroad with my uncle and his family when I was only 5 years old. Not that she was poor. She has other children, I'm the last born, and took very good care of them all but greediness did not make her see road. She wanted me to grow up abroad and send her more money on top of what she already has. She lives in her own house. She has thriving businesses yet expect more money from me. I was abused in every way since I was a child because of her, even by my own uncle, her own brother. I despise her now. I don't send her money even though I am now succesful by God's grace. I don't speak to her. Even in her old age I will never care for her, let the other children who she raised take care of her. Learn from my story. Never leave your children to anyone. No one opened their legs but you. It's better for you to coparent peacefully than for you to leave your children. Fight for your kids. If you don't, your children will never forgive you.
ReplyDeleteTake heart and forgive her please,she thought she was doing what's best for you..
DeleteExplain to her what you went through,let her understand what she did to you,let her beg you and ask for forgiveness and please accept it..
Exactly what I stated up there. A mother is the best to care for her kids except they're incompetent.
DeleteSo sorry Anon, I cannot begin to imagine all you went through 🤗💕 May God heal your heart...pls forgive your mum 🙏
Please forgive her and voice out all you passed through.
DeleteIt is well 🤗🤗
Anonymous perception is key! I honestly wish there is a way I can put out a VN to better elaborate on this cause I am too tired to type.
DeleteNow back to your view of your mom. You thought she sending you abroad was just for her own selfish reason. How about you see it that she is positioning you to have a better life than the rest of her kids. A room to thrive, a better country with better opportunities. Even you have mouthed how much you are doing well over there. Do you not see that was her plan before sending you to live with her brother.
Now the shame is on her brother who took advantage of his sister’s daughter (his niece) you and your mom are the victims here cause she trusted a piece of trash of a brother not know he was the devil’s incarnate.
Please take courage and speak with your mom. Yes she may have done it for the betterment of you and the rest of the kids but would you rather you stayed back in Nigeria and be wallowing in poverty here.
I pray their father looks after them real good
ReplyDelete'She's surrendering the children for now" Why? I guess there's something that gave the guy a upper hand in their case. But those children are too young not to have their mum around. Poor little ones.
ReplyDeleteI hope the maids don't segsualy molest those kids. That's my only concern in this perverted world
ReplyDeleteGorgeous black lady like my mother. Asa na mma. It is well. Bide your time
ReplyDeleteGod abeg help those babies.. it's well with you Nwa Oma.
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