There comes a time in life when going into a newer relationship becomes so exhausting, draining and tiring most especially when you put in your very best in the previous relationship and it didn't work out. Sometimes you were so confident and optimistic you'd put in the very best foot ever forward, only to be disappointed at the long run.
I wouldn't wanna bore you all with a long narrative about my marital status, for I have seen and read different stories and assumptions here about it from people who barely know me outside this space.
My last relationship that had marriage in sight towards the end of 2025, came to an end due to some circumstances beyond my control. There was a discovery about the family I was about going into which my family stood their ground that if I should proceed, they won't be part of it.
I don't think I wanna make public or go into details at this time since we have both moved on. I took the blame for it, she told me about it from the get-go but I didn't take it that serious. That's where I got it all wrong.
It was a tough decision to make I must say. I consulted and sought different opinions. Love sometimes isn't just enough. As difficult as it was, I took the decision and that was how it all ended few months to the traditional rites. I felt it. I wouldn't lie to anyone. Mom never stopped calling to check on me and to encourage me as well.
A month after she had gone, she called to inform me she had took in and had called to inform me. With every assurance given to take full responsibility of it, she turned it down.
She took it out.
Oh well, we've both gone our separate ways wishing each other the very best of life. Only God knows better.
It was a tough decision to make I must say. I consulted and sought different opinions. Love sometimes isn't just enough. As difficult as it was, I took the decision and that was how it all ended few months to the traditional rites. I felt it. I wouldn't lie to anyone. Mom never stopped calling to check on me and to encourage me as well.
A month after she had gone, she called to inform me she had took in and had called to inform me. With every assurance given to take full responsibility of it, she turned it down.
She took it out.
Oh well, we've both gone our separate ways wishing each other the very best of life. Only God knows better.
Happy Valentine's day Teejay, you will find love...

In due time and season you shall find the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh.
ReplyDeleteSorry about the last relationship. You were truly in love based on how you spoke so much about it.
Wishing you best of luck these season
Baba. Enjoy your freedom now wey you get am. I assure you, nothing dey wey you dey miss out on.
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DeleteAs a married man with experience abi???
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This your ordeal sounds fabricated and you know it deep inside.
ReplyDeleteYou don't need to believe it you know. At least someone here knows about it all and followed up when it was happening. I wouldn't wanna mention the person's name. If it's fabricated the person will marvel at this narrative. I'm bold to have shared it today because it's my story and the truth. Whatever you wanna believe is up to you.
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Anon, I join you to pity any BV that believes this cock and bull story. Your alibi is the BV or SDK you told the lie/cooked up story.
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DeleteWhy are pained over my life? Are you really okay. As in mentally sound.
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It is well Teejay, you'll find love with no condition attached.
ReplyDeleteI sincerely believe and hope so.
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As a free born Teejay you can’t marry an osu
ReplyDeleteFar from that, it wasn't an osu thing. She wasn't even Igbo to start with. The issue was serious. I downplayed it initially due to my strong love for her. Which family is perfect I said to myself when she initially told me about it? But when my family got knowledge of it with few others, they all kicked against it. So that was it.
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She don already born pickin?
DeleteAnon 18:50,
DeleteStop trying, you can never get it. I have no problem marrying a single Mom if I found love and stability in her provided it's one child and no dramas..
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Focus on the idea that God sometimes closes a door to save us from a room that is on fire.
ReplyDelete Remember Proverbs 3:5-6: 'Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.
You might feel like you lost a future, but God may have been answering a prayer for protection you didn't even know you prayed. He saw what was behind that door and stopped you for a reason. Trust that he is clearing the way for a love that brings you peace and not conflict.
Thanks a lot. I appreciate this. God bless you.
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Teejay, has made himself a "marital pity-party" on this blog, so tey every female BV dey pray for am🤣🤣. Scoping things😁
DeleteWell it goes both ways because they no dey study person finish
ReplyDeleteThe betrayal hurts differently and I can relate with you...
Going forward I wish you real, genuine, undiluted real and true love and it should also show in you too
Everyone has to put heads together that makes a home going well
Just take your time Sir Teejay 🎉
ReplyDeleteLove will find you someday 🎉
Sure. I will.
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Believing strongly you will find the best las las. Best wishes always
ReplyDeleteThanks.
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Living in sin to the point of ending a life. This is not a godly foundation. May you not look down on God's path for you. May you stop seeing yourself as wiser than your maker. What assurance can a man and woman stealing from the kitchen what is meant to be served on the dining table give each other? Fornication doesn't breed trust.
ReplyDeleteAll the best. May God show both of you grace.
Living in sin to the point of ending a life. This is not a godly foundation. May you not look down on God's path for you. May you stop seeing yourself as wiser than your maker. What assurance can a man and woman stealing from the kitchen what is meant to be served on the dining table give each other? Fornication doesn't breed trust.
ReplyDeleteAll the best. May God show both of you grace.
Teejay I believe your intent was to share your story. Then why say half and leave out the reason why you never proceeded with the marriage plans? If you want to say all you say or keep it to yourself. I am really trying so hard to understand you. You like everything to always be about you. You even got her pregnant before marriage na wah to you. You like drama whatever it is that made you not to marry that lady is not her fault but yours because she told you about it in the beginning but you didn't take her seriously! Read what you wrote up there BUT slowly!
ReplyDeleteI already took the blame if you read my story very well. Honestly, I didnt plan it this way. The same persons doubting my story will still not believe as well even if I had given the details of it. I only decided to share today due to the many assumptions and wrong narrative that I'm married.
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Make i laugh
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